JuneJulySeptember Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 So, the time I've been on this message board, I've learned what people truly like in other people. It's different with friends in real life because they're not so uncensored with what they really like in people. So, I've come up with a list. 1). You must be confident. You are good looking and better looking than a lot of people. You must think you are too good for at least some members of the opposite sex. You can rate yourself no lower than a 7, even if in reality you are a 2. People hate those that think of themselves as ugly. 2) No matter who other people want to date its OK. Gold digger, shallow. Doesn't matter. You have to be OK with it. 3) you cannot whine. It doesn't matter if you are a 37 year old 4'10" virgin man who has the greatest personality but women don't like you. Nobody wants to hear it. No whining. 4) No mention of any inequities that exist between sexes whether they are true or not. Nobody wants to hear it. 5) You cannot downplay looks. You must not deny your sense of physical attraction. It doesn't matter how awesome a person is, if they are not physically attractive, they are a friend. 6) You must be able to brush off rejection. Again, it doesn't matter how many times or by whom. It doesn't matter if you're the 37 year old virgin Nobody wants to hear whining. Not in real life, on message boards, or even dare to think it. 7) You must think pain is equal across the board. It doesn't matter if you've never had a woman. Kate Upton has it just as bad as you. She hurts too, and she doesn't want to hear your sob story. Did I cover all the bases? Seems like the desirable personality is STFU and deal with it and aim to get your best. I can dig it. Not sure if I can do it.
KungFuJoe Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Agreed on all but 7. Some people have it lucky and are successful in dating their entire lives...with zero pain. They get married and live happily ever after. Others go through hell in trying to find what they want.
Imported Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Can do attitude. Not to be confused with "yes" men. Things might suck, but there is no good reason to add to it. 1
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