troywillis12 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Has anyone ever tried this? I want to test it out, just because I am tired of going out and meeting girls that only want flings/whatever. Kinda looking for something serious for once and I'm having a rough time actually finding it.
superb Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Has anyone ever tried this? I want to test it out, just because I am tired of going out and meeting girls that only want flings/whatever. Kinda looking for something serious for once and I'm having a rough time actually finding it. I've found multiple failures online. Men that can't get offline to date only me, players and creeps. Good luck,lol
Author troywillis12 Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 I mean Im 22 and I am far from a creep... Player haha, I can be. But girls these days just seem to be more interested in having fun, rather than anything serious. Ive found some cute girls so far, I honestly dont want to get to know them online, just some talking here and there and see where that goes, but I am face to face kinda person, I hate talking online 1
Esoteric Elf Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 As a very shy guy in real life, I thought online dating would give me a chance to fulfill a deep chasm within me to be loved and feel affection. What I got online was silence, as much if not more silence than real life. I tried on my own, then I got advice from others online as to profile tips, and, still, girls hardly replied to me and I never received messages, thereby sealing what little chance I had; because of that, I am out. A couple months later, to experiment, I made an online profile with a girl who was probably in the neighborhood of my looks. Within 24 hours, 56 messages had flooded her mailbox. I, even though prepared for messages, was surprised pleasantly on the sheer volume. What she had done in 24 hours with minimal effort, I could not do with varied efforts and half a year. With this, I had no choice but to read; I wouldn't even have had hardly any time to "go out on my own" to search for profiles. If you are a girl, you have to sort through messages. If you are a guy, you have to sort through profiles. 2
fortyninethousand322 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Online dating either works wonderfully, or it destroys your confidence worse than it was when you started off. Food for thought. Don't take it too seriously though. Online dating that is... 1
rocketman122 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 if youre ugly, short, outta shape, socially awkward, then OLD wont work for you. I am far from a creep... Player haha, I can be then you are one because its built into you. you dont turn these things one and off. dont downplay yourself. once a creep/player, always a creep player. 1
Author troywillis12 Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 What do you mean by creep player? Honestly I just don't really try. Like this summer, I'd goto European clubs and bars, wait a while, smile at a girl i thought was cute and then find myself either talking with them or kissing/ dancing. I just never really try, which maybe that's my problem. I wait for girls to come to me, which has worked, but I guess those are he ones who are just looking for a good time. I like being in a group where there are a number of girls, because its vey easy to talk with them that way. I guess im just shy in a sense that I hate rejection and do t like to approach girls out of the blue.
StanMusial Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I doubt you'll find what you're looking for, if you're being honest about that. If you are goodlooking in your photos, you will have a lot of dates most likely.
Casablanca Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 What's the worse that can happen? Just use it as another medium to met women.
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