progfan71 Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 My ex girlfriend broke up with me two months ago. It wasn't entirely a mutal decision, and I made the classic mistakes of begging and pleading to no avail. Since breaking up, i have seen her on a few occasions when she has come over to my place. We hung out, laughed, and had great sex. Just after Christmas she told me it wasn't a good idea to keep seeing each other. I kept in touch with her in a light and pleasant manner through FB, texts, and phonecalls, and e enventually got her to agree to see me last Thursday. The meeting was going well and I thought I had a chance to get her back, when she suddenly said she was seeing her ex-husband again and that they were getting along well. She also said that her ex was kicking out his girlfriend but did not say if she was moving back in with him. At this point I panicked and asked her if she would give me another chance. She said she had feelings for me, and for her ex husband, and that it wouldn't be fair for her ex if she got back with me. She said maybe in the future we could try again, but I think she was just being nice. I called her after getting home and said she needed to give me some space and not contact me altbough i want to be friends. She was very upset that I was going NC and said she loved me, and was crying. What should I do? Is this a rebound, only with her ex-husband? HELP PLEASE, dont know what to do.
CptSaveAho Posted January 28, 2013 Posted January 28, 2013 if there's an ex husband in the picture... you were the rebound time to move on and NC
Author progfan71 Posted January 28, 2013 Author Posted January 28, 2013 She was divorced years ago, at least 3. Am I really the rebound? Or did she just feel lonely and went back to the familiarity of her ex?
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