silicone Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I did something I very deeply regret, that was to look at what was attractive to women ( given that I was, at the time, in a relating with an female trans ). I've always known that I was a short guy. I was a popular guy at school, and I'm still somewhat popular today. It just didn't occur to me what the potential implications of being short was. My first exposure was on Twitter, followed by months of forum posts. I didn't reveal my "insecurity" to my girlfriend at the time, and the only time I did, she said she didn't like being tall. Apart from that, I am very good at hiding my feelings and not letting them get in the way of life. A few weeks ago, my girlfriend broke up with me via email, then confused me as she email me having a go at me for something. I had slowly been recovering but I've never hit the milestone I needed to regain my confidence. How does one rebuild their confidence? How do I stop feeling inferior? How do I stop being so aware of others' heights?
TouchedByViolet Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 First of all, getting dumped will mess with anyone's confidence. I don't care how tall or good looking you are. It will take time to build up value and worth in yourself. Physically and emotionally. As far as your height is concerned realize that it does make your chances more difficult but not impossible. There are women out there who will find you plenty tall enough and will find you attractive. You have had a gf in the past so it can happen again. People have all sorts of different things holding them back. A single item like height isn't a death sentence just a barrier to overcome.
Author silicone Posted February 1, 2013 Author Posted February 1, 2013 First of all, getting dumped will mess with anyone's confidence. I don't care how tall or good looking you are. It will take time to build up value and worth in yourself. Physically and emotionally. As far as your height is concerned realize that it does make your chances more difficult but not impossible. There are women out there who will find you plenty tall enough and will find you attractive. You have had a gf in the past so it can happen again. People have all sorts of different things holding them back. A single item like height isn't a death sentence just a barrier to overcome. Thank you. I know someone must find me attractive, I can think of a few just off the top of my head. I should probably now note that I knew someone, who committed suicide in his early 20s. He couldn't take it anymore.
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