jags2bowl27 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 So ive been talking to a girl now for 2 weeks, she is living about 2hrs away but moving near me i June. Last night for the first time we didnt text but she send me a message today saying "morning!" We texted all day like normal, she even called me today during lunch and we had a really good convo that flowed. She now again has not texted me TONIGHT and my mind is starting to wonder. She said she is going to drive in again this weekend (she came last weekend for a day) but with a friend this time. How can I tell if there is someone else she is talking too? She is very attractive, just got out of a relationship not to long ago too so I know its better to take it slow. I personally think taking it slow until she moves here is the best way but i have a hard time do it. I always go full force when i want something... any suggestions?
DrStrangelove Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Ha, play it cool man. Patience is your friend. I'm seeing this girl, and she never initiates the text, but when I text her reply is immediate. She has a busy schedule so sometimes I wont receive a text at all. Just know if she is interested she will drop hints. Just give it some time. I'm only a week into this girl, 2 weeks isn't that much more. They like getting chased, and they like to not hear from us all the time. my .02
lakerman34 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Timing may or may not be your friend here. June is a while away, there is usually only so long you can keep the flame lit via text messaging and what not. IDK what kind of advice to give you. Are you going to see her before June?
Samilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 So ive been talking to a girl now for 2 weeks, she is living about 2hrs away but moving near me i June. Last night for the first time we didnt text but she send me a message today saying "morning!" We texted all day like normal, she even called me today during lunch and we had a really good convo that flowed. She now again has not texted me TONIGHT and my mind is starting to wonder. She said she is going to drive in again this weekend (she came last weekend for a day) but with a friend this time. How can I tell if there is someone else she is talking too? She is very attractive, just got out of a relationship not to long ago too so I know its better to take it slow. I personally think taking it slow until she moves here is the best way but i have a hard time do it. I always go full force when i want something... any suggestions? Play it cool. Don't even try to slip in a "so what did you do last night" or anything similar. If anything, next time she calls, don't answer, call her back 20 min later and don't go with the "srry I couldn't pick up", just go with the flow.
Author jags2bowl27 Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 Yeah I mean she is only 2 hrs away so either of us can see eAchother..... And I think we could quite often. Maybe I'm over reacting, should I let her take the lead a little?
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