kimabii Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 Ok, I broke it off with her due to the response I got from here. This is my question btw... I need advice about my situation... ? - Yahoo! Answers - Ok, so the guy on the question is about her first bf. I'd like to add a few information so that I could get the best advice from you guys. - My first problem was around May or June, a guyor a girl sent me screen caps of her and some guy working in Dubai. She said about me is that "the spark is gone", "he's become boring" and the painful one which was "I have always loved you, if you come back, i prmise---" I told my friend about this and she urged me to confront her and break it off. I didn't do any of it. I kept it to myself. - So around October, I think, she made me leave my phone on her apartment coz theft is becoming a trend at the office. So after work, I went to her apartment to pick it up and went home. She was logged on my fb app and I was about to log off when curiosity struck. See, around that month, I noticed that she started this habit of moving the laptop from my view and same thing when she's texting. She's hiding something and I thought this was my chance to find out. - I saw her and convo with her other ex#3 from what I know(not her first bf or the guy in Dubai) and they were like "I dont know why I still love you" and "i love you forever" and other mushy stuff... This time, I texted her about it. She snuck out of work and went home and asked me to see her there. She said she had no excuse that if I wanted to leave, then I can go... Then she begged me to stay, cried and tried to cut herself with a kitchen knife in front of me. I stayed because I though I would never find another girl. She's the one that went after me, she courted me so I never really had the confidence in me. - So then the link I posted comes in about her blasting her love for her first bf who just passed away. I know I seem like insensitive but check the link for further details.... - So the latest dirt I found was just a couple of days ago, the day we "officially" broke up, i.e. thru fb status. I opened FB on my phone browser, not the app and it seems she was also logged on on that one. I, again, was curious. She was talking to ex#3 and how the guy was "i miss you" and "i love you". However, my girl said she missed him too but never said "I love you" back. However, there is this new guy chatted her up because of her new status. He was like "happy" coz she's single and they were exchanging I love you.. - - - However, I feel like she's depressed right now. She's called me over 20 times now trying to get in touch with me. I'm not answering either her call or text. She kept sending me this promises I made how I'll love her forever and I won't leave her... She said she's hurting right now and I feel so guilty. She's also struggling to pay up her rent coz when we were together, we shared her dues. I payed for her bills, the bill for the water and her grocery and she only shares the rent... I'm afraid she might be kicked out of her apartment and she got no place to stay. I'm sorry for the long post.
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