cjcjcj Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Recently, a man I was seeing for a very brief time ended our relationship. It left me feeling broken hearted and lost. Two years ago I met another guy that I wanted to get to know better but he didn't want to get involved with me. I seem to be taking these experiences quite hard. I found it difficult to move on from them. I find that these negative past experiences come back to haunt me. I wake up in the morning feeling empty inside. Has anyone else had this problem. What is the best cure for a broken heart?
WantanS4 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Yes... and although it might seem a bit harsh and somehow depressing.... come to conclude that your not suppose to be with anyone..... I promise you.. one day.... it'll all come together. Be patient with the life and time..... and remember that those two people never cared enough to stick around..... it will all come together..... in the meantime, spoil yourself! Do those things that you were never able to do before..... try the things that you thought you'd never try..... spoil yourself it will all come together. Oh!... and... don't hold it in... let it all OUT!..... Go out to your local music shop... and buy the songs that you know you'll break down too...... and take them home...... and let it all hang out...... just let it all come out. I didn't get over what happened to me until I did it... yes... it hurt like hell.. and in fact it felt like i was going to die... but afterward....... i was in a lull..... I was indifferent........ and that's where you want to be because eventually you'll get tired of being such... and you'll want to be happy. Spoil yourself, it will all come together eventually.
Starnette83 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 CURE FOR A BROKEN HEART 1. PRAYing and realizing the only one u can love completely is GOD and YOURSELF!!! 2. exercise, study, and EMPOWER YOURSELF...YOU are the most important person and even if ure hanging out alone its ok cuz YOU KNOW YOURE COOL AND YOU LOVE YOURSLEF 3. TIME...time heals, time helps u forget... 4. Eat healthy, knowing ure taking care of ure body will make u feel better!!! and look sexier! 5. Friends, if u have close friends..right on! if not start making friends, hang out, u dont need a MAN or a WOman in ure life to be happy...FRiends are enough sometimes:) 6. A pet can help 7. Clean your room, Clutter makes u more confused, while cleanliness just makes things more right:) 8. REPEAT TO YOURSELF: I am worthy, I am worthy, I am WORTHY!!!, i love myself, I love my life, and Everyday I will do something i love! 9. Goals..make goals..without goals u have nothing to look forward to 10. Just have FAITH!!! Anyways hope this helps.. I had a broken heart, im still mending the pieces, i think about my ex but i know i wouldnt take him back despite how much I LOVED HIM..and sometimes catch myself still loving him, but i love myself more now then to put myself through the humilation and hurt! everyday im exercising, even when i dont feel like it, i pray, and i eat healthy, and well imma go back to school and work soon so that should help to.. I gone out clubbing alone, go to the gym alone, but being alone is nto always bad, im learning alot about ME and starting to love myself and realizing i can have fun alone and i dont need a MAn to make me happy!
Jojo768 Posted October 1, 2004 Posted October 1, 2004 Jesus loves you, he will always always love you. if he is in your boat you can smile at the storm =)
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