Babyribs Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 about a month ago i met this woman, who i imediately found attractive and wanted her right away, she has a boyfriend but that didnt matter i guess because after a few drinks and her man wasnt around we would start making out, but thats as far as it ever got. one night after we made out i asked her to spend the night with me and she said she couldnt, i asked her if she wanted to have anything with me and she said she didnt like me this way, fine even thou i liked her i was like ok but we can still be friends right she said yes, now she has been ahnging out with me more often and alone without anyone around but i havent tried to kiss her or anything i am scare i dont know if i should or not, we have been out to eat, she comes over my place and we talk for hours, she said her man is driving her crazy and she doesnt know what to do etc, she wants out but doesnt know how, i use the simple lie "well try working it out with him" when what i really want is to be with her. how do i make a move to see if she wants more than what we are sharing? or is she just a friend? she flirts with me all the time and gives me this look that drives me crazy, i told her what she does to me when she does that and she just said i like to flirt but yet she knows i like her. can someone give me some input....how can i aproach her and ask her out? should i leave it alone? someone please give me some advice
Author Babyribs Posted August 25, 2004 Author Posted August 25, 2004 also i meant to say she's taking a trip with me for 4 days.... what is this???
surfergirl Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 You're in a love triangle. Oohh her bf is not one of those guys that would hunt you down 'cause your "seeing" his lady is he???? Is she being honest with you, herself and him??? Does he know about you??? If you want a relationship with her then you've got to figure out how to get them apart.....meaning you want her for yourself....right?? or are you willing to "share"? One more question and I'll stop. Does she spend time with anyone else besides her bf and you?
surfergirl Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 You answered my question. She needs to make up her mind......I'm a big flirt with guys too but I don't take trips with them and I don't hang out at their house alone if they are "involved". We all know our "bounds" with each other and don't cross them. Watch out and don't get "played".
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