Sadmisselle Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I know I shouldn't look at his fb page. I know this. But then at 3 in the morning I find myself waking up and doing just that. How do I stop myself? He CHEATED on me. And when I found out about it after we had broken up I went nuts. I want him to apologize. I want him to admit he did something wrong. I want to run that girl and him over. I don't know how to be anymore.
LduKaZ Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 The only way you can stop yourself from checking his FB page is by deleting it!! He cheated and didnt even apologize?? He deserves nothing but your silence and hate. Im sorry but have some pride girl!! There are tons of good looking, respectful, and wonderful guys out there praying they can find someone like you one day. And you are there sitting and loving this pig?? Think about this for a sec..
megasparxxx Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I know you must feel terrible. And I've had the same awful compulsion to look at exes fb pages. But look, you're only torturing yourself. He treated you badly. And I know that in spite of that it's difficult to automatically switch off feelings for someone you love. But you need to give yourself time. It won't be easy tomorrow, or next week, or next month. It may still hurt next year. Yes, it may still hurt. What I'm saying is you have to accept this. Wallow for a while if you like. But understand that it will get better with time. I feel so bad for you. I know what it's like to be hurt. But in time you will see that you are lucky that you do not still have this person in your life. It's not you. It's what's in his character, which is clearly flawed if he is capable of hurting a woman so much. He will do the same with his next woman. Be patient with your sadness. It will pass and I wish you all the best with it. 1
flitzanu Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I know I shouldn't look at his fb page. I know this. But then at 3 in the morning I find myself waking up and doing just that. How do I stop myself? He CHEATED on me. And when I found out about it after we had broken up I went nuts. I want him to apologize. I want him to admit he did something wrong. I want to run that girl and him over. I don't know how to be anymore. you start by deleting him and then blocking him. then you can't see it.
geegirl Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I know I shouldn't look at his fb page. I know this. But then at 3 in the morning I find myself waking up and doing just that. How do I stop myself? He CHEATED on me. And when I found out about it after we had broken up I went nuts. I want him to apologize. I want him to admit he did something wrong. I want to run that girl and him over. I don't know how to be anymore. How do you stop yourself? You make a decision that you won't and stick to it. Unless you like to torture yourself, then keep doing it. Checking FB doesn't change the fact that he's a cheater so what are you hoping to gain from checking his FB? If he can cheat, don't expect an apology. Some do and some don't. You can't force someone to feel remorse. It's not the girl's fault. Let that go.
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