superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 i dont think its fun to make a guy feel bad....... I don't either, thought this posting was for lol's only 1
mesmerized Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 haha, If I don't feel attraction I would never even go on the date. What's the point? I do have to come up with tricks to stop them from wanting to jump on me at the end of the dates though...specially if it's a late night date. I'll be happy to hear any suggestion you guys may have for this.
StanMusial Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 One of my college buddies took this really popular and hot girl to an Aerosmith concert once. We were trying to warn him and downplay the situation. She just wanted to go see the show and we pretty much knew it. The next morning I saw him and he had been drunk and crying all night. I asked him what happened and he said that as soon as they got there she ditched him and went to the front and they wouldn't let him go up there. LOL. So yeah, women can enjoy and have fun on a date like this, but it's going to suck for the guy most likely.
Necris Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Why again would a woman accept a date with a gentleman she clearly has no interest in? :confused: Happens to me, I don't know the answer but they do get nice meals and entertainment the only price to pay is hanging out with that dude who's paying for the stuff.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 One of my college buddies took this really popular and hot girl to an Aerosmith concert once. We were trying to warn him and downplay the situation. She just wanted to go see the show and we pretty much knew it. The next morning I saw him and he had been drunk and crying all night. I asked him what happened and he said that as soon as they got there she ditched him and went to the front and they wouldn't let him go up there. LOL. So yeah, women can enjoy and have fun on a date like this, but it's going to suck for the guy most likely. Yup. Well, that's more of the gold-digger variety. I don't go for women that high. A possible explanation for my own troubles is that the women in question maybe aren't used to being asked out THAT much, so they bite at first but after thinking about it, think they can do better. Happens to me, I don't know the answer but they do get nice meals and entertainment the only price to pay is hanging out with that dude who's paying for the stuff. YOU are probably part of the fun too. I definitely think I am. They just aren't into us in THAT way.
2sure Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I wont date a man I have no interest in. On the other hand I'm not above amusing myself while on a date with a man who has no real interest in me. Saturday night had dinner with an acquaintance that has banged every mutual single friend we have. I know exactly why he invited me . I wore my daughters Cat Eye contacts from Halloween . After dinner I took them out, during drinks I licked my hand and then wiped my face with it. It wasn't until the check came that he asked if I was fluffing with him.
crude Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yet men continue to insist that they pay for everything, never let the woman do her fair share, and claim to be insulted if he doesn't get to pay. All for the hope of getting laid. Stop spoiling women, you'll still get the sex if they're into you, if not, you won't get a thing for all the $$$ you spent.
Necris Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yet men continue to insist that they pay for everything, never let the woman do her fair share, and claim to be insulted if he doesn't get to pay. All for the hope of getting laid. Stop spoiling women, you'll still get the sex if they're into you, if not, you won't get a thing for all the $$$ you spent. While I'm not really trying to get laid, just meeting women in the hopes that one day I can get some sort of relationship going I still pay for dates because I believe that is the gentlemen thing to do, also its already hard enough to get women to know they are going out on a date with you since they are so quick to always think we are just "hanging out" so by paying I help show that this is indeed a date, date. YOU are probably part of the fun too. I definitely think I am. They just aren't into us in THAT way. Perhaps. I at least think of myself as an amusing guy and they do tell me after the date before they inevitably fade away from my life that they did have a fun time. Like my last date the girl said she had so much fun, but then she just fades away, though days after the date I managed to get a hold of her and asked her what was up and she just said she is not interested.
StanMusial Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 While I'm not really trying to get laid, just meeting women in the hopes that one day I can get some sort of relationship going I still pay for dates because I believe that is the gentlemen thing to do, also its already hard enough to get women to know they are going out on a date with you since they are so quick to always think we are just "hanging out" so by paying I help show that this is indeed a date, date. Perhaps. I at least think of myself as an amusing guy and they do tell me after the date before they inevitably fade away from my life that they did have a fun time. Like my last date the girl said she had so much fun, but then she just fades away, though days after the date I managed to get a hold of her and asked her what was up and she just said she is not interested. Well at least you're trying.
todreaminblue Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Isn't this like a man sleeping with a woman he has no serious intentions with? This also happens all the time. I have a friend who sometimes goes out on dates with guys she's lukewarm about, and she'll laugh and say, "At least it's a free dinner." Her attitude on this bugs me, but it's one of her few weak points, so I let it slide. And right now, she's dating a guy who sometimes acts kinda lukewarm toward her - so it all comes back around. I've never once agreed to go out with someone I had no interest in. That doesn't even compute for me. I really would rather sit home and do nothing than do that. I have gone out with guys i have no physical attraction for, i have gone out with them because i enjoy their company, I do let them know I see them as friends only before i go out with them....I pay for myself......or i go dutch......deb
ImperfectionisBeauty Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I wouldn't ever do this, I wouldn't go out with a guy I wasn't interested in getting to know. I have goals (I want a ring and baby) and if I see no potential I am not wasting his time or mine. Also I would never want a guy to do this to me so I am not going to do it to him.
SmileFace Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 The temptation to start a thread named "Quick tips to get in to women's pants who you have no interest in" Don't you have friends? Looking for a free meal... cheap whores..teeheee
Esoteric Elf Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Why again would a woman accept a date with a gentleman she clearly has no interest in? :confused: Now this is an example of where the communication and subtle characteristics of males of females differs. For many men, attention nearly equates a sort of attraction; that is, if she is going out with you, she must be interested in you. For many women, however, they have quite a bit of attention in their lives, so attention and attraction can be easily separated and differentiated; thus, a date can be merely to have fun or to be serious.
Phoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Maybe I'm an oddball of a woman, but I would definitely go on a date with a guy who I did not initially have any "interest" in, because I NEED to date a guy in order to FIND OUT if I'm interested... that's the way all my relationships started. I didn't have any initial extreme interest, but I knew that there was potential for me to be interested if I got to know him. And then, a few weeks later, *BOOM* I like the guy. However, of all the dates I ever went on, only one involved dinner where the guy paid (I offered to chip in, he declined my offer). The rest were all dates that were along the lines of meeting up at a cafe, or going and doing something that did not involve money, so it wasn't like they were shelling out cash just to not get anywhere. Plus, considering I have not been asked out in 2 years I have no business rejecting any guys who I might potentially be interested in once I get to know him better.
Author JuneJulySeptember Posted January 30, 2013 Author Posted January 30, 2013 Plus, considering I have not been asked out in 2 years I have no business rejecting any guys who I might potentially be interested in once I get to know him better. Post your picture and zip code here and I'm sure the men of LS will help you make up for lost time.
KungFuJoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Post your picture and zip code here and I'm sure the men of LS will help you make up for lost time. Oh yeah in her dreams, baby. In her dreams. 1
Estate Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 (edited) So, I have a date coming up (no lie). And I thought it would be a good occasion to bring up some ways in which women can show they clearly have no physical attraction or interest in the man, but still enjoy a fun night out talking to a fun and cool guy. 1) When the meeting place has been established, bring one or more co-workers or friends. 2) If going to see a movie, leave a seat in between you and the guy. 3) During the 'date', casually mention how much physical attraction you have to one of his best friends. 4) Continuously say to co-workers and friends on the days leading up to the date, and also during the date that you have no idea that it is a date and you're just 'hanging out with some dude' despite the man initially asking you if you'd like to go on date? "What? This is a date? Who? Wha? How?" Any others? Sorry I haven't read all replies, just this... But if this is serious, you are being truely horrible. If you don't like the guy, why go out with him? A free night out? Seriously? If you would actually do any of the above when the guy is made think this is a serious 1-on-1 date then that is just not nice in any way. Edit: The OP is a GUY?????? Trollllllllll Edited January 30, 2013 by Estate
Alma Mobley Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Sorry I haven't read all replies, just this... But if this is serious, you are being truely horrible. If you don't like the guy, why go out with him? A free night out? Seriously? If you would actually do any of the above when the guy is made think this is a serious 1-on-1 date then that is just not nice in any way. The OP is a man. He is saying all these things have happened to him on dates, but I really think he should focus on looking forward to his date and plan something fun!
Estate Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 lol, I read through the thread, you're right, I thought this was a girl asking ways the mess with guys. Man, if this is a guy then either he is trolling and there is no way these things have actually happened or else she probably thought he was a nice guy and accepted the date only for him to act like a creep and immediately distance herself. Judging by the follow up replies sounds like yet another guy with serious women issues which comes across very strongly here so probably to these girls too. 1
ltjg45 Posted February 3, 2013 Posted February 3, 2013 Seriously, I need to be told of this ahead of time. If I find out about this mid-way, I'm out of there ASAP. I'm already 26 and ever since I was 18, I rather settle down since I'm not a player and, frankly, I'm disgusted by these players and the way they act. I don't even want to speak to them. So dating to me is seeing what decent women could be out there that I could persue for a possible serious relationship (if that is possible). If not, then I'm moving on to the next. Lie to me and, well, I can disappear pretty quick (and quietly to boot!)
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