Kimbra Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Any tips for where to meet good guys these days? Any would be helpful.
runner Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 with the exception of meth labs or the likes, perhaps it's not so much a question of 'where', but 'how', as in your original question. perhaps a good tip would be to not 'next' someone so quickly based on percieved superficial shortcomings, but instead take the chance to actually get to know them better. this probably can apply to both genders me thinks. 2
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Any tips for where to meet good guys these days? Any would be helpful. A good guy, or a physically attractive good guy? 1
SmileFace Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 A good guy, or a physically attractive good guy? What kind of question is that? 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 What kind of question is that? Makes a huge difference. When women say they want a good guy, they really mean they want a physically attractive good guy. Those guys tend to be hot commodities. 1
SmileFace Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Oh' date=' it's a perfectly valid question.[/quote'] Well if you think so ... I know it isn't a good question.
SmileFace Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Makes a huge difference. When women say they want a good guy, they really mean they want a physically attractive good guy. Those guys tend to be hot commodities. Are you a good guy?
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 (edited) Are you a good guy? Hmm. Well. I definitely have a lot of bitterness. But I'm really non-shallow and willing to give non-traditionally attractive women who are cool a chance. I'm not sure if people consider that a positive attribute though. I will never call another person ugly because I know how it feels. And I never blow people off in a platonic social sense if they are weird or annoying as long as they are good people. When I was in college, just about every woman who knew me thought I was the nicest guy in the world, but that was before the onset of my bitterness. Depends. Most women I know do think I'm a great guy, yes, but if they saw the stuff I posted here, they'd probably change their mind. Depends on how you define it. Edited January 28, 2013 by JuneJulySeptember 1
MrCastle Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 What kind of question is that? There's good people all over. Both men and women. Whether or not we find them physically attractive enough to date plays a part in our decision to pursue.
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 When women say they want a good guy, they really mean they want a physically attractive good guy. Those guys tend to be hot commodities. and when men say that they want a good girl, they really mean they want a physically attractive good girl. Those girls tend to be hot commodities. Thanks for the advice Captain Obvious. 1
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 and when men say that they want a good girl, they really mean they want a physically attractive good girl. Those girls tend to be hot commodities. Thanks for the advice Captain Obvious. I agree it's obvious. I'm not the one who asked for the clarification. You never know what kind of woman the OP is? I don't need a good looking woman. 1
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I agree it's obvious. I'm not the one who asked for the clarification. You never know what kind of woman the OP is? I don't need a good looking woman. Everyone needs someone whom they have some attraction to. You can't have a successful relationship without attraction. Whenever a woman asks where to find good men and vice versa they obviously mean places where singles tend to be and then from there beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She asked a simple question so it is irrelevant knowing what type of woman the OP is. 2
MrCastle Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Pyro does it ever get hot wearing all that armor? 1
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Pyro does it ever get hot wearing all that armor? I'm more like Wolverine. I don't need armor.
MrCastle Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Pyro does it ever get hot wearing all that armor? By the way I'm just busting your chops. I agree with you.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Everyone needs someone whom they have some attraction to. You can't have a successful relationship without attraction. Whenever a woman asks where to find good men and vice versa they obviously mean places where singles tend to be and then from there beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She asked a simple question so it is irrelevant knowing what type of woman the OP is. No. It's not irrelevant. Some women when they meet a good guy will be attracted on that facet alone. How the hell do you think I got here? That's pretty much my father in a nutshell. Good guy. Huge dweeb. Others will nix right away based on looks. So when women ask where can they meet a nice guy they might either mean, "A good looking nice guy" or "A nice guy period." 1
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 So when women ask where can they meet a nice guy they might either mean, "A good looking nice guy" or "A nice guy period." Everyone wants to meet someone attractive to them. Are you disagreeing with that?
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Any tips for where to meet good guys these days? Any would be helpful. I'll combine the where and how in this. You attempt to meet good guys by putting yourself out there. Don't stay inside living like a hermit. When you have free time leave the house and interact with the public. Go shopping, go to the park, go to a friends BBQ, go to bars, etc. (bars will most likely give you the thinnest chance of meeting a good guy but it can happen) 4
KungFuJoe Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 No. It's not irrelevant. Some women when they meet a good guy will be attracted on that facet alone. How the hell do you think I got here? That's pretty much my father in a nutshell. Good guy. Huge dweeb. Others will nix right away based on looks. So when women ask where can they meet a nice guy they might either mean, "A good looking nice guy" or "A nice guy period." What do people universally consider unattractive? Passive aggressiveness What are you being right now? Passive aggressive.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Everyone wants to meet someone attractive to them. Are you disagreeing with that? Physically attractive? If I met a really good gal, she'd become attractive. It's a big difference. There was just a big fight about it today in one of the threads between two female posters. 1
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Physically attractive? If I met a really good gal, she'd become attractive. It's a big difference. There was just a big fight about it today in one of the threads between two female posters. That is the only kind of attraction. You wouldn't start talking to said gal unless you had some attraction to her.
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 That is the only kind of attraction. You wouldn't start talking to said gal unless you had some attraction to her. Oh, I sure as hell would. And I have. If I talked to a gal over the phone and she was the sh@t and I saw her and she was not attractive, I'd give it every shot. Dude. Your face is just the way your skin is shaped around your bones. Not that important. 1
Pyro Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Oh, I sure as hell would. And I have. So don't assume you know me dude. There is a little group of guys here who think that obese girls are the spawn of satan. So you are saying that you would give the obese gal a chance and if she was a good girl (by your standards) then she would become attractive to you?
tbf Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I'll combine the where and how in this. You attempt to meet good guys by putting yourself out there. Don't stay inside living like a hermit. When you have free time leave the house and interact with the public. Go shopping, go to the park, go to a friends BBQ, go to bars, etc. (bars will most likely give you the thinnest chance of meeting a good guy but it can happen)You met your wife CE on LS. I met my wonderful husband while stuck in the snow visiting friends, where he helped dig me out since he was a neighbor who spotted my predicament. The two men dated prior to him were my neighbors in my last place. One I ended up just dating, the other, got into a short-term relationship with him. Both good guys. All it takes is stepping outside your home and who knows what might happen.
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