ImHereImThere Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I'm not sure if this has been asked before but here I go. I often wonder what is it exactly that women look for in men that attracts them, because lately I have been seeing a lot of gorgeous women hooking up with dust balls while myself is having a hard time finding a date. WTF!! is up with that ??
runningfar Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I'm not sure if this has been asked before but here I go. I often wonder what is it exactly that women look for in men that attracts them, because lately I have been seeing a lot of gorgeous women hooking up with dust balls while myself is having a hard time finding a date. WTF!! is up with that ?? Depends on the woman. I have a friend who seriously doesn't want to date a guy that has anything to offer. She likes to be the one supporting,,. Afraid almost that it might potentially seem she is using somebody. She is a pretty woman dating guys who are pretty uniformly trash in my opinion. As for me, I look for guys who are intelligent, active, kind to everyone, and a good sense of humor. In the case of my ex husband, I let the sense of humor and intelligence overwhelm that we should not get married... (We are much better now as friends.) so those are big influences for me. I guess the first thing I notice is a guy with a quirky sense of humor, then from there I notice intelligence and other things. I don't tend to meet guys and immediately think about dating, any guy... my relationship now and those in the past have all started with friendship. I need personality to get my motor running. Physical doesn't do it on its own...
Author ImHereImThere Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Depends on the woman. I have a friend who seriously doesn't want to date a guy that has anything to offer. She likes to be the one supporting,,. Afraid almost that it might potentially seem she is using somebody. She is a pretty woman dating guys who are pretty uniformly trash in my opinion. As for me, I look for guys who are intelligent, active, kind to everyone, and a good sense of humor. In the case of my ex husband, I let the sense of humor and intelligence overwhelm that we should not get married... (We are much better now as friends.) so those are big influences for me. I guess the first thing I notice is a guy with a quirky sense of humor, then from there I notice intelligence and other things. I don't tend to meet guys and immediately think about dating, any guy... my relationship now and those in the past have all started with friendship. I need personality to get my motor running. Physical doesn't do it on its own... Excellent response that puts things in a different light giving me a better understanding of how certain women choose men.
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