crazy wife wants divorce...starting to think I want one too!

[deaths diarrhea]

ok here is the short story. I married my wife when she already had 3 kids. We had our daughter last year. Yes that makes 4 kids and we are newly married last year. We've had our fights like most married people. I'm away because of my occupation and don't always have time to call home. I'm thousands of miles away and she expects me to call every second I have free. I guess our neighbors and her family are filling her head with things that don't even make sense. I know that the previous guy is no longer in the picture. He refuses to pay child support but still wants rights to his kids. We talked it over and it was her decision to tell him he needs to help with their kids before he has anything to do with them. I've been accused of sleeping with anyone and every thing possible. She had her friend make a random Skype and tried to too to me as if we went to school together. She has tried getting on my MySpace and I haven't used that since high school. Accused me of talking to girls on there and fb. I never use fb nothing is on there except one person who moved to another state although we talked before I got married on fb but just as friends. Now she is calling for a divorce and I can't get back to the states to defend my personal belongings. Not only that she has my child that I would do anything to keep custody. My wife has been in abusive relationship with her ex and I never have abused her. So now I am beginning to think I want the divorce because she is becoming more and more crazier by the day. What do I do? How do I defend myself and personal things? Please I need help! I'm only 24 years old and she is 25. I am really done with her this go around. I told her to take everything to just leave my things and a bed. She has no education and no job skills. Just been a mommy all her life. I even gave her a $45,000 van tht I will greatly pay for if she will leave. Nd the things that get me is that when I do call she picks a fight over nothing. Like the other day I called talked to the kids and as soon as that is done she asked how many girls I work with. And how many do I talk to like I'm trying to hide something. So I told her the truth and she flipped her lid and went off like I slept with these girls. I have to talk to the other sex. I think everyone does. Just because you go to the store and a female cashier asks you "paper or plastic?" do have to automatically assume I slept with her too? Then today I asked her to file the divorce after she told me two days ago she was gone and filling it then she tells me "no you go ahead and do it" what do you do with someone like this?

Edited January 28, 2013 by deaths diarrhea

[revitup]

Look out brother,if it is this bad this early,you will only see trouble as the time adds up.

 

I saw this too...18 yrs ago.Now I wish so badly that after my daughter was born 14 yrs ago,I had taken my D and flew the coop.

 

Jealousy in the early stages along with bad childhood and bad Ex's is a really bad indicator of things to come.

 

REVITUP

[deaths diarrhea]

I thought about that too. This isn't the first time this happened but it was the first time she used the D. But thanks for the reply rev, glad to have someone back me on some of my thoughts.

[2.50 a gallon]

Run, Forrest Run!

[tbf]

Are you in the military? If so, speak to your JAG. They may have some practical advice, if not full legal support.