Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Well I know this is similiar to my other posts.Its another topic though. I just called his families place and someone answered saying hes working.His sister told me he wasnt working today when I visted him on Sunday. And he even told me at work that he didnt have to work tonight.Should I keep calling to find out if hes really there? It sounded like a kid who answered the phone. Something tells me he is there.If he is I do want to see him.I dont want him being mad at me at work tommorow for not showing up either.What do I do?
Stone Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 don't keep calling you don't want to seem obsessive. Patty, I have been out of the loop here for a couple months do you have a boyfriend?
surfergirl Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Do you really want to waste your time with someone who's "hiding" from you? Stoneheather could take those "balls" off her chest and let him borrow them for a while until you figure him out.....maybe he could talk then and quit hiding out.
Author Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 I think I'll call again.What will I say if that kid answers though? Thats the one who told me he was working. Patty
Author Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 Patty, I have been out of the loop here for a couple months do you have a boyfriend? Well,for now I'm calling him my guy friend.He seems more then a friend though and I love him.He appreciates me,his family appreciates me,makes me feel good about myself and glad I finally found someone like him and his family.With my family,I sometimes feel unappreciated and disrespected. Im really depressed right now. Why are you doing that - again???? When the kid answered the last time she had said that he was working.Something tells me he is there.His sister told me last Sunday he wouldnt be working, if I wanted to go see him.And he made it clear to me at work, that he wasnt doing anything tonight. So Im not clear on what is going on.The only thing I can say is,I guess its good to call first,rather then get there on a taxi and left stranded if no one was there. Patty
tiki Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Patty: He knows how to find you and will find you if he wants to. Sit tight and see what comes of this! Don't rush or you'll appear desperate to him.
Author Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 Patty: He knows how to find you and will find you if he wants to. Sit tight and see what comes of this! Don't rush or you'll appear desperate to him. __________________ That is true.I never thought of it that way. Thanks. Patty
Author Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 I really feel awful cause I promised him I'd come over. Guess I can explain to him tommorow at work that I did try. Patty
DerangedAngel Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Well, yeah. He's either: a). Working. They can call you in like that, you know. b). At home avoiding you. c). At home and doesn't know that you've called. Little kids usually don't know what the heck they're talking about on the phone. Or at least the ones that I've talked to don't. If a, it can't be helped. If b, you should leave him alone and forget about it. If c, he'll find out the next time you see him. That way you don't look desperate if it was, in fact, a or b. -Deranged
Author Patty Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 I also forgot to mention that he told me to take a taxi over if my mother cant bring me so I dont know what is going on. Thats something I'd love to do and im taking the risk of being stranded if no one is there, or in trouble with my mother. Im just scared that my mother will ruin this relationship that I have with him.Im really scared. Sorry if I seem like a pain with this.I have alot of worries cause of my mother. Patty
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