silicone Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 No...just you....and the rest of the bunch who do nothing but whine and moan and cry endless buckets of tears because "life isn't fair". Sorry...I got no sympathy for you guys. NONE. I look at a guy like TheWholigan, who has autism...and he's got his **** together more than any of you guys. He didn't sit back and say, "**** me, I'm screwed...I'm hopeless" and then come here and cry about it. He took a good long look at himself, with EYES WIDE OPEN, and he made a DECISION that he wasn't going to let it keep him down. He's happy with his life and it SHOWS with every effing post he makes. You can feel the optimism and the enthusiasm for life and it's contagious. It makes people around him happy and he emits a positive vibe that I'm sure carries with him when he logs off of LS. And he will find his happiness one day, I guarantee it. People...you have ONE life to live. Then you DIE and there's no second chance. So ask yourself...you wanna live that one life you got full of piss and hate and cynicism and skepticism and FEAR? I know I didn't. Hell ****ing no. I know most of what I'm saying will fall on deaf ears. Maybe I'm an idiot for even attempting to help anyone here, but I just can't stand the fact that there are people here, more blessed and lucky than most people in the world, and all you can do is attack men, attack women, attach the very people that you hope to find love from. It just doesn't make any sense to me. I can't comprehend how you can want love from someone and STILL hate them at the same time??? You guys are blind...SO BLIND...you can't see the forest for the trees. I know I can type and type and type and type and it's just my OCD that keeps me going and going but sometimes I sit here and I wanna pull my hair out...it's THAT frustrating. With all due respect, you have absolutely no idea what it is like to be short, what is like to have people look down on you, to have people who you don't even know make comments at you, to have people try to pick you up, to have people use you as an armrest, to be the general shunted member of society, to be labelled as having a complex if you even dare to revolt, to have little respect from strangers. How about how I'm genetically inferior? I've had a hell of a lot more crap said to my face pertinent to my height - or lack thereof - than anything else. How about people who don't actually understand the troubles you are facing? I can talk about that. I was diagnosed with Asperger's a very long time ago - I've gone through behavioural therapy, and I'm not perfect, but is it too much to ask for someone to accept me for who and what I am? I've made something with my life already - I have a job as a software developer, I am from an affluent background, I have to carry with me a massive burden of maintaing three persona because of who I am. Because of what I've made of myself, no one could guess that I have Asperger's - only the very acute and astute. I've forced myself to become a social and outgoing guy - one that doesn't drink, one that can laugh, one that can find things funny. I'm taking care of my family, my mother went through cancer, and my parents are in old age. On top of this, I am studying for a degree, and probably at the end of this year, I will embark on a Phd, as I am on track to get a first in my BSc. How old am I? 19. I started this degree course before I had even done my A-Levels. My current line manager praises me, telling me that I have a very rare talent to focus on multiple things at one, to truly multitask and remain completely on top of what I have. I am not used to praise - and sometimes I feel like I have to use it for validation. For me, I find it difficult to empathise with people, forget trying to understand emotions fully. The only way I can do so is by fully interacting with people. It requires a hell of a lot more than facial expressions and tone of voice. I have to be able to trust them before I can even dream of understanding them. Everyday, driving into work ... yes, I do drive an expensive car ... but I have to have a cushion sometimes to prop me up. I can't reach top shelves in the shops, sometimes. I wear parade shoes to work, and I'm always in a suit. I have established my position at work, where everyone in upper management knows who I am. I have to take twice as many steps as other people to keep up. Additional fat on my body explodes my physical appearance, and I'm right now trying to shift the stocky look into something that I feel is handsome for me. Do I see myself as being short? Mostly not - but when I do, it's because I am reminded that I'm short - by someone else. I am unable to escape the harsh reality. For most things, there are ways around them, for a lot of things, there aren't - and social expectations of classic gender roles in terms of positional acceptable is a typical example.
pbjbear Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I'm 5'10 so my height really isn't a problem, most women want a guy who is at least 5'10. It doesn't matter if she's 5'3 she still wants 5'10+, personality is only 1/X most peoples problem is not personality when it comes to dating. Most people are not even that confident. I dont want a man who is at least 5'10. I am 5'3 and 1/2
HopelessRomantic76 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Who says you have to be super tall? as long as youre still taller in her heels say a good 5 or 6 inches taller then her which is average you're fine with some women.
somedude81 Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Who says you have to be super tall? as long as youre still taller in her heels say a good 5 or 6 inches taller then her which is average you're fine with some women. So since I'm 5'6, I shouldn't go after any woman who is taller than 5'1? Uh no, I'll go after whoever I want. 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Im not crying tears over not having a boyfriend- most of the men I meet wouldnt make me happy Most people are cynical about something...Im cynical about men due to my environment and the quality of men I interact with on a daily basis and am surrounded by. Im not cynical about other things though But you go on and on and on about how deceitful men are...how we lie and cheat and are just basically slime. As a man, that really offends me. We're not all like that.
veggirl Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Who says you have to be super tall? as long as youre still taller in her heels say a good 5 or 6 inches taller then her which is average you're fine with some women. :lmao::lmao::lmao: so for the average woman (5'4), the man needs to be 5'10. AKA, tall? 1
pbjbear Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 But you go on and on and on about how deceitful men are...how we lie and cheat and are just basically slime. As a man, that really offends me. We're not all like that. Not all much most do. At least in my world
Truthsayer Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I mean seriously, how many women need to come on here and say they don't want to date a 6 foot tall guy? Yeesh... Major city USA for me as well. My height is 5'9. As far as the majority of women not into me, I don't really think its my height its just that she doesn't find me attractive enough. Definitely irl I've never heard of a guy rejected because he was too tall. I can't even remember a movie or tv show in which that happens either.
charlietheginger Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Major city USA for me as well. My height is 5'9. As far as the majority of women not into me, I don't really think its my height its just that she doesn't find me attractive enough. Definitely irl I've never heard of a guy rejected because he was too tall. I can't even remember a movie or tv show in which that happens either. A friend is 6`4 170lbs. Hes been rejected alot.
charlietheginger Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Ugly men are ugly men does not matter if he is 5`2 6`2 or 7`2 If your ugly your not hooking up with women
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