DisturbedPerversion Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 So there's a guy that works at a place that I go to every week that's married. I like him and I know for a fact that he has a crush on me (he's admitted it). He touches me, overly flirts, slyly hints at the thought of wanting to have sex. Basically he can only do so much because he's on the job, and we're in public. Only thing is, he's mentioned outloud (though not directly to me) that he's married and has a baby. He's told my guy friend that his wife is the most beautiful woman he's been with, and he's happily married. Pretty confusing. I just don't get how someone could be "happily married", but yet be interested in someone else?
uriel Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Here's how (take your pick): 1) he's horny for variety 2) at home, he and his wife have lots of responsibilities (like a baby) -- which is no fun -- and at work he's free to play (which is carrying over into sexual play) 3) he's shallow, selfish, and feels trapped by his commitments (he wants to be a free young man again, able to play the field) 4) his wife isn't as sexually active with her new baby body and schedule (and he's really not being understanding about that) 5) you seem like a possibly easy lay with no strings -- responsive to his advances and not too concerned about the fact that he's a married man 6) he loves to get his fragile ego stroked by female attention (and his wife's attention is already locked in, so it's no challenge and no big boost anymore) 7) he's looking for a way out of his marriage, an easy way by doing you and getting caught then bolting for the hills 8) all of the above -- uriel
2Confuzed Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 I totally agree. He's telling other people he's happily married but has never told you, he's a jerk. A horny jerk at that. All he wants is a piece of ass and I feel sorry for his wife. Don't let this go any further then it has. He only wants to use you. You're worth more than that. Don't do it.
littleflowerpot Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 damn, uriel, that was pretty good. the reason i thought of immediately is that men like strange vaginas and then the other thought was that all of us, men and women, can be extremely attracted to another person even if we love the person we're with.
Karlise13 Posted August 27, 2004 Posted August 27, 2004 One of my former work associates cheated on his wife constantly. Even though she was incredibly beautiful (he was very proud of her beauty and showed pictures of her to everyone). He admitted to me that he just got bored with the relationship some years back, wasn't really cut out for monogamy but was hanging in 'until the kids were older' He loved his kids and was fond of his wife, but he was constantly on the lookout for bored women who wanted a quickie with a wealthy guy. He found plenty of them, believe me.
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