mj108 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Hey---I hope you all can help me out on this one: I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months (We've known eachother for over 2 years). He use to call me all the time but for the last month he quit calling. I use to call him once a day just to tell him I was thinking about him but I quit doing that for a little over a week now. Last time I saw him was Sunday night and I haven't heard from him. I guess my question is....if he doesn't call does that mean he's not interested in me anymore? I'm not expecting him to call me every day but I atleast thought he'd call me by today (Thursday) and he hasn't. My friend told me that he was asking her if something was wrong with me.
DerangedAngel Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Were you all exclusive? My first reaction to your post was to think he was either busy, or losing interest and not being upfront about it, but My friend told me that he was asking her if something was wrong with me. ^ That's confusing. I say call him and see what's up. -DA
Author mj108 Posted August 26, 2004 Author Posted August 26, 2004 We've been seeing eachother exclusively for 6 months. Him and I talked about seeing other people and have made a pact that if we were to find someone that we would like to go out with we would let eachother know. He's told me once He doesn't see it on his end. I guess I'm the one being stubborn about calling. It's just that it seems I'm the one doing all the work. I mean, when him and I do get together it's because I plan it. If him and I talk..it's because I pick up the phone and call. I'm getting frustrated because it seems I'm the one doing everything.
DerangedAngel Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 I guess I'm the one being stubborn about calling. It's just that it seems I'm the one doing all the work. I mean, when him and I do get together it's because I plan it. If him and I talk..it's because I pick up the phone and call. I'm getting frustrated because it seems I'm the one doing everything. I hear you! And I've been there. You need to sit down and talk to him about this face to face. You deserve to know that he cares enough about you to make an effort to contact you - and plan dates with you. So, call him up and tell him you need to talk, soon. If he's still interested in you, he should understand and try to make your relationship two-sided again. -DA
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