sadsack77 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Have been married a little over 3 years. During that time I was using Vicodin and ended up in rehab. Sober now, thank goodness. Put him through some horrid experiences with lying, stealing money. Going through a bankruptcy now and wanting to get our home up for sale. He says he loves me he's just not in love with me. He says he's in a funk and that we shouldn't never have gotten married because we are both so irresponsible. I want him back. What should I do...counseling? Work on healing myself with therapy? Exercise? I need help. I am devastated.
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I'd first like to say that, being in love is the feeling associated with loving someone. During rough times, or depressing times, it can disappear. It can be brought back. I can see why he'd regret it; why it seems that way even. But it's not over yet, and you still have a chance. Seek marriage counseling. Seek constant help for yourself, until you feel as though you have beaten this wholly. Work at it. You and him need to communicate, and express. A marriage counselor can help you in this; another in you helping yourself. You have to prove that you are matured past this, to your husband as well. I am afraid you will have to take the first step and see. Talk to him about first giving counseling a try, rather then completely giving up on this marriage. But changes must be made, and I wish you the best. Come back for advice, comment back. Do not handle this alone, you can have help.
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