kalari26267 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 okay...long story short. Love of my life broke up with me. Says will call me in a month. so n/c in place. I thought about this and thought it was very selfish and unfair of him to do this. I want to be friends with him if I can't be anything else. we were very close. So I wrote him an email basically saying if we can be friends in a month then we should be able to be friends now. I won't wait around because I think it is very unfair of him..So now I find out he is talking to other girls which is fine. but my concern is that he is talking to this girl who lives over in England...we are in WA. they talk constantly. How well do international relationships work out? Should I feel threatened by this and by her.Yeah I do want my ex back and think we are meant for each other. but he thinks otherwise..he is younger than me by 5 yrs. So maybe he is confused. He has told me (even after we broke up on friday) that he loves me and always will love me...Help I just am going insane here...I just want him to miss me but I fear since she is taking up all his free time now on the phone and the internet that he won't get a chance to miss me...PLEASE HELP..
Papillon Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 You don't want his friendship back now, you want HIM back now....there's a difference. You obviously havent gotten over the guy...and it doesn't seem like you are trying to. The two of you broke up. What he does with his life now is of no concern to you, and likewise yours to him. If you expect him to not move on with other people, then YOU are the one being selfish. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but that's my opinion. Good luck!
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