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Ok, I'm going to assume this is MAJOR hyperbole.

 

Unless this Indian dude looked like THawk from Street Fighter, no way he gets away with that ****...

 

I could not believe it myself. but every single time and it worked always. sometimes we would walk in to a 7/11 type place late at night and out of no where walk up to another guy (again, our age 20-25) and smack him like a bitch. I could not stop laughing. an indian tall skinny phukk.

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I could not believe it myself. but every single time and it worked always. sometimes we would walk in to a 7/11 type place late at night and out of no where walk up to another guy (again, our age 20-25) and smack him like a bitch. I could not stop laughing. an indian tall skinny phukk.

 

I wouldn't hang around with that dude. He's going to get mashed one day and probably whoever is with him will too.

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Now now, this isn't the 1950's. Women have been telling men for decades that they aren't allowed to expect certain behavior just because she's a female.

 

Why should it be any different the other way around?

 

there are many women who still look for that. someone who knows how to protect and care fro her, treat her like a lady, knows how to court. old school style. I specifically date those women. and they specifically look for guys like me. dont forget, I dont live in the US. people here are more traditional when it comes to dating.

 

its also why I had a huge advantage over other guys when I did OLD. at times I dated 2-3 women in a week. went out on a date, didnt work, came back, went on another, didnt like, went back, and again and again.

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I wouldn't hang around with that dude. He's going to get mashed one day and probably whoever is with him will too.

 

yea, he sat in jail many times for assault. after a while, I was too stressed with all his crap. it was tiring. he was a douche in every way possible. I didnt like what he did but I couldnt stop laughing. its like watching someone stumble and fall. you feel bad for them but yet you cant help but laugh.

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This happened to us once when we were young.

 

My husband is big & tall and looks like a bouncer, so no one usually messes with him.

 

However, one time were in Fells Point, which is an area that has a lot a of popular bars and everyone usually goes from bar to bar. It was my birthday, and in one of the bars the DJ said Happy Birthday to me over the mic. Later, this drunk dude kept showing up and singing to me. My husband gave him the look, told him to back off and he disappeared. Later, we went outside. I was sitting on a stool and the guy came up and started singing but this time he put his hand on my leg, I moved it and told him to eff off but he put it back. My husband hit him and he dropped, and all of the sudden all his friends appeared out of nowhere and started to fight my husband. Then my husband's friends joined in and before you knew it, it was an all out bloody street brawl for about five straight minutes until the cops showed up and everyone took off running. I could smell the testosterone.

 

I would not have expected him to "defend my honor", but that is just the way he is. He was patient at first because the guy was drunk, but was pushed to the limit and that point wasn't thinking about consequences. It wasn't smart, he could've easily been stabbed or shot.

 

This is also somewhat of a culture thing. I grew up in an urban environment, and for some people, dying was a better option than being disrespected. They didn't see walking away as smart, but as weak. For them, it wasn't always a matter of surviving that particular situation, but surviving the next day and the day after that. Being seen as weak and afraid can have it's own consequences, depending on your environment.

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I'll be here to console your wife and daughter after you get yourself stabbed to death over harsh language.

 

Two daughters. They like Hello Kitty and Lalaloopsies.

 

My wife likes shoes and purses.

 

That should keep them happy until the memory me of fades....

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I would never let my man put himself in harms way. I, however have crazy eyes, a Sicilian temper, and a sharp tongue. I worked in a biker bar where the bartender ( me, 5 ft tall 100 lb female) basically had to be the bouncer.

 

Nothing shuts up big, rude dude's like a tiny little blonde hurricane of fury and verbiage yelling at them like she's their mother or kindergarten teacher. ( "Joseph Turner, you will NOT act like this in MY bar, and **** with MY job. You, go sit over there, and Tom you sit over there and I better not see you boys acting like this again")

 

That removes the ego/ testosterone portion from the situation and they would look like HUGE pussies if they hit a lil' gal the size of a 5th grader. Works every time. :cool:

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I remember in sydney when the navy boys(pussers) came to town , there were some really tall guys in there over six footers and well built physically fit, and there ended up a major fight over a girl and no it wasnt me,so it was locals on to the navy military trained boys........this five foot nothing guy did a running airborne leap,clean knock out kign hit on a six foot built like a house pusser,he did have martial arts training though the five footer,thats why you never underestimate your opponent no matter what size they are....the taller you are the harder you fall, this five footer would literally bounce back up again like those penguins on office desks just couldnt keep him down......he got a lot of respect that night...... from guys of course....i thought they were all stupidly drunk, and would have hangovers to remember with their serve of black eyes and sore jaws..deb

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expect your boyfriend to fight 4 or 5 guys to protect you or would you be normal enough to know that your man is at a disadvantage and would be crazy to try and fight

 

 

Mt female friend said she expects her man to still defend her??????? lol

 

Depends on what kind of disrespect.

 

If it's anything deep, and we're not in the wrong neighborhood (which you shouldnt be in the first place).... then anything goes.

Me having been a boxer when I was younger would probably stand a chance :p.

 

I fought once 2 guys when I was in high school, cuz one of them disrespected my 1st gf. Beat the crap out of one of them. Got punched in the face by the second...

 

I honestly hope my ex-gfs panties dripped a bit from that :p

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I have done the stare down myself and it worked well since I;m 6'5 and 250

 

How big did you have to be before you became bullet-proof?

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I could not believe it myself. but every single time and it worked always. sometimes we would walk in to a 7/11 type place late at night and out of no where walk up to another guy (again, our age 20-25) and smack him like a bitch. I could not stop laughing. an indian tall skinny phukk.

 

First off, your friend is crazy and should be in jail.

 

Second, big difference between assaulting random people who are minding their own business, and taking the bait from a group of guys already spoiling for a fight. But hey, go do crazy suicidal things, feel free. Have your friend post the video of you getting squashed.

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Now now, this isn't the 1950's. Women have been telling men for decades that they aren't allowed to expect certain behavior just because she's a female.

 

Why should it be any different the other way around?

 

I feel for you that not one woman on here is seriously suggesting that a man should place himself at risk in the situation mooted. Makes your posts a bit redundant.

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First off, your friend is crazy and should be in jail.

 

Second, big difference between assaulting random people who are minding their own business, and taking the bait from a group of guys already spoiling for a fight. But hey, go do crazy suicidal things, feel free. Have your friend post the video of you getting squashed.

 

 

I see your reply might be because you got your azz whopped many times and its a sensitive issue for you? what he did, was him, not me. I dont condone his actions. I said he's a douche and he should be locked up for a long time. im not in contact with the guy for 20 years or so. everyone does stupid things at that age. and no, I wont be getting squashed anytime soon.

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I was friends with this crazy guy when I lived in the US. 80's. tall skinny guy. indian! yes indian. and when we were out late at night, for the phukk of it he would go up to a group of guys (our age) and to the biggest guy there, throw a punch across his face. all of the others dispersed like ants when you step on a group of them. it was hilarious. no one would mess with him.

 

phillydude, I dont know how you weigh 250lbs/6.5" and people still would p***k with you? you must have a wimp sign on your forehead.

 

I told my GF that anyone would disrespect her, it would be clobber time. I would give my life for my partner. I will love, protect and care fro her if it means my life as well. if it comes to that, so be it. but I will not let anyone talk disrespectfully to my lady. it hasnt happened yet but also im a pretty big guy and guys are intimidated.

 

it may be stupid in some peoples eyes (not mine) but I call it being a gentleman (chivalry, ya know?) and sticking up for her. more boys need to act like men today. no wonder so many are clueless on who wears the pants today. I would be embarrassed if my boyfriend didnt say anything.

 

 

I never had that problem, it was just a question. Whenever I;m out with a girl and see a bunch of guys I always give them the "Ugly Face". It's a look the girl never sees only the guys that we are around in public

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I never had that problem, it was just a question. Whenever I;m out with a girl and see a bunch of guys I always give them the "Ugly Face". It's a look the girl never sees only the guys that we are around in public

 

LOL. You either walk around with a permanent chip on your shoulder, or you have issues.

 

Actually...I think I just need to say you have issues. Don't know why I was being redundant.

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How big did you have to be before you became bullet-proof?

 

 

6'5 is not bullet proof but it's the look that says......"I got some HEAT on me too"

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LOL. You either walk around with a permanent chip on your shoulder, or you have issues.

 

Actually...I think I just need to say you have issues. Don't know why I was being redundant.

 

 

The uGLY FACE is necessary when you are walking toward a bunch of guys to let them know........"Don't even think about it"

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The uGLY FACE is necessary when you are walking toward a bunch of guys to let them know........"Don't even think about it"

 

Don't think about what?

 

Nevermind...you're so full of ****, it's pouring out your ears.

 

You're probably giving me the ugly face now, aren't you?

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I was friends with this crazy guy when I lived in the US. 80's. tall skinny guy. indian! yes indian. and when we were out late at night, for the phukk of it he would go up to a group of guys (our age) and to the biggest guy there, throw a punch across his face. all of the others dispersed like ants when you step on a group of them. it was hilarious. no one would mess with him.

 

phillydude, I dont know how you weigh 250lbs/6.5" and people still would p***k with you? you must have a wimp sign on your forehead.

 

I told my GF that anyone would disrespect her, it would be clobber time. I would give my life for my partner. I will love, protect and care fro her if it means my life as well. if it comes to that, so be it. but I will not let anyone talk disrespectfully to my lady. it hasnt happened yet but also im a pretty big guy and guys are intimidated.

 

it may be stupid in some peoples eyes (not mine) but I call it being a gentleman (chivalry, ya know?) and sticking up for her. more boys need to act like men today. no wonder so many are clueless on who wears the pants today. I would be embarrassed if my boyfriend didnt say anything.

 

It depends, i'm about the same size as him and 99% of the time guys are extra nice to me because they are flat out scared of me. And anyone says when they meet me I look scary. But lately it seems like it's people wanting to start something because I am the biggest guy there. I had something a few months back, a guy was stumbling around, bumped into me and a bunch of others, a girl I was with asked him if he wanted a water. He got pissed off and was starring me down, and 2 of his friends kept circling me and my friends. I was in a ****ty mood and if I didn't have a messed up shoulder, I would of told him to get the f*ck out of my face before I disfigure it. Normally I never want to fight, but certain times I just get sick of people.

 

But i'm normally all for solving with words. But if say 5 guys physcially did something to a girl I was with I would throw down in a second. The thing is, a lot of guys are pussies and you hit 1 or 2 and the rest will run away. But if a bunch of guys just made a comment, i'm not going to fight them.

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Don't think about what?

 

Nevermind...you're so full of ****, it's pouring out your ears.

 

You're probably giving me the ugly face now, aren't you?

 

 

It's a uncontrollable reaction for STRAIGHT MEN when they are with their girl and come across a bunch of dudes and they all get the ugly face that says

 

"what?, you cool?

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I never had that problem, it was just a question. Whenever I;m out with a girl and see a bunch of guys I always give them the "Ugly Face". It's a look the girl never sees only the guys that we are around in public

 

Its called the 'mean mug' face..

Ya douche.

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Its called the 'mean mug' face..

Ya douche.

 

 

Same thing LOL

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I see your reply might be because you got your azz whopped many times and its a sensitive issue for you? what he did, was him, not me. I dont condone his actions. I said he's a douche and he should be locked up for a long time. im not in contact with the guy for 20 years or so. everyone does stupid things at that age. and no, I wont be getting squashed anytime soon.

 

LOL. No, actually I'm surprised I haven't killed anyone yet. Hopefully you run into someone like me and in the last few moments of your life, you realize just how wrong you've been. About everything.

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I can more than handle mine in a fight but I prefer peace. A friend got killed over a bar fight so it is nothing to glamorize. If a woman was in danger I would do anything I can to protect her but I would never put my life in danger and she would never expect me to.

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I've never had to fight in my life. I probably wouldn't even know how to throw a punch, LOL.

 

That's terrible man, knowing how to fight is an essential skill all humans should know, you never know when you'll need it. Also I'd recommend getting a weapon and learning how to use it for the same reason.

 

Though I agree if a group of men were mocking my girl (assuming I had one), I would not start a fight, especially if I could easily avoid them. Though if they were attacking her I would have no choice but to defend her.

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