KungFuJoe Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Your history is reality. You have a good history. I don't. I didn't always have a good history. Didn't kiss a girl until after I graduated high school. Got teased a lot because of my appearance. Didn't keep me from thinking I was worthless. I always knew I had a lot to offer someone...and they needed to deserve it.
StanMusial Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Of course disinterest is more obvious to you guys....it's what you are expecting!!! I could see how it is more obvious if it follows a pattern. If someone gets rejected often then they are likely to pick up on the cues to know when it is happening... and remember them... and it's probably a good reason to expect it too. Having said this, I would NEVER EVER approach a girl if I was expecting to get rejected. When dealing with females, ESPECIALLY ones you don't know, it's best to not have any expectations whatsoever, regarding whether or not she would reject any sort of come on. Just learn to roll with whatever comes your way.
Casablanca Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 When dealing with females, ESPECIALLY ones you don't know, it's best to not have any expectations whatsoever, regarding whether or not she would reject any sort of come on. Just learn to roll with whatever comes your way. Women can smell confidence or lack of it, just look at it as an opportunity. I know I miss 100% of the shots I don't take and I always go into it thinking this will be my shot that I make! I also know that I will probably fail, but it it can work, just gotta keep at it This commercial sums it up the most https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=45mMioJ5szc
JuneJulySeptember Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 This. I can pick up signs of disinterest alot easier, as its easier for women to show signs of disinterest, like telling me about guys she thinks are hot, avoiding contact, being unfriendly, etc. My personal favorite is when I'm trying to tell a woman an exciting story at a club/lounge and she says she's tired and then pretends to fall asleep. Yes, that's happened. As they say, Stranger than fiction. 1
phineas Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Gentlemen when you approach a girl do you look for signs of possible interest first or do you just approach without any signals from her. Also what is your approach style, as in how do you do your approaches? As for myself while this method has been shown to be a complete failure I never get signs of interest so I just talk to random (not usually total strangers but not really girls in my social circle (they are unavailable) either, mostly girls I kind of know so it would be a little less scary for her) girls who seem friendly enough and try to see if I can generate interest, if I feel like she might be interested I may decide to see if I can ask her out. I wait for them to look at me a few times then I walk up & say "hi" She knows why i'm there. If she don't look like she wants to talk I tell her "nice meeting you" and move along. I also mingle. I don't stick to one woman. I talk to as many as possible. 1
somedude81 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 I think its good to look for a sign...if a girl who is in the zone on her ipod while working out, I'm not going to approach, but if I think I catch a girl checking me out or smiling at me, I'll approach, doesnt work most often, but it does once in a while... By all means, if you do see a sign, make the approach. But I'm saying, don't just wait forever and ever for her to make that sign, because it might not come.
Casablanca Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 By all means, if you do see a sign, make the approach. But I'm saying, don't just wait forever and ever for her to make that sign, because it might not come. Well you might not get a sign either way, then still go for it. I'll approach a woman at the bar even if we haven't made eye contact, but if I get negative signs, I won't make an approach. If we meet eyes and I smile and she doesn't return the smile, I won't approach. Also I have an eagle eye for engagement/wedding rings 1
Author Necris Posted February 3, 2013 Author Posted February 3, 2013 Of course disinterest is more obvious to you guys....it's what you are expecting!!! I'm much more familiar with disinterest then interest, I never really experience interest honestly, at best women may be friendly and I'll mistake that for interest but other than that, I don't get really any signs of interest at all, women never flirt with me in really any form.
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