hla76 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Me and my boyfriend were together for a lil over 3 years and he left me for another woman.He came to my house the other night and tried to come back to me,but I told him no.He told me if I didnt go back to him he would kill himself.He was in tears when I said no.It took everything in me to say no because I love him with all my heart and probably always will.Does everyone think I am stupid for telling him no because we were together for so long or do you think I did the right thing?I mean if we did get back together I would not be able to trust him ever again because of what he did.PLease I need some advice here asap.Thanks to all that took the time to read this post.
yeppers Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 i would think your stupid if you took him back...but thats just my opinion.
Starnette83 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 how long did it take for him to come back after you two broke up? did u guys stay inc ontact during the breakup or not? Well if he really wants u back he needs to prove to u hes sorry, if he can do that then MAYBE u can give him another shot...but this should take a MONTH or so of him pleading..roses, gifts etc... if he just gives up after once then forget it...
overseas2004 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 I think that you cant get back together with him because he just came over and asked you back. What happened to the woman he screwed when he left you. Did that not work out and now he is back to get you??? Alot of this depends on the circumstances. But the truth is .... if you forgive him immediately then he will think its a cinch to do this to you over and over again. So don't rush anything. He really does need to show that he is sorry and that you are the one. But even if he does this, I would still think long and hard about him. People who do things like this are lost and they are flaky. It could just end up being a repetative problem.
queen45 Posted August 26, 2004 Posted August 26, 2004 My Dear for the love of a woman like you i don't agree with going back to him a woman can change but not a man, no matter what a man will never change let him go and you will have antothr life forget about him because even if he change it will be just for a moment and then he will start the same bussness so be passion you will but don't think about him he is more that evil
Author hla76 Posted August 31, 2004 Author Posted August 31, 2004 I found out why he tried to come back to me.See I put paoers on him a few weeks after he left me because he hit me in the face when I saw him at a friends house.He wanted me to drop those papers because he knows he is most likley gonna do some jail time.And for the other woman he is still with her.She is the one who told me all about it.So I am glad I did not go back with him because if I did as soon as I dropped the papers he would of left again and I would be left with just another broken heart.So I guess I did right by not dropping the papers.She asked me last night to drop the papers because she also knows he might do some jail time and she does not want him going to jail.But I told her the hel with that.I told her I dont care if he does time or not.He should of never hit me.So thanks to all that replyed to my post.
LexiB Posted September 2, 2004 Posted September 2, 2004 ????? Well Im glad you got everything straightened out b4 you rushed in to anything. However after reading that last post, I gotta ask, Why the heck were you even thinking about getting back with someone who not only cheated on you but who HIT you too??? You didnt mention that b4. Either one of those violations is ample grounds for dumping the jerk but BOTH....! Seriously, Congrats on your decision to get out and stay away, I just pray you stick with it
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