skings Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Hi, Long story short, my ex and I broke up about 3 months ago after together for 6 months. She started dating someone 2 weeks after BU. I did the usual not-to-be-done things until new year's eve and have been completely NC since 01/01. I even resisted wish her on her birthday (yesterday) and have been on the road to recovery. I met her on an online dating site and after the BU, I subscribed to it again to get back with my life. Today her profile is showing up as one of my matches and I see that she has logged in 3 weeks ago while she was with this other guy (till this day I believe). I did click her profile out of anxiety and if she logs in the next time she may actually see that I am there too and I saw her profile. I am confused and almost want to leave her a note thru the dating site Not sure if I had a particular question in mind but love to hear your thoughts. Sht happens even when you want to stay away. I do LOVE her still.
Author skings Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Well the status read 'active OVER 3 weeks ago' which could mean the last time she logged in was when she dated me (like 8 months ago). snapped myself out of the dreams and now back to reality
geegirl Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 What are you confused about? She's still out there seeking other men. Whether she is still with that guy or not is none of your concern. Block her profile. That way nothing comes looking for you.
Samilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Isn't there an option on those sites to hide your profile from their "who's viewing me" list? Problem solved.
Author skings Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Thanks. I have deleted her contact from everywhere except this online dating site .. who would have thought huh? This is the first time I felt like NC has made me a lot stronger
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