3 More Days til THE Day....

[rushingwaters]

Don't quote me on that percentage thing! I'm merely making an educated guess here!

[pbjbear]

Damn... I hope that doesn't happen. I don't think she's a "goody two shoes" though...

 

Im sorry I read through your history of threads you started and the way you talk about women and sex appalls me. You are a frat boy, you are in denial, and the other poster was right- how you come across is not how you say you are inside.

 

I have a hard time believing based on your past threads and other things youve said about women who didnt give it up easily that this one girl will magically change your mind

You defined a goody two shoes as someone who doesnt throw herself sexually at you or make some overt sexual move in a designated time period...wtf? some people dont do that not because they are a goody two shoes but for other reasons...ok?

[lakerman34]

Don't quote me on that percentage thing! I'm merely making an educated guess here!

 

You girls have convinced me. I'm not going for sex, but I AM going for making it OBVIOUS and being EXPLICIT that I like her (I've told her in the past "I NEVER say this about people, but you, ma'am, are THE ****. SOOO cool.")

 

She knows that I have a lot of female friends. Another possibility is she thinks that I'm just making her 'one of the others.' I mean, honestly, if the date is unsuccessful, then yes, she WILL be just 'one of the others,' but I've grown rather fond of her.

 

So no sex. I just hope doing no sex doesn't make her lose interest during the 80 days that I'm abroad.

 

And, like I said, she IS sexually frustrated, and she told me that she was looking for a relationship (not necessarily with me, but generally just looking for one because school can get lonely). I told her that I LOVED being single, could do whatever I want, don't have to answer to another person, all that. BUT, I told her, if the right girl comes along, I can be taken.

[lakerman34]

Im sorry I read through your history of threads you started and the way you talk about women and sex appalls me. You are a frat boy, you are in denial, and the other poster was right- how you come across is not how you say you are inside.

 

I have a hard time believing based on your past threads and other things youve said about women who didnt give it up easily that this one girl will magically change your mind

You defined a goody two shoes as someone who doesnt throw herself sexually at you or make some overt sexual move in a designated time period...wtf? some people dont do that not because they are a goody two shoes but for other reasons...ok?

 

My sophomore year of college, one of the most gorgeous girls in the class below me (freshman) was watching a movie with me during Halloween. A guy that I was FRIENDLY with (not even friends with) REALLY liked this girl, head over heels. The girl ended up mounting me like a horse, ripping my clothes off. I told her to get the hell off of me because my friend liked her.

 

May not be the best example, but an example, nonetheless.

 

I'm a lot more virtuous than most "frat guys" are, ma'am.

 

Here's another one: I was in a sorority house, on their common room couch. There were about ten other girls sitting around, I was the only guy. One obnoxious girl asked me "so, what does it feel like to be around all these girls, ya player?" I responded: you're all just human beings, no different than I, really. The only difference is I wouldn't crack a penis or fart joke in front of you girls.

 

She said something along the lines of "we've got the dalai lama over here."

 

You have me COMPLETELY wrong, PBJ.

[lakerman34]

Im sorry I read through your history of threads you started and the way you talk about women and sex appalls me. You are a frat boy, you are in denial, and the other poster was right- how you come across is not how you say you are inside.

 

I have a hard time believing based on your past threads and other things youve said about women who didnt give it up easily that this one girl will magically change your mind

You defined a goody two shoes as someone who doesnt throw herself sexually at you or make some overt sexual move in a designated time period...wtf? some people dont do that not because they are a goody two shoes but for other reasons...ok?

 

Also, I looked back at my history too. What posts are you talking about? I've been on this site for several reasons: this new girl, to get over my ex, and to help others get over their exes. I'm actually NOTORIOUS for being respectful of women. I actually consider myself a feminist.

[rushingwaters]

You girls have convinced me. I'm not going for sex, but I AM going for making it OBVIOUS and being EXPLICIT that I like her (I've told her in the past "I NEVER say this about people, but you, ma'am, are THE ****. SOOO cool.")

 

She knows that I have a lot of female friends. Another possibility is she thinks that I'm just making her 'one of the others.' I mean, honestly, if the date is unsuccessful, then yes, she WILL be just 'one of the others,' but I've grown rather fond of her.

 

So no sex. I just hope doing no sex doesn't make her lose interest during the 80 days that I'm abroad.

 

And, like I said, she IS sexually frustrated, and she told me that she was looking for a relationship (not necessarily with me, but generally just looking for one because school can get lonely). I told her that I LOVED being single, could do whatever I want, don't have to answer to another person, all that. BUT, I told her, if the right girl comes along, I can be taken.

 

A girl is not going to lose interest in you because you don't have sex with her after the first date. (Where on earth did you get that from???) Even if she is sexually frustrated. If she does, then that means she only sees you as a booty call. Clearly you want something more. And I think she does too.

 

So yes, tell her you like her. And don't turn into one of those guys who lets sex (the lack of sex and/or too much sex) ruin a relationship. It does have the power to do so especially in the beginning of a new relationship.

[pbjbear]

My sophomore year of college, one of the most gorgeous girls in the class below me (freshman) was watching a movie with me during Halloween. A guy that I was FRIENDLY with (not even friends with) REALLY liked this girl, head over heels. The girl ended up mounting me like a horse, ripping my clothes off. I told her to get the hell off of me because my friend liked her.

 

May not be the best example, but an example, nonetheless.

 

I'm a lot more virtuous than most "frat guys" are, ma'am.

 

Here's another one: I was in a sorority house, on their common room couch. There were about ten other girls sitting around, I was the only guy. One obnoxious girl asked me "so, what does it feel like to be around all these girls, ya player?" I responded: you're all just human beings, no different than I, really. The only difference is I wouldn't crack a penis or fart joke in front of you girls.

 

She said something along the lines of "we've got the dalai lama over here."

 

You have me COMPLETELY wrong, PBJ.

 

Guys say whatever they can to seem nice...especially frat boy types

 

Most boys are jerks, esp frat boys at your age. There are ones that admit and ones that dont. You are the latter

 

Your actions and the way you describe girls in your past posts negate what you said to those 10 girls. Words are cheap...actions are much louder

 

of course youd say that! What guy would admit he just wants to **** all of them but pretends theyre a human being as a means to an end?

[lakerman34]

Guys say whatever they can to seem nice...especially frat boy types

 

Most boys are jerks, esp frat boys at your age. There are ones that admit and ones that dont. You are the latter

 

Your actions and the way you describe girls in your past posts negate what you said to those 10 girls. Words are cheap...actions are much louder

 

of course youd say that! What guy would admit he just wants to **** all of them but pretends theyre a human being as a means to an end?

 

As I said before, NONE of my posts are demeaning to women. I actually read some of YOUR past posts and (although you've already mentioned this), you really DO seem like a man hater. I'm curious as to why this is....

 

From a VERY young age I've been told that I'm respectful to women. One of my best friends (female, friends for 11 years) told me that I have a "Knight in Shining Armour" Complex because I have this burning desire to treat the women in my life well, and I get VERY protective. She told me never to change that about myself.

[pbjbear]

As I said before, NONE of my posts are demeaning to women. I actually read some of YOUR past posts and (although you've already mentioned this), you really DO seem like a man hater. I'm curious as to why this is....

 

If you think they arent demeaning, you are seriously delusional and theres no point arguing with you.

 

I hate certain types of men, because they are shallow selfish and end up hurting women then justify everything. I dont hate all men and I have several replies talking about men I do like

[todreaminblue]

Alright, some things have happened.

 

So, I got drunk last weekend (I may be repeating myself here) and told her she was 'cute' and how 'a girl that can rock high heels can get me to do anything,' which she responded "ANYTHING, huh?"

 

Well, yesterday afternoon, she texts me. Her flatmate had plans for a party since last October that was supposed to be on the night of our date.

 

She completely forgot that she promised her flatmate she'd help out, so she texts me and tells me that she has to cancel, and figured I'd understand more than her flatmate.

 

I was freaking out, but played it cool. I told her "that's fine, I'm still going to head to the school to hang out w/ my ex-flatmate anyway."

 

She then said "we can still split the bottle of bourbon," which I responded, "look, I want to go to the Presidential Ball, and I want to take you. Now, I had no intention of going for the entire 4 hours, so this may work better. This way, I can be all dressed up to pick you up, and it'll be cute. So I'll pick you up at midnightish?"

 

She thanked me for understanding, and told me 'sounds good, but she can't make any guarantees on the semi-formal part' (she is a VERY blunt girl). I told her I'd call her Friday afternoon to get final plans.

 

This COULD be better than the original plan b/c originally we were going to have dinner together, watch a movie, drink, go to the semi-formal, then hang out (too long of a date, if you ask me). Now, only PART of the semi-formal, drink, hang out, POSSIBLY watch the movie.

 

HOWEVER, I still have this strange feeling that she is going to flake on me at the last moment. Also, on top of that, her best friend is a guy. Now, she's the type to get along better with guys than girls(not into girly talk, make-up, or any of that stuff, a true tomboy), but I know a couple of years ago she pursued him RIGHT after he got off a relationship, and it didn't work out. She RARELY brings him up to me (I think only 2 or 3 times for the past 7 weeks which we have talked together), but I've heard they have a very "interesting" friendship where, at sometimes, they seem very argumentative, and sometimes, they seem "in love." Some of her friends told me that they have relationship potential, others have told me that she friendzoned him a while ago.

 

He was abroad ALL last semester, and now he's back and I know they are hanging out A LOT. It makes me nervous. I have this bad feeling that if he wanted to make a move, he could have her. HOWEVER, she's into that MBTI stuff, and she's a Thinker, he's a Feeler, and she has told me that she can't see herself with a Feeler in the past (doesn't know how to deal with extreme emotions very well).

 

I'm not going to contact her in any shape, way, or form until Friday afternoon (like I told her). I 'lied' to her and told her I purchased the bottle of bourbon already and it's in the fridge chilling (so she feels sort of obligated to partake in festivities with me).

 

Which leads to my FINAL question. Sex. I feel like all conversations she and I have had are leading to sex being inevitable. That's cool, of course, I love sex, but I also don't want to feel like I can ruin anything with her. I will be in South Africa for about 80 days, and will keep in touch with her via FB. I almost feel like having sex with her will strengthen the bond, but I'm afraid of 'moving too fast' (a reason why my ex and I broke up back in October). I also think that it would eliminate her friend as an option if I slept with her (kind of like "he knew what he wanted, so he went for it, you're just a friend").

 

My best friend is in a happy, healthy relationship right now, and he told me that he and his girlfriend held off on sex until they both "knew they were ready." To be honest, I'm always ready for sex, I see it as a physical act more than an emotional act, and I feel like she may think the same way. He told me "then if it feels right, go for it." It always feels right for me, but I don't want to make her feel like "I don't want to REALLY have sex with him, but I want him to like me and not sleep around in South Africa."

 

Thoughts?

 

 

making someone feel obligated is not the way to go......i dont like making people feel obligated into spending time with me...either they want to or they dont and if they do want to i know its legit...much better than having a nagging doubt in your head seeing you are thinker.......you will over think this gaff.....I wouldn't like it if i found out a guy had manipulated me into feeling obligated......as far as the other guy goes.....if she likes you more and sees you as potential the other guy wont get a look in...if she likes him more....she will be with him...you cant really affect that situation as it is up to her....but you can be yourself......do that ...and dont play games....you will change your true nature, chill and relax,be confident in who you are and what you bring to the table, seems that is what she wants to do ...you do that ....should turn out fine....deb

[rushingwaters]

My sophomore year of college, one of the most gorgeous girls in the class below me (freshman) was watching a movie with me during Halloween. A guy that I was FRIENDLY with (not even friends with) REALLY liked this girl, head over heels. The girl ended up mounting me like a horse, ripping my clothes off. I told her to get the hell off of me because my friend liked her.

 

May not be the best example, but an example, nonetheless.

 

I'm a lot more virtuous than most "frat guys" are, ma'am.

 

Here's another one: I was in a sorority house, on their common room couch. There were about ten other girls sitting around, I was the only guy. One obnoxious girl asked me "so, what does it feel like to be around all these girls, ya player?" I responded: you're all just human beings, no different than I, really. The only difference is I wouldn't crack a penis or fart joke in front of you girls.

 

She said something along the lines of "we've got the dalai lama over here."

 

You have me COMPLETELY wrong, PBJ.

 

Bad examples. These are all sorority/party girls. They only represent a fraction of all women. You have a biased experience with women. If you were to encounter similar women, then you'll be an expert. But if I were to hook you up with a random girl, you could very well come off as disgusting to her... who knows.

[lakerman34]

Bad examples. These are all sorority/party girls. They only represent a fraction of all women. You have a biased experience with women. If you were to encounter similar women, then you'll be an expert. But if I were to hook you up with a random girl, you could very well come off as disgusting to her... who knows.

 

I WILL agree with PBJ on this one....my current interest and I have spoken about how I pretty easily attract sorority girls, and that they just aren't for me. I'm into the deep intellectual conversation, more 'big picture' types of people in general, something this girl has. She would be the first of her kind that I am pursuing, and I kind of joked how she has to 'give me some allowance' because the cocky, douchebag side of me still wants to come out.

 

That being said, she's very aware that I am extremely confident and self-assured, and she really likes that about me because, well, for her age, she has VERY high self-esteem and confidence herself. She told me "I want a guy that has bigger balls than I do," and I think she was referring to me.

 

EDIT: The girl that mounted me actually was NOT a sorority/party girl. VERY introverted, VERY 'keep to herself,' but considered to be one of the 'hottest' girls in her class.

[pbjbear]

I WILL agree with PBJ on this one....my current interest and I have spoken about how I pretty easily attract sorority girls, and that they just aren't for me. I'm into the deep intellectual conversation, more 'big picture' types of people in general, something this girl has. She would be the first of her kind that I am pursuing, and I kind of joked how she has to 'give me some allowance' because the cocky, douchebag side of me still wants to come out.

 

That being said, she's very aware that I am extremely confident and self-assured, and she really likes that about me because, well, for her age, she has VERY high self-esteem and confidence herself. She told me "I want a guy that has bigger balls than I do," and I think she was referring to me.

 

Well you might end up in a pickle. Sorority girls will give you that overt sexiness and lack of "goody two shoes" type of sex youre looking for, but if their values dont align with yours youd be better off distancing yourself from this lifestyle.

 

I have a feeling alot of "goody two shoes" would fit what you are looking for personality wise...but intellectual girls rarely throw themselves at men (because theyre smart...) Many will not want to sleep with you right away and it seems you are not good with that despite the fact that you say you are. Who knows, maybe youll find one who has both qualities

 

You seem like a douchebag. Your past posts make it seem like you really just do see girls as sex objects but you want the emotional security as well. If youre not like that perhaps stop talking about them like they are.

 

Sorry I told you I am a blatantly honest person.

Edited January 31, 2013 by pbjbear

[lakerman34]

Well you might end up in a pickle. Sorority girls will give you that overt sexiness and lack of "goody two shoes" type of sex youre looking for, but if their values dont align with yours youd be better off distancing yourself from this lifestyle.

 

I have a feeling alot of "goody two shoes" would fit what you are looking for personality wise...but intellectual girls rarely throw themselves at men (because theyre smart...) Many will not want to sleep with you right away and it seems you are not good with that despite the fact that you say you are. Who knows, maybe youll find one who has both qualities

 

You seem like a douchebag. Your past posts make it seem like you really just do see girls as sex objects but you want the emotional security as well. If youre not like that perhaps stop talking about them like they are

 

Sorry I told you I am a blatantly honest person.

 

I'm a very results-oriented, future-oriented, big picture person. And I ALWAYS accomplish what I plan out ahead of time. Kind of field marshall like (that's actually the name for my personality type), and yes, a lot of people see me as a douchebag, but the reality of the matter is, I get things done, usually failure is not an option, and I will demand a certain standard to be met from my colleagues/peers to help me get what I need to get done.

 

This carries into my sex/love life as well. If success makes me a douchebag, I'm OK with that. This girl is VERY aware that this is how I am, and she is VERY aware that I'm aggressive (and I think she quite likes it, honestly).

 

And, so you know, I'm the kind of guy that would be standing in front of the line during a women's rights/equal opportunity demonstration. I have some strong women in my life, and I am so grateful I came out a guy b/c you women have it a thousand times harder. I don't know of many guys that would admit that.

Edited January 31, 2013 by lakerman34

[pbjbear]

I'm a very results-oriented, future-oriented, big picture person. And I ALWAYS accomplish what I plan out ahead of time. Kind of field marshall like (that's actually the name for my personality type), and yes, a lot of people see me as a douchebag, but the reality of the matter is, I get things done, usually failure is not an option, and I will demand a certain standard to be met from my colleagues/peers to help me get what I need to get done.

 

This carries into my sex/love life as well. If success makes me a douchebag, I'm OK with that. This girl is VERY aware that this is how I am, and she is VERY aware that I'm aggressive (and I think she quite likes it, honestly).

 

Douchebag because youre too focused on partying and sex being immature and playing mind games. Cocky- because people have said you seem frat boyish, and for good reason your posts scream it, but you seem to deny it. I know focus oriented people who are ambitious and successful without these qualities...

 

I like confident men. Not cocky men. Who dont think they are god's gift to the world and read too much into others actions to justify their selfish agenda

[lakerman34]

Douchebag because youre too focused on partying and sex being immature and playing mind games. Cocky- because people have said you seem frat boyish, and for good reason your posts scream it, but you seem to deny it. I know focus oriented people who are ambitious and successful without these qualities...

 

I like confident men. Not cocky men. Who dont think they are god's gift to the world and read too much into others actions to justify their selfish agenda

 

So now I apparently think that I'm god's gift to the world? HAHAHAHA. I'm sorry PBJ, I think I've just lost all respect for you.

 

Funny thing is, if you met me face to face, you'd probably be eating all your words. I'm constantly told I'm the nicest guy. Yes, very confident, and maybe even narcissist, but I'm the first to offer a hand when someone needs help, adults (I'm talking 30+) LOVE me, and I'm constantly told "you have your head on straight, kid."

 

I've actually seen someone for my narcissism, and though I am working on it, he (a Psy.D. that I've been seeing for years) tells me it's OK because I bring others up with me (i.e. my best friend, the architect, thought he was incapable of going to school all the years necessary. I would talk to him for HOURS telling him YES YOU CAN SHUT UP, THIS IS YOUR LIFE GOAL, GO FOR IT, AND DON'T LOOK BACK. That's exactly what he did).

Edited January 31, 2013 by lakerman34

[pbjbear]

So now I apparently think that I'm god's gift to the world? HAHAHAHA. I'm sorry PBJ, I think I've just lost all respect for you.

 

Funny thing is, if you met me face to face, you'd probably be eating all your words. I'm constantly told I'm the nicest guy. Yes, very confident, and maybe even narcissist, but I'm the first to offer a hand when someone needs help, adults (I'm talking 30+) LOVE me, and I'm constantly told "you have your head on straight, kid."

 

People that say you are nice dont know you too well. Lots of narcissists come off that way initially because they are manipulative and know how to act to get what they want (because their world revolves around them and what they want)...you are sweet to get what you want and to get people to like you.

 

Your past posts seem to indicate you always need to be seeing someone and have external validation from women, you need to be liked- so of course you offer to help people. You give very weak arguments

 

Yeah, cocky people think theyre awesome. Your posts clearly show you think you are so awesome. If you didnt want me to think that, maybe tone down your arrogance a bit. You def cross over the line of confidence into cockiness...just dial it back a bit

 

You do know a narcissist is not a nice person? Huge contradiction. Narcissists care only about themselves once you get past their walls

[rushingwaters]

So now I apparently think that I'm god's gift to the world? HAHAHAHA. I'm sorry PBJ, I think I've just lost all respect for you.

 

Funny thing is, if you met me face to face, you'd probably be eating all your words. I'm constantly told I'm the nicest guy. Yes, very confident, and maybe even narcissist, but I'm the first to offer a hand when someone needs help, adults (I'm talking 30+) LOVE me, and I'm constantly told "you have your head on straight, kid."

 

I've actually seen someone for my narcissism, and though I am working on it, he (a Psy.D. that I've been seeing for years) tells me it's OK because I bring others up with me (i.e. my best friend, the architect, thought he was incapable of going to school all the years necessary. I would talk to him for HOURS telling him YES YOU CAN SHUT UP, THIS IS YOUR LIFE GOAL, GO FOR IT, AND DON'T LOOK BACK. That's exactly what he did).

 

Hahaha I'm sorry but I find your conversation very.... interesting. You two are definitely very different people coming from very different backgrounds. I'm just gonna be Switzerland.

[pbjbear]

Hahaha I'm sorry but I find your conversation very.... interesting. You two are definitely very different people coming from very different backgrounds. I'm just gonna be Switzerland.

 

If I hadnt read his past posts I would have said different things...seriously, go read his past threads. Cocky, douchey, very into the frat lifestyle, makes fun of women who dont act like a pornstar early on, justifies all his selfish excuses, makes it seem like hes such a "nice guy"

 

I read his other threa and responded to it when he said if a girl doesnt make a physical move early on shes a "goody two shoes" and the only way hed give her the time of day is if she just pulled down his pants right then and there...then proceeded to say he is a nice guy

 

I call a guy on his bull**** when I see it

[lakerman34]

People that say you are nice dont know you too well. Lots of narcissists come off that way initially because they are manipulative and know how to act to get what they want (because their world revolves around them and what they want)...you are sweet to get what you want and to get people to like you.

 

Your past posts seem to indicate you always need to be seeing someone and have external validation from women, you need to be liked- so of course you offer to help people. You give very weak arguments

 

Yeah, cocky people think theyre awesome. Your posts clearly show you think you are so awesome. If you didnt want me to think that, maybe tone down your arrogance a bit. You def cross over the line of confidence into cockiness...just dial it back a bit

 

You do know a narcissist is not a nice person? Huge contradiction. Narcissists care only about themselves once you get past their walls

 

My arguments are not weak. Yours are based on A LOT of assumptions about me and how I act. Yes, a lot of what I do IS to get what I want, and some MAY see that as manipulation. And even I see that as manipulation, at times. I don't know whose past posts you are looking at, I'm an advocate of being single until the right girl comes in. If I hang out with this girl and feel like she'd serve me better as a friend than a girlfriend, then yes, she'll still be a friend. If I want her to be my girlfriend and she doesn't want me to be her boyfriend, then yes, I'll delete her from my phone and probably never talk to her again.

 

And I do think I'm awesome. I think everybody should think they're awesome.

 

And you CLEARLY don't know what a narcissist is. There are MANY of them, and MANY (maybe even MOST) ARE, indeed, nice people.

 

Such is life.

[lakerman34]

Hahaha I'm sorry but I find your conversation very.... interesting. You two are definitely very different people coming from very different backgrounds. I'm just gonna be Switzerland.

 

I speak in facts. PBJ is making HUGE leaps and assumptions. It's terrible arguing.

[pbjbear]

My arguments are not weak. Yours are based on A LOT of assumptions about me and how I act. Yes, a lot of what I do IS to get what I want, and some MAY see that as manipulation. And even I see that as manipulation, at times. I don't know whose past posts you are looking at, I'm an advocate of being single until the right girl comes in. If I hang out with this girl and feel like she'd serve me better as a friend than a girlfriend, then yes, she'll still be a friend. If I want her to be my girlfriend and she doesn't want me to be her boyfriend, then yes, I'll delete her from my phone and probably never talk to her again.

 

And I do think I'm awesome. I think everybody should think they're awesome.

 

And you CLEARLY don't know what a narcissist is. There are MANY of them, and MANY (maybe even MOST) ARE, indeed, nice people.

 

 

 

Such is life.

 

Honey, Ive worked in the mental health field. Narcissists never admit what they are and spent so much time thinking they are perfect. so all your excuses really amuse me

 

You say this this that that but look at your posts and situations with girls and you clearly are douchey and manipulative. Im not gonna respond anymore because you dont really see what you are, as the other guy said you have your head up your ass

[lakerman34]

Honey, Ive worked in the mental health field. Narcissists never admit what they are and spent so much time thinking they are perfect. so all your excuses really amuse me

 

A narcissist usually thinks he is on a pedestal. Honey, I AM one of them. And I KNOW a few of them. There are times we look at someone and think "I'm smarter than him," or "I could do such and such better than him," but only a handful of us would actually think we are intrinsically BETTER than him. As a human being, I don't think I'm intrinsically better than ANY other human being. Sure, I may go on to be the best doctor in the world, and someone else may go on to be a bum, but INTRINSICALLY, my life is worth no more than his. So I'm a BIG advocate for respecting others.

 

My ex was a narcissist herself. She thought her **** smelled like roses. When she started disrespecting me because she thought she was somehow BETTER than me, I knew it was time to get out.

[pbjbear]

A narcissist usually thinks he is on a pedestal. Honey, I AM one of them. And I KNOW a few of them. There are times we look at someone and think "I'm smarter than him," or "I could do such and such better than him," but only a handful of us would actually think we are intrinsically BETTER than him. As a human being, I don't think I'm intrinsically better than ANY other human being. Sure, I may go on to be the best doctor in the world, and someone else may go on to be a bum, but INTRINSICALLY, my life is worth no more than his.

 

 

Im judging by your actions not your words...you dont have actions to back up your statements except for a few half-assed self compliments to some sorority girls

[lakerman34]

Im judging by your actions not your words...you dont have actions to back up your statements except for a few half-assed self compliments to some sorority girls

 

Except when I call a girl beautiful, I usually genuinely mean it. And it doesn't mean I want to have sex with them. Compliments are hard to come by from me.

Edited January 31, 2013 by lakerman34