Unattached Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I met this guy on Match.com some time back in December. We chatted online and turns out he lives right down the street from me. He made lots of attempts to meet me but I kind of blew him off because I wasn't sure how to casually date (don't laugh). We communicated through text every now and then. When Christmas day came around he texted me saying how lonely he was and I offered to come by his house to give him a hug. That was the first time I met him. He invited me in but my intentions were to only give him a hug because I had to go back to work. We met again a few days later and just hung out at his house. We went on our first date at the end of December then we ended up having sex after the date. We were both extremely busy with him always going out of town for work so we only communicated through text every 2-3 days after that. We met again for the 4th time this past weekend. He said that he didn't want to be my "f**k" buddy and he wanted to hang out more to see if we can build a relationship out of this. He also said that he was attracted to me. We did end up having sex again. Does this really mean that he wants to get to know me instead of us just meeting up and having sex?
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I met this guy on Match.com some time back in December. We chatted online and turns out he lives right down the street from me. He made lots of attempts to meet me but I kind of blew him off because I wasn't sure how to casually date (don't laugh). We communicated through text every now and then. When Christmas day came around he texted me saying how lonely he was and I offered to come by his house to give him a hug. That was the first time I met him. He invited me in but my intentions were to only give him a hug because I had to go back to work. We met again a few days later and just hung out at his house. We went on our first date at the end of December then we ended up having sex after the date. We were both extremely busy with him always going out of town for work so we only communicated through text every 2-3 days after that. We met again for the 4th time this past weekend. He said that he didn't want to be my "f**k" buddy and he wanted to hang out more to see if we can build a relationship out of this. He also said that he was attracted to me. We did end up having sex again. Does this really mean that he wants to get to know me instead of us just meeting up and having sex? ahh? Yes..
rushingwaters Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 For most guys, sex is an important part of a relationship. But it's not the only part. If he said he wants a relationship and he hasn't done anything that makes him untrustworthy, take a leap of faith and believe in his words. With that being said, you should probably focus on getting to know each other better now. Slow down with the physical part.
Author Unattached Posted January 31, 2013 Author Posted January 31, 2013 Yes! That's a good thing! It sounds like it's a good thing. I'm just not sure if he said that just so we can have sex again. I guess I won't really know until I take the plunge.
RamiTia Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 He said that he didn't want to be my "f**k" buddy and he wanted to hang out more to see if we can build a relationship out of this. When guys are just in it for sex, they don't say that they want to build a relationship. They avoid that conversation at all costs unless they say they want something "casual." Sounds like a keeper!
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