sagweee Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 I have been talking about this horrible experience with other women who also had similar bad experiences with this man David, and some of these women had seen him "working" on a new victim recently. I decided to take the initiative with their encouragement to call up this person and warn her of him. It turns out that this new potential victim which we'll call "Anna" told me he is persuing her right now, but she isn't interested in him. She told him the previous night she was seeing someone else and he still tried to ask her out on the week-end. She politely told him she'd see him at the club on Friday night so as not to appear rude. I told her all about my experience with him and that of other women and she was shocked. He'd even talked to her about other women and lied about us, saying we'd thought he was seeing us at the same time, but wasn't. All this talk to her about other women after him, I call it his "sales pitch", to try to lure her in. It turns out both Anna and I live in the same suburb, so we decided to go to the dinner together on Friday night and sit together. When he approaches her she will make out that she bumped into me in the store a few days ago and tell him we became buddies. Some of the other women might come there also on Friday night to sit at our table and watch the reaction on his face when he sees some of his victims all seated together. Why should I feel uncomfortable going to a place I like just because of this creep? I don't want to not go there just because of him. He should be the one to feel uncomfortable being there, not me and the other victims, right? Any additional feedback appreciated. Thanks. It's still been tough, but I survived!!
Moose Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 I say stand your ground. Even if he shows up there and you're there. Ignore him, and don't worry about warning others unless they're your friends. He'll develope his own reputation.
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