cantbef Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 So my ex and i broke up a couple of months ago because he got high and i really didn't like it and we never stopped talking to each other. He says he still loves me a lot and so do i so we're going to try to make it work again. But his friends (the same friends who gave him drugs and thus broke us up the first time) really hate me and i've gotten facebook messages from them telling me to "Seriously **** off and die you moronic thundercunt" and etc. He says for the sake of us working out he will just have to keep us a secret. Do you think i should give him a second chance? And if yes, will it work even though his friends hate me so much? Am i stupid for feeling so offended that he's okay with being friends with people who sent me these messages? I'm really not sure if i'm doing what's right...any comments would be appreciated. Thanks
lovecutsrightthruu Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 if he's really sincere in getting back with you and really loves you, I'd tell him him he needs to either ditch those who insulted you or at the very least severely rein them in. If you're gonna be his gf and you guys are gonna make a real go at this, then he needs to support and stand by you first and foremost.
Author cantbef Posted January 28, 2013 Author Posted January 28, 2013 I realize that. And I did tell him. But he said "ok im just going to say it like this 1. i love you 2. i do not give a f- what other people think 3. if they dont believe you i dont care, im not going to make them believe you" He really hates drama and says he really doesn't like people telling him who he can and cannot be friends with... I dunno what to do...
Drseussgrrl Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 What the hell. Are you guys in 8th grade? Seriously who says that type of crap. And yes I'd have a big problem with my bf being friends with people who would talk to you that way. 2
Minadee Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 You sound very young. I don't condone drugs at all but throughout my teens I experimented and got a little crazy. It's called "growing up" and being crazy while you can get away with it. If you loved your boyfriend, then you'd accept that this has happened, and hopefully it wont become a regular occurance.
Author cantbef Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 What the hell. Are you guys in 8th grade? Seriously who says that type of crap. And yes I'd have a big problem with my bf being friends with people who would talk to you that way. the guy who sent that thing to me is in university, but has the mental capacity of a 10 year old, yea.
Author cantbef Posted January 29, 2013 Author Posted January 29, 2013 You sound very young. I don't condone drugs at all but throughout my teens I experimented and got a little crazy. It's called "growing up" and being crazy while you can get away with it. If you loved your boyfriend, then you'd accept that this has happened, and hopefully it wont become a regular occurance. yea drugs isn't a problem anymore, i hated it then and i still hate it now, i told my ex if he wanted to get back together he would never be able to touch drugs again. i'm ok with what's happened now, but maybe i should give it some time for him to prove to me that he won't do drugs again before jumping back into a relationship with him? i'm not sure
BehindTheseHazelEyes Posted January 29, 2013 Posted January 29, 2013 An Ex is an ex for a reason. My personal boundary that perhaps you would like to make your own.
almosteverythingx Posted January 30, 2013 Posted January 30, 2013 An Ex is an ex for a reason. My personal boundary that perhaps you would like to make your own. In this case I think you should follow this advice....
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