KungFuJoe Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I don't know why you people put SO MUCH WEIGHT on such meaningless actions as "who pursues who"??? A woman pursuing a man is THAT big a deal? Some of you really need to just relax and just "go with it"! How many more pages can this thread go? I mean, I swear the people around her are so OVERLY INTROSPECTIVE it's insane. I have absolutely no problem with either scenario. A woman asks me out? GREAT! I ask a woman out? GREAT! Sounds simple? That's because it IS! If I was SO upset over the fact that a woman would have the audacity to ask me out...I WOULDN'T BE MARRIED TODAY!!! *sigh*
D-Lish Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 So what do you think is better; being a woman or an undesirable man? An "undesirable" man is a man that believes he's undesirable. He wears that acceptance like it's a name badge once he allows that feeling to take hold. The same goes for women. If you believe you're unworthy- you'll wear that belief on your sleeve and it will turn most people away from you.
D-Lish Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 You definitely did enough, at least for me Even what you did shows much more courage than most women. Most women would have just said nothing and pretended like the guy didn't exist It's my job to make every customer I encounter to feel like I KNOW they exist. I do that to varying degrees. Maybe he might have felt I was being nice because it's my job, and perhaps that confused him. Even though I went above and beyond a normal sales encounter- he might have just felt I was doing my job. I do treat people outside of work with a similar disposition, males and females included. The difference being that I don't owe customer service to a jackass when I'm outside of my work environment, and they'll feel the wrath if they are rude to me, or someone else in my presence. To all you people in customer service- I'm the person that will step in when you're being mistreated by a customer And I'm within ear shot. I am getting off topic a bit. Back to the discussion.
Monm82 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I'd rather be a woman when it comes to dating and sex options.
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 An "undesirable" man is a man that believes he's undesirable. He wears that acceptance like it's a name badge once he allows that feeling to take hold. The same goes for women. If you believe you're unworthy- you'll wear that belief on your sleeve and it will turn most people away from you. Nah, I don't buy that at all. Getting rejected by every girl I have ever been interested in has told me that I was undesirable. It's not a thought I had in my head that I had before I started asking out girls. Lastly, nobody I meet in the real world will know that I believe I am undesirable. No people, not even women are psychic.
AlexDP Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Nah, I don't buy that at all. Getting rejected by every girl I have ever been interested in has told me that I was undesirable. It's not a thought I had in my head that I had before I started asking out girls. Lastly, nobody I meet in the real world will know that I believe I am undesirable. No people, not even women are psychic. Just build a great body. That's not all that hard and it gets a foot in the door. Or you just break the door.
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 LOL, with Somedude's attitude, he wouldn't get girls if he was a 6'3 male model with a mansion and sports car Cute, but you don't know me at all. If I had my same exact personality, same face and body type, but 5'10. I'd have no issues getting women. Though since I'm not tall, the only thing I can do to improve my appearance is work out.
Emilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Lastly, nobody I meet in the real world will know that I believe I am undesirable. No people, not even women are psychic. You don't have to be psychic to recognise when someone has insecurity/self-esteem issues. Most people are apt enough to read at least some of another's character, especially with experience.
Emilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I jokingly asked if he needed me to call for a carry-out (which was funny because he only had one small item)... He didn't get the joke at first and politely said "no thanks" before realizing the joke and nervous laughing again. Doesn't sound like you missed out on much
AlexDP Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Cute, but you don't know me at all. If I had my same exact personality, same face and body type, but 5'10. I'd have no issues getting women. Though since I'm not tall, the only thing I can do to improve my appearance is work out. Do you like being around unhappy depressed women?
BetheButterfly Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I love being a woman but I don't think being a woman is better than being a man or being a man is better than being a woman. No way! They are just different. Different isn't better than; it's just diversity. My husband didn't chase me and I didn't chase him. Rather, it happened naturally... chemistry. Is the thunder better than lightning? I don't think so. Is lightning better than thunder? Nope. Both are awesome!!! In the same way, men and women are both awesome!!! 1
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Do you like being around unhappy depressed women? Do you think I act unhappy and depressed when I'm around other people?
KungFuJoe Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Do you think I act unhappy and depressed when I'm around other people? I think however you present yourself online is actually a truer representation of yourself. Speaking in general.
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I think however you present yourself online is actually a truer representation of yourself. Speaking in general. What you see online, is the side of me that I keep repressed when I go outside. When I'm out it's something I do naturally. I just don't think about the negative things. Why should I when there are girls around?
Emilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Do you think I act unhappy and depressed when I'm around other people? Yes .......
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Yes ....... You caught me. And just in-case that people can't tell how sad I am, I look like this everyday. My shadow's the only one that walks beside me
KungFuJoe Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 What you see online, is the side of me that I keep repressed when I go outside. When I'm out it's something I do naturally. I just don't think about the negative things. Why should I when there are girls around? Well, I don't know you personally...you COULD be the happiest person around in public. What I do know that, unless you are a sociopath, it's very very difficult to hide your true persona. You might think you are, but it will still be present in your vibe. 1
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Here's a simple question. Is every single one of my posts here sad and negative?
veggirl Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I bet 1/2 of the regulars on LS are depressed and on anti-depressants. TONS of people IRL are not truly all that happy but come off as the life of the party, happy go lucky, outgoing etc. Many of the most outgoing are the most miserable. It's very possible to be happy and friendly in public and not so much behind closed doors 1
Emilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 You caught me. And just in-case that people can't tell how sad I am, I look like this everyday. My shadow's the only one that walks beside me I think you underestimate people around you. It would definitely work in your favour more than anything else if you worked on relating to others better.
Emilia Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Here's a simple question. Is every single one of my posts here sad and negative? I'd say about 99% of them. About 90% of them are only about you exclusively
somedude81 Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 I'd say about 99% of them. Ha ha! That's it, I'm never taking another one of your posts seriously. You've already made up your mind about me, and I shall do the same for you.
KungFuJoe Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Here's a simple question. Is every single one of my posts here sad and negative? Not every one...but a LOT have a very self deprecating overtone.
AlexDP Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 Ha ha! That's it, I'm never taking another one of your posts seriously. You've already made up your mind about me, and I shall do the same for you. She was being generous.
AlexDP Posted February 1, 2013 Posted February 1, 2013 You caught me. And just in-case that people can't tell how sad I am, I look like this everyday. My shadow's the only one that walks beside me Makes sense you like Green Day.
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