Stay classy

[Got it]

OMG I love making out. I think it can be pushed to the wayside when a couple has been together so I would love for this to be a long time couple that is enjoying the fine art of making out.

 

And while I don't tend to frequent BKs, I have made out in plenty of parking lots.

 

You know, keep the man who loves to make out, not just sex but making out, any time, any place, any where. Now that man is a keeper.

 

Sorry, I will join the klassy crowd, but I love doing bad things in cars . . . and hotel rooms . . . . Sex at home in your own bed just gets boring. Variety is the spice of life.

[JamesM]

Desperate is a good word I would use to describe them. Especially her. He was more calm. I also thought they should get a room also. When they got into her car I thought they were going to leave to go where ever they needed to go. But they didn't. Maybe they had the song "Afternoon Delight" on the radio.

 

We never have music on, but I wonder if anyone would describe either of us as "desperate." If either us looked hungry and "desperate," then perhaps it would be me. Finally...a few moments in the daytime where I can love up my wife! Whew...no pestering kids!

 

I guess anyone else would call it gross.

[Got it]

We never have music on, but I wonder if anyone would describe either of us as "desperate." If either us looked hungry and "desperate," then perhaps it would be me. Finally...a few moments in the daytime where I can love up my wife! Whew...no pestering kids!

 

I guess anyone else would call it gross.

 

Relish your grossness! Wallow around in it! I love a long standing couple that still enjoys sex, that still enjoys the making out, giving hicks, just loving every inch of the other person and not just the sex organs. That really wants to enjoy them, for who they are, and just tease each other.

 

Sigh . . . There is something so nice, about making out, and just smelling their top lip when you are kissing. Feeling their lips, and just getting all hot and bothered. That is how I like sex. You want to drive a woman crazy, tease the hell out of her and make her push you for sex. You get her crazy and she will attack you at every turn.

[veryhappy]

I highly doubt that it wasn't an affair, but the ring...that could be imitation diamond. It doesn't have to be the real thing...

[Got it]

I like doing those things, too, but I don't want to watch YOU doing it and I certainly don't want the whole world watching me do it.

 

Most people don't appreciate being forced to watch behavior that crosses the line into voyeurism. Just because I don't enjoy watching others' foreplay doesn't mean I don't enjoy a healthy lovelife with my husband.

 

bring - I didn't say you didn't.

 

To each their own. I don't mind seeing others enjoying themselves and if it bothers me I will turn my head. Many other things going on in the world to look at.

 

And in regards to voyeurism . . . . well some people get turned on by others watching or the risk of exposure. C'est la vie!

 

In this case there is nothing recanted that spoke to them having sex. They were just making out.

 

I don't know, maybe its an American thing but we are so conservative on things. It just reminds me of the outrage of some people of women breastfeeding in public.

[road]

You don't know their situation so until you do its best not to slander people who cant defend themselves.

 

 

There is no defending an affair.

[TheOW]

There is no defending an affair.

 

"IF" it is an A they are having, you dont know, i dont know and the OP doesnt know, so whats the point in presuming without the facts.

[Spark1111]

After DDay, my heightened sensitivity and acute affairDAR went into over drive.

 

If the stats as so often thrown about here are true, then with a group of 10 couples, 6 of the men and almost 4 of the women have been unfaithful.

 

That seems high to me, but okay.

 

I began to question everyone around me, especially when they confided in me their H's affair, or ONS, or drunkenly kissing the co-worker who drove her home from the party.

 

And there was so much pain out there.

 

but yes, that couple hugging and kissing in the parking lot when she is wearing a ring and he isn't....could be an affair.

 

That co-worker wearing sexy clothes hopping into a speeding car at lunch with a young man....could be.

 

The wife who starts to complain that her H never picks up his phone at work at night because he likes to blast the music and then confides there sex life is off all of a sudden...could be.

 

so I do understand the OPs observation. it seems when you look for it, you do tend to see things you never saw before and you do wonder if it is an affair NOW.

 

At least I do.

[Nyla]

You don't know their situation so until you do its best not to slander people who cant defend themselves.

 

This. They could just be a passionate married or engaged couple.

 

My husband and I make out in our car all the time.

 

Guess that means we aren't classy and cheating on each other right?

[JamesM]

As for one wearing a ring and the other...could be or not.

 

Why would she wear a ring if she were married and cheating? Why would he not? If they both did, then would you have considered them married to each other?

 

Many men don't wear their rings due to their occupation. It has nothing to do with their intentions.

 

If I were parking with someone other than my wife, then I would think we both would be without rings.

 

Personally, I wear my ring because my wife feels more secure if I have it on. She wears hers. Assuming we are married to each other if someone actually sees our hands is as big of an assumption to say that him without a ring indicates he or she is cheating.

 

And if the two are engaged, then she will most probably wear a ring and he will not. Being the time period when love is nearer to lust, then it would explain their behavior. As an example, I talked with a lady who was excited that her BF gave her a ring. She is in her late 30s or even early 40s. She works all days as does he. They both have children. They currently live apart. Neither are married. She is divorced for many years. He is widowed.

 

They could have been that couple.

 

As Spark said, I think we are hypersensitive to events based on events in our life. I totally understand why you would assume that they were cheating. And I would certainly consider that an option. All I am saying is that I can see how some would consider my wife and I as a cheating couple based on our behavior sometimes after we have had our delicious lunch...or before.

 

From now on, I promise to behave my age and more as a long time married couple rather than as two lust hungry teenagers who have just met.

[eleanorrigby]

Granted, we were young and enthusiastic...although not the early teens that was mentioned here.. (eek... if early teens are acting like that no wonder the teen pregnancy rate is what it is) and perhaps we weren't as classy as someone would have wanted us to be, but we were happy.

 

Hey.. we managed to not get pregnant till we were 20.. I think we did pretty good!

[JamesM]

You know, you're right; I CAN look the other way when I see people acting like animals in public, but ya know what? My 2 year old can't.

 

It's about having respect for the rest of society...MOST don't want to see two people about to get it on in a highly visible public place.

 

For the record, we keep our clothes on and our hands out of places that are not at the least PG-13 rated. . We have kids, too. We knows how it looks. And where we go....there are no kids at lunch time.

 

We simply kiss like we haven't seen each other in a long while...and it usually has been quite awhile: probably anywhere from three to ten hours!

[nofool4u]

You don't know their situation so until you do its best not to slander people who cant defend themselves.

 

First of all, these are unknown, unnamed people. So no slander going on.

 

Secondly, married people obviously do not meet next to a dumpster at a Burger King so they can make out for an extended period of time. Thats what their home is for.

 

Its obvious, whether this is a true story or not, that the description obviously indicates two people in an affair.

 

The situation is weird at the very least.

[nofool4u]

Oh well thats just fine then

 

I highly doubt its an A though most balk at the thought of being caught and making out in a fast food car park in broad daylight ??

 

Not in a huge city where the chance of seeing someone you know is pretty slim.

 

Doubtful very doubtful

 

Not at all. Who does this if they are married?

[BetheButterfly]

 

From now on, I promise to behave my age and more as a long time married couple rather than as two lust hungry teenagers who have just met.

 

No James don't do that!!!

 

I always LOVED seeing my Mom and Dad kiss and hold hands (though they never did anything "inappropriate" like hands wandering in front of us kids, thankfully!) but it gave and still gives me such a happy, secure feeling to see the pda between them cause it helped me see how much they love each other.

 

Love and desire is not just between teenagers; I think it can help teenagers when they see a married older couple who are passionately in love!!!

[JamesM]

Secondly, married people obviously do not meet next to a dumpster at a Burger King so they can make out for an extended period of time. Thats what their home is for.

 

Spontaneity strikes even those old married folks. We don't lunch at BK, so we wouldn't. We don't know how long this couple was there...it could have been ten minutes. We just don't know. It could have been one minute after 96 left. We don't know.

 

Our home during the evening is filled with laughter and excitement and activity. Short of locking our bedroom door, we don't have the privacy to sit alone and chat, hug and kiss. Technically, we could head home at lunch when the kids are at school, but when we meet for lunch sometimes the spontaneity happens in the parking lot.

 

We are not talking about sexual intercourse or even foreplay. We simply are talking about a couple who are kissing and "making out" with their clothes on briefly on their lunch hour.

 

Its obvious, whether this is a true story or not, that the description obviously indicates two people in an affair.

 

No, it is far from obvious that this is the only answer from this description given.

 

The situation is weird at the very least.

 

Yeah, sometimes weird things happen to married folks...even those who have been married for more than two decades. We have experienced a new love for each other that I hope stays and never quits...even if it means that we spontaneously kiss and hugs for "an extended" period in a parking lot.

 

Who does this if they are married?

 

Unbelievable that married people would still want to make out!

 

As married folks, we have not only made out in parking lots, but made love in our back yard (before kids). We not only have done this but some other things that seem out of the ordinary for those older married folks. (I'll never forget that time on the highway! )

 

I have found that keeping the spark alive involves much more than planned and scheduled activities which are only allowed in the house.

[jlola]

I think people are taking this story a little too seriously.

 

 

but that desperate "get a room" public PDA? Gross. We have no need...we'll do the desperate stuff at home, thanks. Of course, I don't object to "parking" in the dark, as someone else said.

 

Whether an affair or a married couple, it sounds like it was a disgusting display.

 

That is exactly the difference! I was once at a park and noticed a very attractive woman with a little boy about 2 years old. Coincidentally it was "LUNCH TIME". A man came over and they were all over each other. The poor child kept trying to get his mother's attention and was all but ignored. The man barely looked at him, but had hands all over mom who had on a wedding ring. He did not.

 

There is just a feel you get of people ho are so desperate for each other because they spend little time together.

 

While many fathers come to the park during lunchtime , they actually show affection to the wife, not groping. They push kids on swing. Each lunch together,show affection and attention to the child also.

 

The child seemed more like a hinderance. But I gather she had no place to leave him,thus she took the little boy with her so she could spend time with her 'man".

 

I am 99% sure it was an affair. Otherwise, they were the world's lousiest and most selfish parents.

 

I was absolutely disgusted and thought , not only is this a park with children. But you brought your own child to witness this??

[JamesM]

And that's not in the parking lot of a fast food place in the middle of the day, right? Lots of kiddos in fast food restaurants, sadly.

 

So if there is not the possibility of kids around, then it's quite a bit different than the scenario described by OP, no?

 

Yes.

 

However, if it is during the day and school is in session...as in our case and in the case of the BK just two doors down during a weekday lunch hour, then there will be no kids, yes?

 

I simply think that more than one conclusion can be drawn about this scenario. I gave why it could be something other than two cheaters. Others gave why they think the two were cheating.

 

We will never know unless 96 sees them again and asks...which would be very interesting to hear the answer.

[JamesM]

What about the children who aren't school age yet or on break. Or had an orthodontist appt. that day?

 

Or are playing hooky?

 

Lots of what abouts.

 

Point is taken that all adults should be responsible with their PDA. Got that. It doesn't matter if the PDA is done by cheaters, non-cheaters, teenagers, or senior citizens. We all should be concerned for how this affects the psyche of our younger citizens. However, that bypasses the issue in this thread.

 

Simply said...this scenario could be two people who are married, dating, engaged, or cheating. We won't know unless we can contact one of them.

[Got it]

You know, you're right; I CAN look the other way when I see people acting like animals in public, but ya know what? My 2 year old can't.

 

It's about having respect for the rest of society...MOST don't want to see two people about to get it on in a highly visible public place.

 

Why is it bad for your child to see two people kissing?

[Got it]

No James don't do that!!!

 

I always LOVED seeing my Mom and Dad kiss and hold hands (though they never did anything "inappropriate" like hands wandering in front of us kids, thankfully!) but it gave and still gives me such a happy, secure feeling to see the pda between them cause it helped me see how much they love each other.

 

Love and desire is not just between teenagers; I think it can help teenagers when they see a married older couple who are passionately in love!!!

 

I agree! I saw the reverse, the few times my parents were affectionate and kissed, for all the kids, it is like a crime against nature; it just seems so unnatural. I would have loved to have grown up in a household where the parents were very loving towards each other and yeah got caught making out! For us PDAs were wrong, we were not an affectionate family and the kids were starved for it.

 

So, again, I love to hear about parents who are still acting like kids in love and showing their kids that they stay adults, stay lovers, and that continues even as the family grows and develops. And they are still silly in love and lust for each other.

[Got it]

Right, and I believe I said that no matter whether they are AP's or not, the behavior is...just...yuck.

 

Honestly, though, knowing how my H conducted his affair, my guess is cheaters that don't have anywhere else to go for their trysts.

 

Getting a hotel room is very easy to do.

[JamesM]

I agree! I saw the reverse, the few times my parents were affectionate and kissed, for all the kids, it is like a crime against nature; it just seems so unnatural. I would have loved to have grown up in a household where the parents were very loving towards each other and yeah got caught making out! For us PDAs were wrong, we were not an affectionate family and the kids were starved for it.

 

So, again, I love to hear about parents who are still acting like kids in love and showing their kids that they stay adults, stay lovers, and that continues even as the family grows and develops. And they are still silly in love and lust for each other.

 

Yes, we do kiss and hug and touch to show affection. Our oldest gets a smile on his face and sees it as a barometer of how we get along. The other ones notice too, but accept it as "natural." Growing up in a house where my father avoided PDA, I also missed seeing him show affection for my mother. She missed it tremendously...I know from more recent comments. I want my children to see that I love their mother.

 

I don't plan on quitting.

[Got it]

"...about to get it on" and "kissing" are two VERY different things.

 

Potentially. I think that is very subjective and for some, seeing people making out/kissing but nothing else can still be classified "about to get it on" for others its a normal greeting.

 

"About to get it on" is as clear as mud.

[JamesM]

I was just sitting in line at a Burger King drive thru. As I’m waiting to put in my order, I notice a car pull in and park right next to another car. A woman gets out of the car that just parked and a man got out of the car that was already parked. They immediately hug and start kissing. She is exceptionally passionate and is kissing his neck, cheeks, and lips. A few minutes later, he locks his car and they get into her car. But they don’t leave. They continue to make out in her car. She can’t keep her hands off his face. And of course, can’t keep her lips off of his. This goes on for another 5 minutes until I have received my lunch and drive off. As I drive off, I look in my rear view mirror, and they are still sitting there, in the parking lot of a fast food restaurant, making out.

 

Why is it bad for your child to see two people kissing?

 

"...about to get it on" and "kissing" are two VERY different things.

 

Yes, but all we read here is of kissing and hugging with hands on his face. This is less than they see in their home (I hope).

 

I do think classiness is needed, but yet "making out" is not necessarily a problem. Unless they were unclothing each other, I doubt kids would see anything inappropriate. But I wasn't there either.

 

Now I have to confess that I am really curious who they were and what their marital status is.