Hansen120 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I don't like girls I have never liked girls ever. I am attracted to guys. But I am and always have been very willing to please my bf and so well his fantasy has always been of having a thresome with another girl. We've been doing one with my friend. I've I guess had sex with her. I still have had no real desire for a girl to do that and I'd never seek out a female in that way I'd far prefer a guy still and doing it hasn't given me and desire so does it make me bi?
KungFuJoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Hey castle....get a load of this BS.. MORE people getting threesomes and not us...... It's like some cruel joke... 2
Author Hansen120 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Yea you're being a distraction
HitMeNow Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 NO. No matter what you do, You are Bi or Gay, depending on what you are attracted to. You are attracted to MEN so I'd say fully straight. Also keep in mind that about one's sexual orientation, everything is on a scale. You can be 2% gay and 98% straight. Does that make you bi?
Author Hansen120 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Idk I've know. People to say if you sleep with the same sex that you're at least bisexual... That's I guess I asked for public opinion....
Author Hansen120 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 I have my opinion I just was curious
TaraMaiden Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yes, but you're also ignorant. Do you think sleeping with someone from Peking will make you Chinese? 1
ChessPieceFace Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 No, it doesn't make you bi, unless you REALLY enjoy doing it with this other girl. Better things to consider: - If your BF is insisting on a 3-some and you really aren't interested, what does that say about his respect level for you (guess it depends whether you dislike it) - Are you jeopardizing your relationship by letting other people be a part of it (I would say it's a serious risk) 1
MrCastle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Hey castle....get a load of this BS.. MORE people getting threesomes and not us...... It's like some cruel joke... Dude wtffffffff
Emilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 doing it hasn't given me and desire so does it make me bi? No it makes you a silly girl who allows her boyfriend to use her 3
silvermercy Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I don't like girls I have never liked girls ever. I am attracted to guys. But I am and always have been very willing to please my bf and so well his fantasy has always been of having a thresome with another girl. We've been doing one with my friend. I've I guess had sex with her. I still have had no real desire for a girl to do that and I'd never seek out a female in that way I'd far prefer a guy still and doing it hasn't given me and desire so does it make me bi? No, you're definitely not gay or bisexual. However, if I was in your place I would question myself if I'm a sexual doormat or not. What does he think of adding a male to the mix instead of a female? Is he OK with that?? (I mean, sure, you may not want an extra male yourself, but that's not the point I'm making). 1
bac Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I don't like girls I have never liked girls ever. I am attracted to guys. But I am and always have been very willing to please my bf and so well his fantasy has always been of having a thresome with another girl. We've been doing one with my friend. I've I guess had sex with her. I still have had no real desire for a girl to do that and I'd never seek out a female in that way I'd far prefer a guy still and doing it hasn't given me and desire so does it make me bi? Did you have any sex (oral, vaginal) with her? From what I understand, your BF had sex with her and you.
Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 No, you are not bisexual. No more than I am NOT bisexual because I haven't slept with a woman, even though I'm attracted to them.
pbjbear Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 If youre not into it you are not bi. BTW, your boyfriend isnt completely satisfied with just you. Every single person Ive known thats given their boyfriend a threesome, led to trooooooooooooooouble Once they get a taste for another woman, they wont want to stop.
Author Hansen120 Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Did you have any sex (oral, vaginal) with her? From what I understand, your BF had sex with her and you. Yea we've pretty much done it all. Also I do enjoy it because I enjoy pleasuring him. Plus when she goes down on me I do get an O but its really whats she doing and I don't like doing it to her. I would rather get it from a guy.
pbjbear Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yea we've pretty much done it all. Also I do enjoy it because I enjoy pleasuring him. Plus when she goes down on me I do get an O but its really whats she doing and I don't like doing it to her. I would rather get it from a guy. Are you uncomfortable with the situation? Its hard to tell based on what you wrote If you actually are uncomfortable with it you shouldnt do it just to please your boyfriend. Dont be a doormat What does your boyfriend do to please you?
Mrlonelyone Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 NO. No matter what you do, You are Bi or Gay, depending on what you are attracted to. You are attracted to MEN so I'd say fully straight. Also keep in mind that about one's sexual orientation, everything is on a scale. You can be 2% gay and 98% straight. Does that make you bi? ^This. Psychologist use a scale from 0 to 6 to rate this where 0 is totally straight to six being totally gay. Kinsey scale - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Rating Description 0 Exclusively heterosexual 1 Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual 2 Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual 3 Equally heterosexual and homosexual 4 Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual 5 Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual 6 Exclusively homosexual X Non-sexual Being a 0 or a 1 is basically straight. Having a little sexual play with the same sex to please a partner of the opposite sex might make you a one instead of a zero. Most people are a 0.5 if their straight or a 5.5 if they are gay. To my mind bisexual ranges from 2 to 4. Bear in mind though, if you make this a regular thing, people will judge you just as if you were totally gay. Straight people who are swingers, who have done porn, who have been sexually adventurous...are all going to be called "perverts" and lumped in with LGBT people etc. by the uptight. Just be aware of that.
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