jpt Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Hi my girlfriend dumped after ten months even though never argued in all that time ,she has always had issues regarding relationships as she was cheated on by ex husband of a few years ,but I have understood tha.t so I haven't pushed anything ,got on really well with her children and thought things were ok sort of. Last couple of months have gone a bit stale but as I said didn't want to push it further to push our relationship to next stage .I think the world of her and she has got rid of me.before accusing me of something I didnt do but then came back saying she missed me .now she dumped me with the its nit you its me speach ,seem in limbo
LduKaZ Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Hi my girlfriend dumped after ten months even though never argued in all that time ,she has always had issues regarding relationships as she was cheated on by ex husband of a few years ,but I have understood tha.t so I haven't pushed anything ,got on really well with her children and thought things were ok sort of. Last couple of months have gone a bit stale but as I said didn't want to push it further to push our relationship to next stage .I think the world of her and she has got rid of me.before accusing me of something I didnt do but then came back saying she missed me .now she dumped me with the its nit you its me speach ,seem in limbo There's a million possibilities of why she's dumping you. GIGS, trust issues, another guy in the picture, etc... This is not what's important. You are the important thing here. The best and only thing you can do here, is leave her alone. And when I say alone, I mean completely alone, no texting, no calling, nothing. Either she realizes leaving you was a mistake and comes clean to you, or she moves on. And if you do this, you'll be in a way better position to move on yourself.
Chi townD Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Then walk away. You can't make up her mind for her. And that isn't being fair to you. So, her decision was to have you out of her life. Then give her just that. You didn't want this, but she did. So, you ignore all texts, emails and phonecalls. Hard NC, dude.
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