Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Why do you think there's SO MANY short men who complain about getting women? Because the short men who are able to get women aren't on here complaining? There are also average height men here complaining. I think the complaining is done because it's easier to blame lack of dating success on something you (general you) can't control, rather than taking a deeper look inside to see if you're actually doing something to sabotage your success. 2
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 The fact that we even have to mention a 5'8" getting women as special says a lot in itself. 5'8" is an inch or two below average. Exactly. 5'8 is NOT short. It average range. 5'8 to 5'10 is relatively average. 1
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I thought the only size that mattered was the size of the penis? Silly me. 1
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 For everyone one girl that does not find a Brad Pitt' date=' a George Clooney, a Channing Tatum, or a Ryan Gosling attractive, there are 100,000 that do.[/quote'] Ok, but I bet the same amount of women find Peter Dinklage attractive.
mesmerized Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 And just curious. What would the EQUIVALENT be for a woman? C'mon now, spit it out. Who cares? at least as a man you CAN earn money, charm whatever you lack. There is nothing a dwarf woman can do or a very unattractive woman. I'm always amazed when I see men complaining about women being shallow when they are the ones that call women by numbers 5s, 9s etc. At least women don't talk that way.
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Ok, but I bet the same amount of women find Peter Dinklage attractive. Seth rogen.. yummie...
ThaWholigan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 The question is, are these women who are sought after and quality. Jut saying its been my experience that short dudes tend to not get the same pick of women taller guys have. Yes they are. To be honest, I'm tired of short guys complaining on the internet. Yeah its hard, but from what I've seen, it isn't that hard. 1
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 The question is, are these women who are sought after and quality. Jut saying its been my experience that short dudes tend to not get the same pick of women taller guys have. What is quality? I'm attracted to a guy based purely on personality and non-physical traits. Am I quality? Hmmm.. I guess if you consider a woman who had a good job, an education, no debt, the ability to support herself, wit, charm, a love of awesome and often kinky sex, a great rack, a loyal personality, independence, strength, has made major positive changes in her life, loves her family and friends, and who happens to be into video games, martial arts, and charities to be a quality woman, then I'm a quality woman.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Who cares? at least as a man you CAN earn money, charm whatever you lack. There is nothing a dwarf woman can do or a very unattractive woman. Wait, what?
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 What is quality? I'm attracted to a guy based purely on personality and non-physical traits. Am I quality? Hmmm.. I guess if you consider a woman who had a good job, an education, no debt, the ability to support herself, wit, charm, a love of awesome and often kinky sex, a great rack, a loyal personality, independence, strength, has made major positive changes in her life, loves her family and friends, and who happens to be into video games, martial arts, and charities to be a quality woman, then I'm a quality woman. Ah too bad you're not a dude, I would love to date a guy who's into video games and isn't a total slacker.
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Please provide hard stats to back that up. Otherwise you're projecting your unhappiness onto women. Arent you projecting your own attractions and opinions onto the life of short men? Its a fact...(do you want me to provide studies) that women prefer men taller than them. And men prefer shorter women. Both sexes prefer a different around half a foot. All that being said, lets not pretend height doest affect sexual selection at all, when it clearly does. Ive heard PLENTY of women dismiss a guy for being too short. So its not something guys pull out of thin air because its something they cant change. Youre speaking from a position of lack of personal knowledge. For example...I dont get involved in race threads, but I do know that many women prefer to date within their own race or that plenty put white guys at the top of their list. I dont bitch about it...I just acknowledge it for what it is, and do my own thing to increase my success. But if some white dude started telling me how easy it is to date being black in a non-black area, Id laugh at him seeing as he isnt living that experience. Hence you as a woman shouldnt be coming off as so dismissive of the dating experiences of short guys.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Ah too bad you're not a dude, I would love to date a guy who's into video games and isn't a total slacker. If you ever decide to be into woman, let me know. 1
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 What is quality? I'm attracted to a guy based purely on personality and non-physical traits. Good for you. Most peopel dont work that way and physical traits play into attraction as well. And quality is a sum of all things...emotional maturity, good personality, physical sexiness, morals, etc. Am I quality? Hmmm.. I guess if you consider a woman who had a good job, an education, no debt, the ability to support herself, wit, charm, a love of awesome and often kinky sex, a great rack, a loyal personality, independence, strength, has made major positive changes in her life, loves her family and friends, and who happens to be into video games, martial arts, and charities to be a quality woman, then I'm a quality woman.Theres more to quality than just this. Id want to know how honest you are today and about past relationships. Id want a girl whos active and loves sports or the gym. I dont really care about big tit...I want a total package...so thats neither here nor there. And empathy is something a quality woman should have a well. However, all that goes out the window if physical attraction isnt there. Hence why friendzones exist.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Youre speaking from a position of lack of personal knowledge. Really, now? I've dated tall men, short men, white men, black men, a Taiwanese man, a Chinese man, rich men, poor men, men who are bisexual, men who are straight... Exactly where am I lacking personal knowledge?
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yes they are. To be honest, I'm tired of short guys complaining on the internet. Yeah its hard, but from what I've seen, it isn't that hard. Dude...unless you personally live their life, why be so dismissive of their experiences. Come on now dude. Not everyone is your brother. Most short guys dont have that sorta luck.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Really, now? I've dated tall men, short men, white men, black men, a Taiwanese man, a Chinese man, rich men, poor men, men who are bisexual, men who are straight... Exactly where am I lacking personal knowledge? You think all women think like you. That's your problem. You don't realize you're about 1 in maybe, I dunno 35 or 40 for your looks level? Something like that.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Good for you. Most peopel dont work that way and physical traits play into attraction as well. And quality is a sum of all things...emotional maturity, good personality, physical sexiness, morals, etc. Theres more to quality than just this. Id want to know how honest you are today and about past relationships. Id want a girl whos active and loves sports or the gym. I dont really care about big tit...I want a total package...so thats neither here nor there. And empathy is something a quality woman should have a well. However, all that goes out the window if physical attraction isnt there. Hence why friendzones exist. I do go to the gym. I am honest, sometimes brutally so. I'm very empathetic. However, I know I'm of a high quality. I don't need you to say so. I could drop the gym and I would still be a quality person. You can have opinions about others, but you can't prove what makes someone "quality" or not. It's completely subjective. Therefore it can't be proven. Not so very long ago, women and black people were believed to be inferior to and less intelligent than white men. A LOT of people believed this. Is this a fact?
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Really, now? I've dated tall men, short men, white men, black men, a Taiwanese man, a Chinese man, rich men, poor men, men who are bisexual, men who are straight... Exactly where am I lacking personal knowledge? Youre not following. Just because YOU date a variety of men, does not mean many short guys are dating a variety of women or are having great success. Unless you live your dating life as a short man, its ignorant of you to dismiss their experiences and claims. So yes, you have NO personal knowledge. For example, the vast vast majority of women wouldnt ever date a bisexual guy knowingly. But just because you have doesnt mean that the complaints Ive heard bi guys have about dating hold no merit.
ThaWholigan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Dude...unless you personally live their life, why be so dismissive of their experiences. Come on now dude. Not everyone is your brother. Most short guys dont have that sorta luck. I never used to be. I do think its hard for them. I just think they bitch too much. 1
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 You think all women think like you. That's your problem. You don't realize you're about 1 in maybe, I dunno 35 or 40 for your looks level? Something like that. No, I DON'T think all women think like me! What I'm saying is who the F cares what the others think? If I exist, it's reasonable to believe that there are other women like me who exist, and if you spent more time trying to meet them and trying to be positive and less time complaining, you might have a better chance.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Youre not following. Just because YOU date a variety of men, does not mean many short guys are dating a variety of women or are having great success. Unless you live your dating life as a short man, its ignorant of you to dismiss their experiences and claims. So yes, you have NO personal knowledge. For example, the vast vast majority of women wouldnt ever date a bisexual guy knowingly. But just because you have doesnt mean that the complaints Ive heard bi guys have about dating hold no merit. Ok, I've been skinny. I've been 270 pounds. I've had periods where I look like people took turns beating me with the ugly stick. I've never had a problem getting a boyfriend if I wanted to, or even getting attention. My personality has always been very strong.
KungFuJoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 You know what's funny...I never knew being short (or tall) meant as much as it did before I found this forum. I'm tall...6'2" and most of my friends growing up were filipino. So I was always the tallest guy, by far, among my peers. And of course, the girls are even shorter. I always thought that my being tall was a NEGATIVE because these short girls would want someone more their own size.
serial muse Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I never used to be. I do think its hard for them. I just think they bitch too much. In all honesty, I had a lot more sympathy for these guys until I came to LS and noticed that in many of the exact same threads there's a lot of crap spewed about women in general. The overlap is distinct and annoying. My sympathy upon reading said threads.
Author Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 You know what's funny...I never knew being short (or tall) meant as much as it did before I found this forum. I'm tall...6'2" and most of my friends growing up were filipino. So I was always the tallest guy, by far, among my peers. And of course, the girls are even shorter. I always thought that my being tall was a NEGATIVE because these short girls would want someone more their own size. The one benefit I will give tall guys is that they can look down women's blouses without being caught as easily.
kaylan Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I do go to the gym. I am honest, sometimes brutally so. I'm very empathetic. However, I know I'm of a high quality. I don't need you to say so. I could drop the gym and I would still be a quality person. You can have opinions about others, but you can't prove what makes someone "quality" or not. It's completely subjective. Therefore it can't be proven.Where did I say quality meant the same things to everyone? Quote me please. I merely asked if ThaWholigans brother and friend were getting good women. And I didnt zero in on physical characteristics at all. Not so very long ago, women and black people were believed to be inferior to and less intelligent than white men. A LOT of people believed this. Is this a fact? Wow, wtf does this have to do with the convo. No one is saying anyone is inferior. We are talking about sexual selection...and in the grand scheme of things, most women want average height or taller men. Thats a genetic preference. It doesnt mean short guys cant date. It means people like you shouldnt shrug off their personal experiences just because you, a sole woman, shares her own sexual preferences. Sure I dont like hearing them complain all the time, but you truly are baiting them into another situation to be down on themselves when you bring up a short CELEBRITY and then dismiss their personal experiences.
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