Cam116 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So.......I've been doing really well with the BU lately. About 7 weeks post. Feeling great, feeling positive, met up with the ex this weekend to catch up and we had a great time as friends. NO expectations other than what happened. Facebook. He just made a new album and moved some pictures into it. Mostly old ones. But he included two couple-y pictures of us from our vacation in Key West. What the......what? Someone tell me to stop overthinking. Someone tell me that he just likes those particular pictures. Otherwise, I might go crazy! Why the hell would he put those pictures of us up? Maybe he just didn't realize....someone talk some sense into me please! lol
Yamcha Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Sadly, you are not feeling good about it. I remember I posted on another forum about how things were going well after my last breakup. They called me out on it pretty bluntly. I lashed out on them. But they were dead right. If you didn't want this guy back, you wouldn't be going crazy over these photos. It's okay to feel that way. But it isn't okay to constantly torture yourself by staying in contact with him. Cut off all contact from him. Don't check his Facebook. Only then will you move on. It's really hard to tell if you can handle being in contact without having what you once had, but it is better to err on the side of caution and just don't do it. Trust. 1
TaraMaiden Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Talk some sense into you, huh? Not 'stupid Facebook!'.... Stupid..... who? Block delete ignore. Includes twitter, Myspace, faceBook, blogs, linkedIn or anything else for that matter. I have a couple of pictures with my ex- in them, but the panorama was breathtaking. THAT'S why I kept them. Him? Just an eyesore in an otherwise beautiful landscape..... 3
KatZee Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I think you should hold off on the "friends" thing for awhile. It's clear you're not over him at all the fact that you're over-thinking this thing. I think he's capable of being friends. He has fond memories with you, no bad blood, so he put up a couple pics that he likes. Don't interpret it as anything more. I'd unsubscribe to his Facebook if you don't want to do the full on delete. 1
geegirl Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So.......I've been doing really well with the BU lately. About 7 weeks post. Feeling great, feeling positive, met up with the ex this weekend to catch up and we had a great time as friends. NO expectations other than what happened. Facebook. He just made a new album and moved some pictures into it. Mostly old ones. But he included two couple-y pictures of us from our vacation in Key West. What the......what? Someone tell me to stop overthinking. Someone tell me that he just likes those particular pictures. Otherwise, I might go crazy! Why the hell would he put those pictures of us up? Maybe he just didn't realize....someone talk some sense into me please! lol Had a great time as friends? Right, friends. Now you're reading into pictures he posted on FB. Friends don't get all worked up about a few pictures. It's a facade you hide behind. This whole "friend" thing is your way of keeping the door open. Hoping he'll change his mind about you. Keep reminding him of your existence. He said he feels differently about the relationship and wants to be single. He will never realize the loss and value of you if you keep being his "friend". You'll just enable his need to have you as a crutch while he shops around. 2
Author Cam116 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Thanks guys!! You're all right. uuuggghh some days I'm convinced I don't care. Obviously, a part of me still does! But hey, I'm human:confused: I just really needed someone to smack me right then and there:laugh:
TaraMaiden Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 (Yeah.... sorry about the 'hand-print'..... look, it's fading already..... ) 1
Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So.......I've been doing really well with the BU lately. About 7 weeks post. Feeling great, feeling positive, met up with the ex this weekend to catch up and we had a great time as friends. NO expectations other than what happened. Facebook. He just made a new album and moved some pictures into it. Mostly old ones. But he included two couple-y pictures of us from our vacation in Key West. What the......what? Someone tell me to stop overthinking. Someone tell me that he just likes those particular pictures. Otherwise, I might go crazy! Why the hell would he put those pictures of us up? Maybe he just didn't realize....someone talk some sense into me please! lol My ex still has pictures of us on his page..I feel he's using them as some kind of "status" pictures. I wouldn't read too much into it.
Author Cam116 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 ^ I think you hit the nail on the head. Probably wants to make himself look better and brag that he had a smoking hot girlfriend to make himself look more desirable. Pathetic lol
flitzanu Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So.......I've been doing really well with the BU lately. About 7 weeks post. Feeling great, feeling positive, met up with the ex this weekend to catch up and we had a great time as friends. NO expectations other than what happened. Facebook. He just made a new album and moved some pictures into it. Mostly old ones. But he included two couple-y pictures of us from our vacation in Key West. What the......what? Someone tell me to stop overthinking. Someone tell me that he just likes those particular pictures. Otherwise, I might go crazy! Why the hell would he put those pictures of us up? Maybe he just didn't realize....someone talk some sense into me please! lol because he's obviously fine with being friends, you're not. if you were truly JUST HIS FRIEND, you wouldn't react at all to someone doing that.
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