PoppyLove89 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Okay so...to cut a long story short - there's this guy I like and I thought he liked me too up until a couple days ago. He's told me he thinks I'm 'pretty', 'cute' etc and we even gave each other endearing pet names. There's always been a flirtation and he always makes fun of me, and vice versa. We hung out properly for the first time on Monday and now I'm worried that I said or did something wrong because ever since then, he's gone......off? My friends have suggested it's because I ignored the fact that he said he thought I was cute, I just kinda 'ignored' it because I didn't want to be the girl that TOO into herself or him (after all, I don't know that he officially likes me yet and so I didn't want to risk making things awkward if he doesn't and I just assumed he did...if that makes sense?!) He doesn't text me the same now and it's a little awkward in person too but this might just be me because I now feel it's weird? As of today he's even started joking that he should have got 'that girl's' number...he never used to. He never even used to mention other girls but he'd often ask about my ex boyfriends. Was this flirtation all in my head? I'm SO confused.
czen Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Maybe it's because he thought you weren't into him, or maybe because he has decided he isn't in to you. Or, he's just trying to make you a bit jealous and insecure and make sure you think about him. Which would seem to be working. I'd just keep on flirtting with him and keep on being yourself. If he likes you, he'll ask you out. If you don't feel like waiting for that and want to get some immediate results, just ask him out yourself. 1
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