natwilliams Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I went on a second full-evening multi-activity date with a girl and didn't kiss her. First date I had my arm around her a bit. This time I was so lame I didn't even touch much at all. She touched me a couple times on the thigh. I wonder, am I doomed? Did I show super weakness? How can I rebound?
Astra5 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Make a point to touch her more and be less shy about it the next time around. lol
pbjbear Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Kiss her on the next date. Doesnt have to be super passionate. You can kiss her on the cheek first and if she responds positively then go for it. If you dont feel comfortable with that, put your arm around her more (or her waist) or hold hands. 1
Casablanca Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 If she really likes you, she isn't going to be put off if it takes you a 3rd date to kiss her for the first time. Just go for it, sounds like she likes you, so pucker up and go in for the kill!
neveragain34 Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Depends on her personality. I would be put off by now, thinking you were a wuss, but that's just my personality. You should be okay if you kiss her by next date.
pbjbear Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 I wouldnt be put off, you still gots time. Just act soonish
Author natwilliams Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Wow, really that much consensus huh? I was hoping some people would say it totally depends, sometimes you can wait until date 6 or 7 or something. About the actual kiss, is it bad to go for the hands around the waist thing first while kinda talking/flirting still. Just to square torsos, and then eventually lean my head in to see if she does too?
JuneJulySeptember Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Wow, really that much consensus huh? I was hoping some people would say it totally depends, sometimes you can wait until date 6 or 7 or something. About the actual kiss, is it bad to go for the hands around the waist thing first while kinda talking/flirting still. Just to square torsos, and then eventually lean my head in to see if she does too? Dude. Just, whatever. If you like her, just try and plant one on her in the middle of street while everybody's looking. If she runs away in disgust, laugh and move on to the next one. If she's so sensitive that 'what date you kiss her on' makes or breaks her interest in you, kick her to the curb and on to the next.
Author natwilliams Posted February 6, 2013 Author Posted February 6, 2013 Sorry silly question - bear with me folks - can you do a first kiss okay while seated side by side in the subway? what about in the subway station.. like is it too nasty and not romantic?
Estate Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 I went on a second full-evening multi-activity date with a girl and didn't kiss her. First date I had my arm around her a bit. This time I was so lame I didn't even touch much at all. She touched me a couple times on the thigh. I wonder, am I doomed? Did I show super weakness? How can I rebound? You're not "doomed" but you need to get her out again and take initiative. Make the date easy to kiss her. Activity dates are usually easier for this, don't make it so there is that awkward moment at the end.... just do something where you can both be in contact a lot. If she's touching you, it s a good sign. Touch her casually and there'll be plenty of oppertunities to kiss, it actually builds some tension, then when you're ready take one of those oppertunities. 3rd date though, it won't "doom" you but if you don't kiss her by then she may question where it's going. Take the lead and do it. Best of luck man.
Mr_Flay Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Whoa, you should have definitely kissed her. Doing so creates 1.21 gigawatts of romantic energy and sends you through the flux barrier and out of the Friendzone. Failing to do so could create a paradox, the results of which could cause a chain reaction that would unravel the very fabric of the space time continuum, and destroy the entire universe! Granted, that's a worse case scenario. The destruction might in fact be very localized, limited to merely our own galaxy. Seriously man, just do it WHEN you think it's right.
Lani Posted February 6, 2013 Posted February 6, 2013 Stop overthinking it, and just do it. When she's talking, look at her lips. That gets me every time.
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