gabriel345 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 So I don't know how many of you are familiarized with my story but anyhow I'm quite lost. I've suffered a lot during my break up, quite complicated and long. I'm going to fast forward to my current issue in which I REALLY do need, good intentioned advice. My ex and I started dating again after we broke up. It was going so so because he didn't put much effort into it even though he caused the brake up. After a great date he said he loved me and I never saw him again. We did contact each other to talk about what had happened but he never came through. I wrote him a letter giving him the options available because I do love this man so I couldn't see how I would be able to tolerate the fact that we were going to ignore each other if we ran across one day or other stupid s*** exes do. I couldn't bare it so I made an agreement before we started dating regarding this so I reminded him that on the letter. One month and a half passed and he now contacts me explaining his behavior like it had happened yesterday but the purpose, intentions and meaning are confusing, the whole letter is confusing. I do not understand it at all yet I don't really feel like writing anything back and honestly, I don't even know what to say. I'm just shocked. I was doing great but now all my feelings for him seemed to have awaken and I know I can't do anything about it. I hate this because sometimes my mind throws me flashbacks of him laughing, smells. It's horrible!! I miss him like hell but I just can't move a finger anymore. I'm stuck.
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