AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 You guys really think sex is easier for women? The act alone-maybe. I'm really struggling reading posts about men who don't get laid because the men I meet have NEVER talked like this....people are confusing. I think the act is much more difficult. Being penetrated really does not sound fun
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Some times i think its better to be a men. Cause i think they go from woman to woman never get hurt. They can walk at night without fear of some perv grabbing them.and when it comes to men people dont try sexual stuff on them. And they can beat them up more easily cause they are more strong. They can get away with a lot without any kind of consequences. Like make babys never look back. Its like everything seems so easy for those bastards. But when i look at the reality i think i should be happy for what im. Cause the men do go true things like woman do but they deal different with it. And there is a reason why there is a men and a woman. Cause they can do all by themselves. And beside a men can do what ever he wants, but if he woman say no, he cant do anything. hahahhaahhaha Like they can flirth with you make the best date ever for you. they can do what ever to have sex with you sweet talk and all. they can do the greatest wedding propose, but if we say no. notthing will happen! hahahaha No, they'll just find someone else to sleep with and or marry.
Emilia Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 penetrated really does not sound fun You serious? You know how fantastic it is to have sex with a guy who can give his woman multiple orgasms? 1
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 You seem to be talking about several different issues in your post. I counted four different topics, possibly more. Women communicate in a different way then men do. Men are more focused and women jump around which can leave a man feeling lost. I don't know if you're talking about a lack of communication from men or how some guys are players. I'm questioning the men being more focused thing? I've not met a man like this...maybe I haven't met one serious man? I don't know..it's confusing like I said and I have many thoughts on the topic of men. So sorry for the different topics lol
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Yeah I might have one or two people that I know real well that I'll talk to about my struggles every now and then. Otherwise? I don't tell anyone. I'm pretty much the same way. The only people in real life who know my struggles, are my parents and grandparents. And I haven't even talked about it with them in over a year. It's been a while since my grandmother last asked me if I had a girlfriend. The last female friends I had knew that I wanted a GF but nothing else deeper than that. I never talked about how I hate being single, how it affects my self-esteem, what I think of sex, anything like that. I only discuss those things online. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 If that's the case..you can't wonder or complain when a woman has no clue what you're thinking, what you want and quits talking you to. Uh, well why would I tell a woman I'm trying to date that I have a hard time getting dates or that I've never kissed a girl? That's a one way ticket to nowhere. If I was actually dating a girl, I'm pretty sure she'd know I was interested. 1
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I'm pretty much the same way. The only people in real life who know my struggles, are my parents and grandparents. And I haven't even talked about it with them in over a year. It's been a while since my grandmother last asked me if I had a girlfriend. The last female friends I had knew that I wanted a GF but nothing else deeper than that. I never talked about how I hate being single, how it affects my self-esteem, what I think of sex, anything like that. I only discuss those things online. Wouldn't it be nice to meet a woman and be able to share those things with her? Why are men afraid?
AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 You serious? You know how fantastic it is to have sex with a guy who can give his woman multiple orgasms? Yeah, I know women say it's fantastic. And it probably is. But it must be harder than what the guy is doing. Going inside someone is easier than having someone go inside you, no ?
Mrlonelyone Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 As someone who actually knows what it's like from both of those perspectives. Neither side has a real advantage. The advantage of being in the agressive masculine role and pursuing the woman you choose is that you have the power to pursue until absolute failure. The disadvantage is that more often than not you will fail, no matter how good looking, rich, or powerful you will fail. Failing can hurt and humiliate or even cause legal trouble. The advantage of being the woman is that you can just sit back and accept or reject whoever pursues you without ever having to face rejection. The disadvantage is that you have to accept the best of whatever comes on the gamble that you won't find better. Both sides have some control. One more thing. In matriarchal matrilinear societies like American Indian cultures the women did the choosing and pursuing of the men. It's not nature it's just cultre that dictates this.
Emilia Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Going inside someone is easier than having someone go inside you, no ? I'd say it's directly related to how much you fancy the person rather than what what genitalia you have. It's amazing what my body and brain do when I'm really into the guy I'm with. It's like being in another state of mind completely. 1
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Wouldn't it be nice to meet a woman and be able to share those things with her? Why are men afraid? That she'll say to herself "what a hopeless loser" and run away and never talk to me again. Worse case scenario she tells all her friends who tell their friends.
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Wouldn't it be nice to meet a woman and be able to share those things with her? Why are men afraid? I'd actually have no issue talking about these things with woman. But I'd have to be very close to her and trust her immensely. I've never had a girlfriend, so I've never been close enough to a girl to really open up to her.
AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Wouldn't it be nice to meet a woman and be able to share those things with her? Why are men afraid? Women are not interested in a man's problems. You can talk all you want, but they're just not. Never.
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 That she'll say to herself "what a hopeless loser" and run away and never talk to me again. Worse case scenario she tells all her friends who tell their friends. I don't see why a woman would do this...I as a woman appreciate intimacy and communication from a man.
AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I don't see why a woman would do this...I as a woman appreciate intimacy and communication from a man. You think you do, but you don't.
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Women are not interested in a man's problems. You can talk all you want, but they're just not. Never. I think a serious woman with a true intent to get to know someone would be interested in how a man feels. 1
Emilia Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Women are not interested in a man's problems. You can talk all you want, but they're just not. Never. So you never talk to your girlfriend about things that bug you or upset you?
Emilia Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I think a serious woman with a true intent to get to know someone would be interested in how a man feels. I think so too. 1
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 You think you do, but you don't. I know what I think/want, I don't need a man telling me I'm wrong.
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I don't see why a woman would do this...I as a woman appreciate intimacy and communication from a man. Once in a committed relationship I could see that, and I'd probably consider revealing such information. But, when just in the initial dating stages, women do not want to hear that the guy they're on a date with couldn't get a date with anyone else. 1
AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I know what I think/want, I don't need a man telling me I'm wrong. Yeah, you do. Because now you're just giving bad advice to someone and that is hurtful.
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I think a serious woman with a true intent to get to know someone would be interested in how a man feels. As a friend, or a potential romantic partner? Would you want a guy you were interested dating, to tell you that he hates his life because he's always been single and that he wants to know what it's like to have sex with a girl who actually likes him? Odds are hearing something like that would kill all desire you had for him. 2
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Once in a committed relationship I could see that, and I'd probably consider revealing such information. But, when just in the initial dating stages, women do not want to hear that the guy they're on a date with couldn't get a date with anyone else. I believe in friendship being the foundation to long term relationships. You're going to have to be brave and try to find that one person who will hear you and care.
AlexDP Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 So you never talk to your girlfriend about things that bug you or upset you? Of course I do. But rarely. And certainly not before I got to know her better. Look, as a man you can bond with other men talking about your problems. If you do that with women, they'll just label you a loser. Best to prove you're not a loser first. 1
superb Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Yeah, you do. Because now you're just giving bad advice to someone and that is hurtful. I'm not really giving advice, I was sharing thoughts. If words on the internet from a strangers hurt you then you shouldn't be online.
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