Samilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I'll bite, I'm a Capricorn. January 10 1974 to be exact. I personally never pay attention to the astrological sign of my mate.
startinganew777 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I am a Sag, my ex is a Virgo. Last time we saw each other was New Years Day. He ended things about a week after that. Haven't really gotten along with many Virgos but he was the first. Virgos do seem to get on my nerves after a while so maybe it was best. LOL No offense to Virgos.
Keenly Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 While I hold no belief in astrology, I do find there are an awful lot of coincidences. My ex was an Aquarius and I am a virgo. She did quite a bit do the whole "break up then come back thing" about 2 dozen times to be honest. Eventually I saw how unhealthy our relationship was and told her I was out.
Njeanne Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Me and him are both Scorpio's, four days apart. He is 27th I'm 31th (halloween baby ^^)
flitzanu Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 What is your astrological sign and what is the sign of your ex? I'm wondering, because after reading through this site the last few days, I've noticed a pattern. For example, it seems many of our exes who were the "dumper" are Aquarians. Mine was too. So I'm wondering if there's anything to this? I do follow astrology a bit and was trying to see if there's a pattern going on at all that aligns with the cosmos. Many people on this site are within the first 6 months or so of their break up. And many are the dumpees - and many of the dumpers, as I just stated, seem to be in the sign of Aquarius. Now this could be coincidence... But I thought I'd try to gather some data to see if I'm right. Call me hokey, but i thought it would be interesting. I'll report back if I find any parallels. Or perhaps the thread would open up discussion enough to find our own. I am a Capricorn btw. And me and my ex broke up at the start of Oct. She's an Aquarius. now everyone wants to badmouth Aquarians? no. i'm a dumpee, and i'm very much Aquarian. i'll even give you some insight if you feel it would help. and when i say "we" i really mean "me" because i can't predict how others act or behave, but it does seem "we" are either one way, or the total opposite. we are arrogant, narcissistic, pretentious...not because of entitlement or believing ourselves to be better, it's just simply innate. if someone calls me arrogant, it's because they feel inferior, it's not because i've "done" anything. we are highly aloof and detached, and emotions or events you think are important are not always at the top of our list. not noticing your new pretty hair, or not hugging you the second we see you doesn't mean we hate you, it means we are preoccupied. and there's a big one. we are often preoccupied. we are often "not in the moment" and often seem liek we would rather be anywhere else than being there with you. truth is...we might. we dont' like being controlled or tamed. if i sense even a SLIGHT attempt to force or control me, i lash back violently (metaphorically speaking). if you want things to work with an aquarius, just calm down. nothing is the end of the world to us, and pretending that anything is a huge deal is just going to be annoying. give us space. not "i need space" as in a breakup, just space. don't crowd yourself into our lives every second of the day and be overbearing, because we can't handle that. and another thing...SPARK INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION. if you don't engage us mentally, you're doomed. you've got to get in my head before you get in my pants. any other aquarian questions? if (you've) been dumped by an aquarian, it's probably because they simply got bored and needed new interactions. it very likely wasn't even personal, and we are extremely loyal people. but if you lose our interest...it's difficult to have a reason for us to stick around.
ItxWillxGetxBetter Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Ex: Scorpio (Dumper) Me: Gemini It can't get any worse in terms of compatibility then these two signs. Lol...yet we lasted almost 9 years. Not bad for not being compatible.
Amelie1980 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Ex (dumper) Gemini Me: Taurus Worst possible combination
Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Me and my most recent ex were both born under Sagittarius. However, I think it was the fact that he was a controlling narcissistic prick that led to our breakup. 2
flitzanu Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Me and my most recent ex were both born under Sagittarius. However, I think it was the fact that he was a controlling narcissistic prick that led to our breakup. ^^^^ hahah. that's beautiful
stillafool Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Me: Libra Husband: Gemini This is by far the best relationship I've ever had. I was always involved with Virgos, Scorpios and Aries. A lot of passion but major misunderstandings.
Keenly Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 now everyone wants to badmouth Aquarians? no. i'm a dumpee, and i'm very much Aquarian. i'll even give you some insight if you feel it would help. and when i say "we" i really mean "me" because i can't predict how others act or behave, but it does seem "we" are either one way, or the total opposite. we are arrogant, narcissistic, pretentious...not because of entitlement or believing ourselves to be better, it's just simply innate. if someone calls me arrogant, it's because they feel inferior, it's not because i've "done" anything. we are highly aloof and detached, and emotions or events you think are important are not always at the top of our list. not noticing your new pretty hair, or not hugging you the second we see you doesn't mean we hate you, it means we are preoccupied. and there's a big one. we are often preoccupied. we are often "not in the moment" and often seem liek we would rather be anywhere else than being there with you. truth is...we might. we dont' like being controlled or tamed. if i sense even a SLIGHT attempt to force or control me, i lash back violently (metaphorically speaking). if you want things to work with an aquarius, just calm down. nothing is the end of the world to us, and pretending that anything is a huge deal is just going to be annoying. give us space. not "i need space" as in a breakup, just space. don't crowd yourself into our lives every second of the day and be overbearing, because we can't handle that. and another thing...SPARK INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION. if you don't engage us mentally, you're doomed. you've got to get in my head before you get in my pants. any other aquarian questions? if (you've) been dumped by an aquarian, it's probably because they simply got bored and needed new interactions. it very likely wasn't even personal, and we are extremely loyal people. but if you lose our interest...it's difficult to have a reason for us to stick around. In the same paragraph, you admit you are arrogant, but then say when people call you arrogant,its only because they are inferior, this proving you are in fact arrogant.
flitzanu Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 In the same paragraph, you admit you are arrogant, but then say when people call you arrogant,its only because they are inferior, this proving you are in fact arrogant. Aquarians are also contradictory. But yes, i'm arrogant inasmuch as you perceive me to be. If you have low esteem and perceive me to be arrogant, then that makes me arrogant. If you're confident and have nothing to prove, then you wouldn't perceive me as such.
Keenly Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Aquarians are also contradictory. But yes, i'm arrogant inasmuch as you perceive me to be. If you have low esteem and perceive me to be arrogant, then that makes me arrogant. If you're confident and have nothing to prove, then you wouldn't perceive me as such. My confidence level has little do the with analyzing the things people say. Its just kind of odd how you would blame the way you act on other people. Its odd that anyone does that.
flitzanu Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 My confidence level has little do the with analyzing the things people say. Its just kind of odd how you would blame the way you act on other people. Its odd that anyone does that. You're misunderstanding and misinterpreting. Perception is reality. How you perceive me is YOUR personal truth and reality, and may be immensely different than how someone else perceives me. Same for anyone.
skings Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 wow this is gotta be a fun thread. My ex is an Acquarian too and her birthday is tomorrow. I am a scorpio (secretive, passionate, loyal, possessive ), btw
coltsfan1 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Both me and the ex are both Taurus's. I know nothing really about signs but we both share many similar attitudes and traits.
Sadmisselle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I am a Sagittarius... November 23. He's a Pisces. March 11... he left me 6 days ago, after cheating on me. I don't really know if there is a connection or not.. every Horoscope book I've read said he should be with a cancer, me a leo. Idk.
SharkTooth Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Me...Scorpio Her and just about every ex...Taurus
tigressA Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 Me: Aries Ex: Leo I don't know how familiar anyone else ITT is with astrology but my ex has his 'rising' sign in Leo and mine is in Aries, so it's like being your sun sign x2. He has an ego bigger than Kanye West's, and is really sensitive and stubborn. Instant romance and chemistry; our days together were dreamy until the lies (his) and the arguments. He dumped me several weeks ago after less than 2 months. We're sort-of friends now, it's working out nicely.
FailedFirstLove Posted January 31, 2013 Posted January 31, 2013 I'm a libra... My ex is Sagittarius... Broke up with me dec 12th after his bday.
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