MissLY Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 How often should men and women communicate while dating? For instance, if they've been dating for 3 months, should communication be 50/50? Or should the guy still be the "pursuer" and contact the girl more? Also, would communication be expected everyday or every other day? Thanks
mesmerized Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 After three months I think both should communicate. I'd say at that point communication should be every day with maybe a couple of days a week going without any form of communication.
KungFuJoe Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 c'mon people...really!?! I can't believe someone would ask this question and I really can't believe someone actually made an attempt at an answer! Do what feels right to YOU. If you want to contact him every day, do it! If you want to contact him once a week...do it! No one, in the history of the planet, has ever said, "Yeah...I'm so glad that my partner only contacted me once a week instead of once a day...otherwise we never would have gotten married." 2
tbf Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Why are you still dating after three months? No relationship discussion?
somedude81 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Whatever you do, don't hold back communication because you are trying to fallow some rule. 1
veggirl Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 dude it should be 50/50 WAY before 3 months. also should be exclusive/committed by or at 3 months.
monicaelise Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 How often should men and women communicate while dating? For instance, if they've been dating for 3 months, should communication be 50/50? Or should the guy still be the "pursuer" and contact the girl more? Also, would communication be expected everyday or every other day? Thanks I think anyone who's had a modicum of success in their relationships will give you essentially the same advice as KungFuJoe has. You need to stop yourself from thinking in terms of specific rules. Each relationship is unique, just as the individuals in it are. Some people like a lot of communication and move very quickly, others take their time and don't feel a need to communicate all that often. I would probably have killed my exhusband (and every man I've been with since come to think of it) if he'd required daily communication in the first three months. Hell, I didn't even sleep with my ex for the first two months I was seeing him. I certainly wasn't convinced he was relationship material at three, but that's just me. Each couple has to figure out for themselves what works. If you don't feel you're getting enough out of your current relationship, it's probably time to reconsider it. You're not going to make a talker out of a non-talker or a chaser out of a non-chaser.
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