Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 I would not want a woman who was MORE wild in the past than she was with me. Oh hell no. Has nothing to do with insecurity. It has to do with the fact that I'm not the right guy for her. She needs someone that makes her feel like a sexual woman and I need a woman who will BE that sexual woman for me. This is all conjecture, of course...I've never been with a woman who was wildER in the past than with me. I'm kind of shocked to here this coming from you Joe. What if she hasn't been with you long enough to feel comfortable doing certain things, or after doing something in the past she has come to the conclusion that she doesn't like it and doesn't want to do it again?
Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 Maybe you don't know what sex is then? I'm pretty sure I do, and that I know the difference between sex and love. I didn't know the difference when I was young, but now in my early 30's I defiantly do.
aed Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I'm kind of shocked to here this coming from you Joe. What if she hasn't been with you long enough to feel comfortable doing certain things, or after doing something in the past she has come to the conclusion that she doesn't like it and doesn't want to do it again? But this is not the discussion on the dating board right now. If she didn't like it: just say it. But if she doesn't want to do it with you, is the problem. These girls do those things with random guys, but want their OS to have a perfect picture of them, I must correct: A perfect picture they think their OS wants. It is not because she doesn't like doing those things. You still seem to avoid that part everytime.
KungFuJoe Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I'm kind of shocked to here this coming from you Joe. What if she hasn't been with you long enough to feel comfortable doing certain things, or after doing something in the past she has come to the conclusion that she doesn't like it and doesn't want to do it again? Well...I'm talking LTR material here, not casual dating. So the assumption is you've been together long enough, are committed, and everything is good in the relationship. If she did something in the past and she doesn't like it anymore? No problem. I don't want her doing anything she doesn't want to do. For me, it's not so much about any specific "act". It's more about how they carry themselves and how "open and free" they are with you. Really hard to explain and it's more about intuition and knowing that person more than anything they actually do.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 You still seem to avoid that part everytime. No, I think why is important, and I think not understanding why is very short sited.
aed Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 No, I think why is important, and I think not understanding why is very short sited. You had your taste of women, I am correct? So please try the talk open freely one on some girls, just do and see how they react. Our even ask some lady friends it as an hypothetical question.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 You had your taste of women, I am correct? What are you talking about?
aed Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 What are you talking about? You make it look you have your share of experience, dating girls etc.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 For me, it's not so much about any specific "act". It's more about how they carry themselves and how "open and free" they are with you. Really hard to explain and it's more about intuition and knowing that person more than anything they actually do. ok, that I can relate to. The discussions that have been going on though all seem to be focusing on act xyz though. By that i mean people acting all butt hurt because he/she did xyz with an ex and not me. love/sex/relationships are one of the most complex things humans can become involved in IMO, and thus shouldn't be microscoped like so many people seem to do.
Author Lonely Ronin Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 You make it look you have your share of experience, dating girls etc. again, huh?
mesmerized Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 Maybe or maybe not. I believe insecurities are sometimes good, makes us try to get better and make changes to our lives. But they can also cause issues like when we don't do anything due to fear of rejection. Confidence is important for both genders, but women don't need it as much as men since male's attraction is mostly visual. If you're an ugly woman, you're most likely screwed. 1
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