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so to start i want to say that shes 19 and im 20 yrs old. shes from dominican republic i am too.here in the US we live about 15 or 30 mins away. i only see her once every two weeks she tells me that she does that so her stepmother lets her go out.i havent met her father or step mother she says that if i do their maybe going to send her back to dominican republic or not let her go out and we are not going to see each other, thats why i let it all slide about not meeting them. she says that one day she'll introduce me to them.she also says that she wants me to go with her to the dominican republic so i can meet her real mom and family members.I dont feel comfortable i have to pay to go to DR for two weeks seeying them and being back to US to the same thing only seeing her once every two weeks.we have been together for about 9 or 10 months now. i hate the idea that if i cant go to DR she be going alone and back to US and then being with me once every too weeks again.she seems calm about the once every 2 weeks thing i wish i could see her more often but i tryed everything to convince her to get me to meet her dad over here so i've stopped. ONCE again shes 19 yrs idk why her parents wount let her date she doesnt even know because she hasnt tryed need help

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First off I could hardly understand what you wrote. However, English is not your native language so I'll let it slide.

 

You situation also seems odd to me too. She only lives 15 minutes away and yet you only see her once every two weeks. Does she also go long periods of not texting or calling? Or does she only text and call you at certain times of the day or night but not any other time? In all honesty you could be in one of two situations. Either your GF has very controlling parents, which is the story she is telling you... or she could have a boy friend, or even a husband that you do not know about and she is meeting you on the days she knows she is free but he is working or away. When you two see each other every two weeks is it always the same day at the same time? If so, I hate to tell you this but I think you are her side piece, her other man.

 

Do you know where she lives? Maybe one day you could surprise her or something, and on a day you normally do not meet. See how she reacts, and who she is around and how they react.

 

Good luck!

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First off I could hardly understand what you wrote. However, English is not your native language so I'll let it slide.

 

You situation also seems odd to me too. She only lives 15 minutes away and yet you only see her once every two weeks. Does she also go long periods of not texting or calling? Or does she only text and call you at certain times of the day or night but not any other time? In all honesty you could be in one of two situations. Either your GF has very controlling parents, which is the story she is telling you... or she could have a boy friend, or even a husband that you do not know about and she is meeting you on the days she knows she is free but he is working or away. When you two see each other every two weeks is it always the same day at the same time? If so, I hate to tell you this but I think you are her side piece, her other man.

 

Do you know where she lives? Maybe one day you could surprise her or something, and on a day you normally do not meet. See how she reacts, and who she is around and how they react.

 

Good luck!

sorry will for the grammar i tryed to the best of my abilities

 

thanks for replying no she doesn't go long period without texting me she texts me everyday all the time with the cell i got her. she says her parents cant see it or else they'll bug out, she was also in collage and now she decided to take a semester off so she is saying that her parents are mad and if she takes me to meet them they'll blame me for the reason she left collage..

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