Lucy2011 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Hi, Well I thought I was doing ok, 18 months of no contact, its been really tough but I've managed. Then I made the mistake of doing some random searches on Facebook last night. So stupid. I saw that my ex is now with someone else (which I knew) but it sort of brought it home seeing it there. And she has kids, he hated kids and always told me he didn't want any but guess he's playing happy families now. Feeling very low and depressed - is this normal after 18 months? I thought I was over him, I mean I've missed him but I've been onother dates etc since.
meeji Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Well now you know not to do that again....... We all heal at different speeds. I would say it's normal. If 18 months isn't enough time to get over him maybe you just needed more time.
CptSaveAho Posted February 2, 2013 Posted February 2, 2013 Perfectly normal... just chalk it up to a bad single day
Author Lucy2011 Posted February 2, 2013 Author Posted February 2, 2013 Perfectly normal... just chalk it up to a bad single day Hi - thanks, yes you are right was a bad day and I've felt better today. I think its because he's moved on and I'm still on my own, but I am ready to meet someone so I guess thats an inprovement. Thanks again
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