shadey26 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So I've been dating this guy for nearly 7 months now, we dated before about to years ago but he cheated on me then left me for the same girl. He is much more mature now and regrets that mistake he made, his been trying really hard to make this relationship work this time. His ex, the girl he cheated on me with, sent me a message over facebook about two weeks ago and said that she's sorry for what happened and asked me to forgive her, I thought she changed and she wasn't such an aweful person as he made her out to be. Soon after me and her, we started chatting and I liked her. After that I found out she has been making trouble with him and his friends and parents, his mom said he wasn't allowed to date me again and that we are not allowed to see each other. He promised me that he'd make a way for us to be together and he did, his ex is out of both our lives now. I just started college and he is finishing school, he has cancer and has been in and out of hospital a lot, he failed last year because he wasn't able to keep up with the work, he went for operations last year to remove the cancer but 3 weeks ago he went for a check-up and found out he still has it and he'd need to go on medication for about 10 months again. Anyways, now we hardly see each other, and we've been arguing a lot. Before he told me he'd do anything to make me happy and he would always be there for me and if we have problems we should talk it out, but lately I try talking to him about it and it just makes things worse, he said that it was better when he was alone and told me if I don't stop doing what I'm doing now I'd end up being alone. Monday I told him I needed space and he got upset and said he felt hurt, I told him I felt like he was threatening to leave me if I didn't change for him and he told me that he wasn't threatening me he was telling me. I'm not sure if I should try and work things out or if I should just break up with him
crashvector Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I stopped reading at "He cheated on me". Move on. 1
Yamcha Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I stopped reading at "He cheated on me". Move on.I read through it. I literally laughed out loud when I read that he said he learned. Bull****. If he did he wouldn't say he wants to be alone one day and then get pissed at you when you give him space, shadey. Don't feel bad about not supporting him when he has cancer. He made his own bed. Don't talk to him or that other chick again.
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