Hyouri Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Hello! Usually I would never write for such thing, but I'm a little helpless. I need a few tips from anybody who's got some experience on this. I have a girlfriend, 20yo. I'm his first lover. She lives alone with her mom. (Father divorced when she was young... it was a nasty divorce, her mom still rages at it) Our relationship just became 2 year. Sadly I had to travel to another country last year to work. So we are in LDR for now. Lately I've been having a few things I noticed and I'm wondering if it's normal. - She doesn't call me (she says it's expensive). Usually I write sms/call her. - I send a little poem for her (she loves them) once in a month...however she never sent me such thing, sometimes she forgets the whole thing - I was the one who always went back home to her. She never did or even try to come to me. - Even if I travel home always, usually I plan the dates whether it be a movie, or coffee, or just a simple walk. - We had a talk last time where she said she doesn't feel the spark anymore, but she still loves me just in a different way (and it made her feel bad, that she can't respons to my feelings in the same way) She ensured me that she doesn't want to break up with me, it's just her feelings changed. - We talk everyday in chat, we sometimes play together with an online game and speak on voice-chat. - Lately she is never satisfied with her own body. She always thinks she is ugly even though I've been telling her that she looks beautiful. Anyone can help me solve this one? Is our relationship dead? Should I keep it and when I'm back from overseas everything will go back to normal? What should I do? Ps.: Sorry for my terrible english.
Ladybugz Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 what is it she or he? and what are you? and ldr is almost a waste of time. woman need to hsve you around. if you are not some other guy that is will get her attention talk to her maybe she is busy with school and when you are far away maybe poems etc doesnt work anymore. when you go away if its not for short you can better break up and see what is over when you come back. cause its hard for someone to trust and be alone etc while you are not there. and she is to young to keep waiting for someone.
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