mesmerized Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Saying it doesn't make it so. If you are such awesome girlfriend material, then why haven't you found a relationship then? Hell according to this thread you aren't even sure if he would hang out with you if you didn't have sex every time. As a guy, I would be very reluctant to get exclusive with a woman who sleeps with every guy by the third date. So would a lot of other guys. We instinctively screen for women who are good sexual gatekeepers. Why? Because if she gets pregnant, she knows the baby is hers, but we aren't sure whether the baby is ours. A woman who spreads her legs too easily gives us too many reasons to doubt. I'm not trying to be mean here. But I don't sugarcoat things, and from your threads it's clear the way you date just isn't working for you. Says the late thirties single guy. Get off your high horse sometimes. 3
neveragain34 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 You can take b/c pills to stop it or a bunch of ibuprofen a few hours before and it stops it. It works! Google it.
crude Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Funny how people here refuse to accept that a woman can want casual sex like a man. Every woman is secretly being taken advantage of by an evil man when all she secretly longs for is to get married. Reminds me of the nutty branch of feminism that says all heterosexual sex is rape. Women can have friends that are female, male no sex, and FWB. Let them enjoy their lives, not babble on about "girlfriend material". 2
MrCastle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Yes I am looking for a relationship, but I'm also not about to give up some good sex while I'm looking for one. Dick too bomb 1
crude Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Menstruation isn't such a big deal. Notice how many men have the nickname "Red". http://oi48.tinypic.com/16gbkn7.jpg
monicaelise Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Menstruation isn't such a big deal. Notice how many men have the nickname "Red". http://oi48.tinypic.com/16gbkn7.jpg Blurrrgh, but I'd probably be okay with bleeding on that face.
KungFuJoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Not gonna lie. I've earned my red wings before. Sex while on her period? That's par for the course for me.
chex Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Blurrrgh, but I'd probably be okay with bleeding on that face. Hahaha that would be hard for me to cover up if her 'rents needed something done around the house while I was there though
MrCastle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I don't think I'll reach a point where I can slide my penis into something actively bleeding. It's not a vagina at that point. It's a wound. I can't f*** a wound. 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 I don't think I'll reach a point where I can slide my penis into something actively bleeding. It's not a vagina at that point. It's a wound. I can't f*** a wound. Tell that to the guys who made the August Underground series of films... ...but I digress...that's for the Most Disturbing Movies thread....
MrCastle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Tell that to the guys who made the August Underground series of films... ...but I digress...that's for the Most Disturbing Movies thread.... Look, all I'm saying is, if a woman tells me "F*** my bloody pussy", she better be British. 3
Imajerk17 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 (edited) Says the late thirties single guy. Get off your high horse sometimes. Haha. Actually, says the late-30s guy who is happy being single until he meets the right girl. Difference there, My Bitter One... So tell me. You think I'm some type of special Neanderthal for expressing my views on this and that good guys away from LS just don't think this way. What then do you make of all these threads on here lately written by women who are in love with their "conservative" boyfriends who are just finding out about these women's wild pasts? You think the OP has any concern that she could indeed be one of these women? You think she ought to give this some thought that such a thing could happen to her? Edited January 30, 2013 by Imajerk17
mortensorchid Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 SOme guys don't care about it. I've done IT during my period. WIthout sounding too gross (which it really is if you've never done it before) there is a good point about it in that the blood will lubricate you more. But if you are going to do IT during, put towels down. There is also this product out there called Instead which you might be able to find at a local pharmacy. It's like an old fashioned diaphram that is made of plastic, you pop it in and it acts as a shield to catch the blood just as it comes out of the uterus. But you still have to take it out and it's really REALLY NASTY. Instead keeps you fresher, but it's not exactly a picnic. Still, things to keep in mind.
mortensorchid Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 But one other thing, be sure to tell him first that you are on your period rather than have him make a messy surprise. It's just courtesy.
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 This happened to me when I had a FWB few months back. I texted him "hey, it's that time of the month, perhaps it's best if we reschedule". He said he wanted to reschedule and I saw him few days later. It didn't even occur to me to be butt hurt over it because I knew we were in for just sex. OP, if you can't handle "casual" - don't do it. The very fact that you are going to be "hurt" if he reschedules because you can't have sex, is very telling. 3
louise_23 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 So I have plans with a guy that I have been casually seeing (he doesn't want a relationship), but we enjoy each others company. Am I supposed to not see him if I'm on my period and can't have sex? I'm bad with the rules for the super casual dating. you can do other stuff...no need to bail completely...certainly not a fan of the bloodsports though. eugh. 1
MrCastle Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 you can do other stuff...no need to bail completely...certainly not a fan of the bloodsports though. eugh. He can f*** her in the a**, she can suck his d***. There is plenty to do. 2
HitMeNow Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Depending on how close you guys are I would choose to tell him you're on your period, or just going there and hanging out with him with no sex and maybe a BJ. Remember that FWB have a F in it, which is not for ****ING but for FRIENDS. If you cannot even be friends with someone then why be with them at all?
Ami1uwant Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Just ask him if he likes to swim upstream and suggest he wear some snorkeling gear.
Emilia Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 To be honest with you, I would feel REALLY crappy if he didn't want to see me because we can't have sex. So I'm kind of too scared to see what he would say if I told him before I meet up with him. Then you shouldn't be seeing him on a casual basis because clearly you are after a relationship with him. Why are you doing this to yourself? 4
TheOW Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 You can take b/c pills to stop it or a bunch of ibuprofen a few hours before and it stops it. It works! Google it. Doesnt work, neither does showering before either lol. You dont need to have sex to have a good time .... use your imagination!
Drseussgrrl Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Haha. Actually, says the late-30s guy who is happy being single until he meets the right girl. Difference there, My Bitter One... So tell me. You think I'm some type of special Neanderthal for expressing my views on this and that good guys away from LS just don't think this way. What then do you make of all these threads on here lately written by women who are in love with their "conservative" boyfriends who are just finding out about these women's wild pasts? You think the OP has any concern that she could indeed be one of these women? You think she ought to give this some thought that such a thing could happen to her? Didn't you post a short while ago about breaking up with your f*ck buddy? As far as I can tell you're just perpetuating this self-prescribed "problem" that women have. A willing participant. You say women are the gate-keepers of sex as if you have no control over where you put your willy. Sorry, the ONUS is not on just women here.
Treasa Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 He can f*** her in the a**, she can suck his d***. There is plenty to do. I think your point would come across better if you were less subtle. And if everything wasn't censored... 1
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