Mysterious1 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I have been seeing (dating) this guy since the beginning of this month. We have been on 5 dates so far. I spent 3 nights at his place and he spent one night at my place. We text each other every day so there is always some kind of communication between us, although I'd rather him call me instead of texting all the time. We did have sex (twice); on the fourth and fifth date. I'm not even sure if he is still interested in me or not. The reason I say so is that he doesn't text as much as he used to but he still does. He initiates most of the texting first. My question is when should I talk to him about being exclusive?
sabre80 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 I cast my vote on having the exclusive talk BEFORE having sex. But that's me.
pbjbear Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 Personally, 5 dates is not long enough to become exclusive. Sorry, but how someone acts during the first 5 dates is rarely representative of how they normally act and I like to know what Im getting myself into. It really takes a few months to get to know someone. I know you prob feel attached since youve had sex, but its better to take your time rather than rush into a relationship that could end very quickly. This is the reason why I have yet to have a real boyfriend (one that lasts beyond being official for a month or two) Dont rush
clia Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 My question is when should I talk to him about being exclusive? When he brings up the topic. I'm not even sure if he is still interested in me or not. Is he still asking to see you and taking you out on dates? Or are you just randomly texting each other daily or every other day with no real plans on when to get together again? 1
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