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KungFuJoe Established Member

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That's terrible man, knowing how to fight is an essential skill all humans should know, you never know when you'll need it. Also I'd recommend getting a weapon and learning how to use it for the same reason.

 

Though I agree if a group of men were mocking my girl (assuming I had one), I would not start a fight, especially if I could easily avoid them. Though if they were attacking her I would have no choice but to defend her.

 

I'm going to assume your first paragraph is a joke.

 

NO ONE needs to learn how to fight. Unless you want to do it for a living.

Necris Established Member

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I'm going to assume your first paragraph is a joke.

 

NO ONE needs to learn how to fight. Unless you want to do it for a living.

 

Its always good to be prepared you never know what situation you can end up in, and knowing at least some basics in self defense (includes knowing how to use weapons as well) could help save your life or the life of someone else.

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pureinheart Established Member

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expect your boyfriend to fight 4 or 5 guys to protect you or would you be normal enough to know that your man is at a disadvantage and would be crazy to try and fight

 

 

Mt female friend said she expects her man to still defend her??????? lol

 

Nope, my buttons can be easily pushed at times, but rarely crosses over to stupid. I know who I am and noone needs to defend my honor. I see it for what it is, just a gang of stupid trying to start something.

 

This really did happen one time...at a work party this big biker dude came up and said to my now ex...hey do you mind if I kiss your wife and he came toward me (there was a whole bunch of biker dudes from the table he came from)...I looked at him like, touch me and you'll meet Jesus right here and now... he backed off.

 

This caused my ex to feel inadequet I guess and when we got home he grabbed his gun and became abusive with me when I tried to stop him from going after the biker dudes. We were divorced soon after.

Mr_Flay Established Member

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That's terrible man, knowing how to fight is an essential skill all humans should know, you never know when you'll need it. Also I'd recommend getting a weapon and learning how to use it for the same reason.

 

I agree about the skill part, it's best to know as many skills as possible, but fighting doesn't strike me as a very necessary one. You can know how to fight, but unless you're Bruce Lee or Bud Spencer, you'll still be easily overwhelmed by sheer numbers or killed afar by a bullet. Even martial arts doesn't seem to help much against that, especially more tournament-oriented ones. Carrying weapons is illegal in my country, but I do have a mace spray in an easily accessible pocket when I'm out at night.

 

I've also developed a skill called "avoiding dangerous situations", which helps me much too. I don't live in a dangerous city anyway, and I don't provoke people. Must be something about my face. Even hard-core bullies at school never touched me; some even put me under their special protection because I made them laugh and helped them out with schoolwork from time to time. So you can say I let others do the fighting for me. :cool:

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expect your boyfriend to fight 4 or 5 guys to protect you or would you be normal enough to know that your man is at a disadvantage and would be crazy to try and fight

 

 

Mt female friend said she expects her man to still defend her??????? lol

 

My husband has very nicely yet firmly talked with some guys who had catcalled me. He didn't curse them, yell at them, or try to fight them. Rather, he told them that I am his wife and through his body language made it very clear that he loves me and takes protecting me seriously. :love:

 

I am glad that he did not start a fight, and I am glad that the guys who had been catcalling me didn't try to fight my hubby but rather seemed to respect what my husband said. After that, they completely ignored me from then on. I appreciate that.

Defending a woman's honor does not have to mean violence. It can mean just simply for the man to with calm words show that women are worthy of respect. :love:

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Mrlonelyone Established Member

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Everyone talking tough about knowing how to fight needs to seriously consider that the person they try their Muy Tai on may well have a pistol in their waistband.

 

Getting in a physical fight is not about "defending honor" or whatever. Heck, back when people did fight over a woman's honor they did it with guns and for keeps.

 

 

Oh, and in exchange women had to provide regular sex, marriage and children and couldn't vote either...

 

Bottom line...Don't fight over any woman who isn't your mother, your sister, your daughter or your wife. Even then if and only if they are physically threatened by their attacker.

serial muse Established Member

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The uGLY FACE is necessary when you are walking toward a bunch of guys to let them know........"Don't even think about it"

 

I was going to post a link to what I imagine this "ugly face" looks like but then I Googled "ugly face images" and I...just couldn't. What I have seen cannot be unseen.

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AD1980 Established Member

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Unless the person is being physically attacked in this day and age fighting over words is stupid considering that person could have something on them

 

If a women leaves me or gets mad at me for not fighting over something somebody says then dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out

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My husband can be very intimidating when needed, and he also has a brown belt in karate, so he wouldn't back off easily. If there were just one or two guys, he'd probably take them on. If there were more, he'd probably say something angry and hostile, but walk quickly away with me. He wouldn't leave me to be harrassed. He once gave a guy a swift karate chop who had grabbed my arm.

Necris Established Member

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Everyone talking tough about knowing how to fight needs to seriously consider that the person they try their Muy Tai on may well have a pistol in their waistband.

 

Getting in a physical fight is not about "defending honor" or whatever. Heck, back when people did fight over a woman's honor they did it with guns and for keeps.

 

 

Oh, and in exchange women had to provide regular sex, marriage and children and couldn't vote either...

 

Bottom line...Don't fight over any woman who isn't your mother, your sister, your daughter or your wife. Even then if and only if they are physically threatened by their attacker.

 

I'm talking about learning survival skills, I'm not saying to get into fights, if they can be avoided, avoid them. But sometimes the fights may come to you, also learning how to fight includes learning how to effectively use a gun (I recommend owning one if possible) or knife as well. What if someone starts attacking you or the person you love are you going to just take it? Wait half an hour for police?

 

Also for women knowing how to fight could even help them survive a rape attempt.

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yongyong Established Member

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depends on what kind of girl you are with.

 

Is she a trashy looking girl who will fist fight other girls at a bar?

then I understand her logic.

sweetkiwi Established Member

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I would prefer verbal disagreements be met with a verbal conversation.

 

But if some girl is attacking my man I would break her. And I expect my man to do the same if I am even physically attacked.

 

The last fight I got in a good friend attacked me. I neutralized her. (Pinned her down). Tried to say how we shouldn't be fighting, we're friends blah blah

 

She was wriggling loose and scratching my face cat style. So I started wailing on her head/face. Then I thought I ended the fight by picking her up and throwing her into the nearby wall. But after I sat down she threw my laptop at me....

 

And before leaving, keyed my car. You sometimes can't avoid crazy.

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PhillyDude Established Member

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My husband has very nicely yet firmly talked with some guys who had catcalled me. He didn't curse them, yell at them, or try to fight them. Rather, he told them that I am his wife and through his body language made it very clear that he loves me and takes protecting me seriously. :love:

 

I am glad that he did not start a fight, and I am glad that the guys who had been catcalling me didn't try to fight my hubby but rather seemed to respect what my husband said. After that, they completely ignored me from then on. I appreciate that.

Defending a woman's honor does not have to mean violence. It can mean just simply for the man to with calm words show that women are worthy of respect. :love:

 

 

My friend said she wants the guy to be Aggressive verbally or physically if she is disrespected by a group of guys lol

miss_jaclynrae Established Member

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I would defend myself thank you very much.

I've done it before, I could do it again.

I once had a guy literally slap my ass when I walked by at a club.

 

 

I turned around and slapped the **** out of him so fast.

It was PRETTY effing awesome. ;)

123321 Established Member

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Some of you people need to bring your custom to better places.

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Els Established Member

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Don't think about what?

 

Nevermind...you're so full of ****, it's pouring out your ears.

 

You're probably giving me the ugly face now, aren't you?

 

I somehow don't think he can switch it on and off at will. :lmao::o

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PhillyDude Established Member

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I somehow don't think he can switch it on and off at will. :lmao::o

 

 

 

Why u never seen me?

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