superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I know, I will be done with him shortly though anyway. SO maybe this will be a good push in that direction lol dang! There ya go
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Wait a minute. Are you saying that if the guy wants to reschedule because you are on your period that you are through with him? Why?
KungFuJoe Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Man we sure get all sorts of characters around here, don't we? 3
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Man we sure get all sorts of characters around here, don't we? I think we should make an evening of it and have a great big debate about this girl's menstrual cycle! 1
silvermercy Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 You mentioned that your relationship with him is strictly casual. Why do you care if he doesn't want to hang out with you then? It seems like a FWB thing. I was thinking exactly the same thing!
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I'll start. I don't think it's out of line for a guy to reschedule sex if it's that time of the month. I don't mind it if it's toward the end and the flow is slow but when it's going full force, I would have to think twice about that.
rocketman122 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Wait a minute. Are you saying that if the guy wants to reschedule because you are on your period that you are through with him? Why? flaking because she's on her period is a stupid and childish thing to do. I dont think u should dump him. but you should keep him casual and look for someone who doesnt act like a little boy. oh my god, blood! 2
superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I think we should make an evening of it and have a great big debate about this girl's menstrual cycle! lol, maybe the woman is using HIM for sex this time and that's what she means by being done with him.. 1
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Every girlfriend that I've ever had never wanted to have sex when they were having their period because they felt crappy. The last one wanted to have sex right at the end though as she said that she would get a surge of hormones then and I always obliged! I fear this thread will get moved... 1
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 lol, maybe the woman is using HIM for sex this time and that's what she means by being done with him.. Can't argue that! Could happen. OP! Can you straighten all this out?
Imajerk17 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 OP: I thought you were looking for a relationship? No one is going to want to buy a cow that keeps giving her milk away for free... To answer your question: Hang out with him but tell him you don't feel like having sex tonight. 1
superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 OP: I thought you were looking for a relationship? No one is going to want to buy a cow that gives her milk away for free... To answer your question: Hang out with him but tell him you don't feel like having sex tonight. Yeah good idea, then when he asks why, tell him your problem and see what happens next... 1
Author starla33 Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 OP: I thought you were looking for a relationship? No one is going to want to buy a cow that keeps giving her milk away for free... To answer your question: Hang out with him but tell him you don't feel like having sex tonight. Yes I am looking for a relationship, but I'm also not about to give up some good sex while I'm looking for one. 2
superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Yes I am looking for a relationship, but I'm also not about to give up some good sex while I'm looking for one. Your honesty is admirable 1
Imajerk17 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Yes I am looking for a relationship, but I'm also not about to give up some good sex while I'm looking for one. Be careful because this sort of behavior will be held against you... You will be written off as "not girlfriend material".
Author starla33 Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 Be careful because this sort of behavior will be held against you... You will be written off as "not girlfriend material". by who exactly? And I didn't jump right into bed with this guy either
Drseussgrrl Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Be careful because this sort of behavior will be held against you... You will be written off as "not girlfriend material". Well I only have casual sex IF I'm on my period. Discuss. 2
chex Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Every girlfriend that I've ever had never wanted to have sex when they were having their period because they felt crappy. The last one wanted to have sex right at the end though as she said that she would get a surge of hormones then and I always obliged! I fear this thread will get moved... My girlfriend always wants it while she's on her period, because she feels crappy. But then she gets turned off by the idea of ****ing while she bleeds. So it's like she's forced to live with her horniness without relieving it.
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Well I only have casual sex IF I'm on my period. Discuss. I think he meant that she wouldn't be good girlfriend material if she has a FWB and the potential guys find out about it. I don't know. This thread is confusing.
Author starla33 Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 I think he meant that she wouldn't be good girlfriend material if she has a FWB and the potential guys find out about it. I don't know. This thread is confusing. lol I'm awesome GF material. Me having sex once in a while has nothing to do with it, but thanks.
Drseussgrrl Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I think he meant that she wouldn't be good girlfriend material if she has a FWB and the potential guys find out about it. I don't know. This thread is confusing. Yeah but if you're on your period when you have casual sex you can't be labeled a slut. Look it up.
Green Light Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 lol I'm awesome GF material. Me having sex once in a while has nothing to do with it, but thanks. I wasn't saying it, the other dude was. Personally, I don't think it matters what you do. As long as a woman was disease free I wouldn't care if she had a FWB before I came along. 3
Imajerk17 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 (edited) lol I'm awesome GF material. Me having sex once in a while has nothing to do with it, but thanks. Saying it doesn't make it so. If you are such awesome girlfriend material, then why haven't you found a relationship then? Hell according to this thread you aren't even sure if he would hang out with you if you didn't have sex every time. As a guy, I would be very reluctant to get exclusive with a woman who sleeps with every guy by the third date. So would a lot of other guys. We instinctively screen for women who are good sexual gatekeepers. Why? Because if she gets pregnant, she knows the baby is hers, but we aren't sure whether the baby is ours. A woman who spreads her legs too easily gives us too many reasons to doubt. I'm not trying to be mean here. But I don't sugarcoat things, and from your threads it's clear the way you date just isn't working for you. Edited January 29, 2013 by Imajerk17 1
Imajerk17 Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 My post sounded a bit more judgmental than I intended. BUT I do feel your way of dating is hurting your chances of finding what you are really looking for. The frustrating thing is others have been telling you the very same thing since you got here and yet you clearly aren't even considering that viewpoint. Most of your threads sound almost exactly the same.
silvermercy Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Regardless of the "girlfriend material" issue, I've read around the internet about a lot of FWB situations where one or both of the partners were looking for relationships but couldn't find them. That was BECAUSE of their FWB situation. Subconsciously, it hinders you. Just be careful that's not the situation with you.
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