cris9 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I´m a 16 year old who left high school in 10th grade and have a business with my partner that makes enough for me to have a secure future. I also invest in stocks and real estate. I feel like there are only 2 things that matter, money (to have a fun life) and your relationships with others. I feel like a failure sometimes, because I am still girlfriendless for 2-3 years. I think it´s because I left school but it wasn´t even a year ago that I left, so it might just be that I don´t get out as much as I used to. I just don´t know what to do though. I lost all of my friends when I left and nobody has asked me to go out somewhere with them, I´ve lost hope. I had great friends and a few girlfriends in the past but I blew it: I didn´t keep in touch with my friends so they stopped caring and pretty much every girlfriend that I´ve had has left me for some reason. I was really close to no longer being a virgin with my last girlfriend but although everything was going smoothly, I messed up and said something so stupid and she just ran out of my house; I don ´t care about sex I just cared because we were planning to go ou teverywhere that summer and now I´m alone. Before her I had a perfect flawless girl when I was 13, but couldn´t keep her for a week... She broke up with me because I was so weird and it´s a problem for me at first, I need to get comfortable before I can be myself. I´m kinda down because I go out sometimes just to skateboard and spot all these guys with their girlfriends, one guy had his girl on his bike and I always see people kissng, it makes me jealous... I want a relationship like that. And about friends, I feel if I saw my friends they would still accept me, it happened a few times where I saw my friends outside and we talked and I told them about my little brick & mortar business and how I left school... so that isn´t a problem, I just don´t have as much time for them as I used to. my problem is I never had the balls to ask a girl to go out with me somewhere directly, I never was good at it. Those 2 girls that I mentioned earlier, the first one thought I was cute and wouldn´t stop bothering me until I told her I liked her back, and my friend had to ask the othe rone if she liked me... Only one time have I asked a girl directly and only because my friend pressured me into doing it (and it only lasted 3 days, but we were still friends and I feel I could have made it work if I wasn´t such a spazz around girls. And now the biggest problem of all is that I´m not in school which is where 90% of people find girlfriends. I definitely don´t want to wait until I´m in my 20´s to find a girlfriend, it gets harder with age I just want a teen girlfriend my age right now. I have no clue where to search tho ugh, do you know how awkward it is to go up to a girl in the streets and just start flirting with her? I´ve never done it before, and I don´t think they´re in the right state of mind if they´re just in the gorcery store buying snacks. The last thing I´m going to say is that I think it´s still possible. I need to work on how I talk to girls, how can I start talking to girls outside of school without being creepy? In school it was much easier. So, I need help. Any specific tips made for me would help.
pbjbear Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Prob your age (girls at your age arent particularly great...all teenagers are immature) and not getting out much.
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