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What is DB?

 

Devoted Butt-kisser. Or maybe it's Devoted Boyfriend?

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I assumed it was the guy's initials or something.

 

Is there an acronym for every freakin thing?

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I assumed it was the guy's initials or something.

 

Is there an acronym for every freakin thing?

 

Sorry! It is damn boyfriend.

DH, DB, DG, DW...

 

 

Used to another forum where they are used!

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I think ErosOcean got it right. :)

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Do men think of sex constantly? Is sex really that much of a necessity to men?

 

No. And no.

 

I've gone without masturbation (and obviously no sex) for over a year and I'm fine. And I often see young attractive women when I'm out and about. Some men won't admit it, but most men can live without masturbation or sex. Women can too. They can even have productive lives while abstaining.

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Remember I said reminded daily of things to come. Not the same.

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Totally wrong dude.

My boyfriend and I have happily been together for some time now.

We live together actually. :laugh:

The two weeks are usually because I am on my period. TMI, but that is what assumptions gets you!

Oh annddddddd, my DB is 31. Not some young guy, granted he said it in a joking manner. Lighten up sir ;)

 

 

I am merely asking how often men think of sex. Is it really something you guys actively think about regularly?

 

Why cant you have sex on your period. Put a towel on the bed.

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You have your period for 2 weeks?

 

Roughly. It is caused by my birth control. It changes though. *shrug*

YES I know, it's long, normal for me though.

 

That sucks!

 

A period for two weeks should be checked out - that seems abnormal.

 

So does control in the sex department.

 

Vaginal penetration is yet one option. Don't you guys try out LOTS of other options? Sex in the shower was always fun too!

 

Or is this just you trying to manipulate and control him with punishment?

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A period for two weeks should be checked out - that seems abnormal.

 

So does control in the sex department.

 

Vaginal penetration is yet one option. Don't you guys try out LOTS of other options? Sex in the shower was always fun too!

 

Or is this just you trying to manipulate and control him with punishment?

 

 

I love how you assume it's me being controlling. :rofl

Neither of us are controlling, unlike a lot of couples we talk and have conversations about things.

 

It is normal, it just sucks. And we don't do it because HE prefers to not do it while I'm on my period. I'm fine with that, as I said, he doesn't ever complain.

I know there are other options, my boyfriend and I are perfectly happy with our sex life thank you very much. ;)

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No. And no.

 

I've gone without masturbation (and obviously no sex) for over a year and I'm fine.

 

Whoa, that's pretty darn amazing! :eek:

 

I definitely don't think most guys IRL are as focused on sex as most of the LS guys are - there's definitely a sampling bias here by sheer nature of the site. But even by RL standards I'd think a year without orgasm is an outlier! :o

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Ha, this reminds me of a bit from a comedian, forget his name, about the difference between older and younger women : When you date a 22 yr old girl, she might not want to have sex while on her period. Now an older woman ? She's going to tell you to put a towel on the bed and if you refuse: She's going to be calling you a f*cking p*ssy !:lmao:

 

Note #1 - this is obviously a generalization, just a funny bit I remembered that I thought I'd share.

 

Note #2 - MOST bC methods lighten one's period. Pills do, and IUD's make it so scant it disapears for most woman. I would not accept bleeding half my life, have you looked into all the options out there that might lighten it up for you ?

 

PS. I read the OP and laughed out loud and said to my H, Sheesh, guys can be SO stupid sometimes, open mouth insert foot, and half the time they don't even know what they did, like the puppy peeing on the carpet, and in the meantime, we women are turning into The Godfather, figuring out what an appropriate punishment shall be ! LOL

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Whoa, that's pretty darn amazing! :eek:

 

I definitely don't think most guys IRL are as focused on sex as most of the LS guys are - there's definitely a sampling bias here by sheer nature of the site. But even by RL standards I'd think a year without orgasm is an outlier! :o

 

I'm sure it is an outlier. I tried ending my streak back in the summer, watched some porn and everything. Just wasn't into it so I exited out and went about my day. Haven't looked back since.

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I am merely asking how often men think of sex.

 

It would be easier to ask how often men don't think about sex... zero...

 

It seems to me that you are trying to dig and find something to slap him with and start a fight ????

 

Are you trying to say that his masturbation means he isn't attracted to you enough anymore ? or that he is attracted with someone else ?.. if you are then you're barking up the wrong tree...

 

A guy can have sex, wake in the morning and masturbate.. if we need the release, we need the release....

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